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Is this real love or not? [sry its long]
16/m.-will rate- we met in a chat room, along with id say about 20 other kids. this was before the summer of 2003 and you know we were mostly from the same general area, east coast, but a few random people from cali n stuff. well anyways we all became pretty good friends, guys and girls all between 8th grade[where I was in at that time] and seniors and somehowI knew there was something different about one of them. well I thought you know: she didn’t notice me, she lives too far, blah blah blah. until I decided to, along with one of the guys there who was older, play a prank on her that id ask her out, and when she said no pretend to wanna kill myself.
at first it was hilarious, but then once I realized I hurt her feelings, I knew somethin was wrong
because I liked her as a friend nothing more, because I really didn’t know but I knew she liked me more than that so she felt terrible and then I felt bad too and I was like: wow I guess I must really care
so I told her everything n she told me everything how we felt n stuff. from then on we were...I guess u culd say closer friends. I asked her out everyday as a joke, n she always sed no and then I actually got serious, so I convinced her to believe me. after like 3 weeks and around august
she came around and sed yes. now ur thinkin, wtf is that, thats beyond insane.
she actually doesn’t live too far and yeah I know, we wer young n had no idea what we wer getting into it wasn’t like you know, something real, just for fun I guess. since then
shes been i guess... my 'gf'. now 2 things
1. she knew what i looked like and were i lived
2. i didnt know where she lived, or what she looked like. even crazier right? We actually met for the first time in person 3 days ago, still cant believe we pulled it off. Well what I wanna know is…would you consider this to be real love or a real relationship, why or why not. thanks
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Anything that lasts as long as your relationship is something special.
I think you have a relationship. It may take a little longer for you to decide on weather or not it is love....but I will tell you this. You have a great start.
Good luck to you both. :)
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Yeah. I think it is a real relationship. I've become friends with many people on chat rooms (all as a group) and I know some of them who have had successful relationships with people they've met on the same site.
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It's definitely a real realationship and a really cute story. Love isn't something that just is or isn't. It takes some time for it to grow and for you to realize that it's there. You two are great friends it seems and that's always a wonderful start to love. What makes it even better is that you didn't have any idea what she looked like so your feelings initial are more than likely not based on her physically (which is a good thing). You two have the potential for a very good relationship. Whether you love her or not is up to you, but I'll bet that you do...or you're at least very close. Good luck!
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hey there! it's actually all up to you. do you love her, not like an infatuation for a person online or something, but where you actually accept her for herself, no matter how far she lives or even if you have only met her in person now? That may be true love, but overall, it's all about you.
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Depends on what you define love as. From what it seems I think that yeah, it seems like real love. If you and the girl think it is, then by all means, best of luck.
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heck yessss shes probably a complete hottie<33
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