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i went to a party at the end of skool in the middle of june. i got drunk n was unconsious. i've been throwing up and noticed a little bulge below my belly button. could some guy have fucked me while i was unconsious?HELP PLZ!

i would doubt it, but still, possibly

your best bet, is to wait until the 1st week of august, and get a pregnancy test, or since u say the middle of june, maybe u should get one now, if it turns out negative, wait 2 days, then do it again(they're not 100% correct)

if it comes out positive see a doctor

WHAT WERE U DOING DRINKING, unless u mean the end of your second college year, then u were doin sum ilegal activities.

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my boyfriend went to a club without asking...and told me afterwards...i have the right to be mad right?...if i went he would of killed me...i cant take it anymore we fight so much but i love him so much how can i stop the fighting? please help i rate....

if he didn't cheat, how is it a bid deal

i don't think my guy would have to ask me permission to do that, now if he was goin sumplace wit all grls, like sum grls party, and he was like the only guy, yea he'd better ask my permission, but it's a club, get used to it, now if he yelled at u, or got mad at u for doin it, be like wtf, if u can i sure as heck can, i don't see y either of u would get mad if the other 1 went to a club, as long as there's no cheatin involved, or kno gettin to close, there shouldn't be anything wrong

i think you're over reactin, and if he ever got mad at u for doin it, then he's overreactin

hunny, im gunna tell u sumthin that u won't wanna here, Grow Up, he went to a club, there aint nuthin wrong wit that

and please, don't rate, cuz i kno u'd prolly give this a 1, cuz u think im tryin to be all mean, but actually im not tryin to be mean, im just bein honest!!

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how do you rate other peoples columns? if you tell me and i understand it i will rate....5's!! xox Emily
((i just picked a random catergory))

after sum1 answers ur questions, at the end of their answer, there will be numbers that look like this
1-2-3-4-5, and it will say sumthin like rate, or sumthin

u click on 1 of the numbers, and then it will bring u to a page where u can choose to leave feedback, if u don't wanna leave feedback, then u can click on the link that says sumthin like return to questions

and thats how you rate :-D
Hope i helped

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Hey How do u rate people's columns and how do u put a background on your column page.


ThNx~bRitt

after sum1 answers the Q, towards the bottom it will have numbers 1-5, and u click on one of them, 1 being worst 5 being best

and for your background...

the site i go to is actually the same as that other person... http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

and u copy the link, go to edit setings, and you scroll all the way down, it will say sumthin like page backround url, then u paste

hit submit, and see how u like it
u can also go to google search or yahoo search, u get cool backrounds there too!!

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how do you get music on your column?

there are certain sites to go to, but it doesn't matter any more, because we aren't allowed to, admin banned it for certain reasons

but if for sum odd reason u still wanna kno, leave 1 in the inbox (because u can still put music on other websites of yours)

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im 13 yrs old and a gurl i want to know a good FUNNY halloween costume i know its early but i want an original cool costume. but i dont wwant it to cost too much whats to best costume you've ever seen?

well, u can dress up as a gangsta

u could wear a white shirt
a bandana on ur head
jeans wit a whole in em

thats wut i was last yr

i was a boy/gangsta
im also a grl, it was so much fun :-D

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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant?

nope, not if u had your period

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Hey I was just wondering what kind of shampoo's work the best, I wanna have a nice, straight look with not that many frizzy's if its possible.. lol thanks!

here r sum shampoos that i use
u mite also want conditioners, they're almost a must!!

herbal essence
suave
pantine pro v

there are more, but i just don't feel like lookin!!

i think that there's sumthin called frizz ease, or sumthin like that but im not sure if it's shampoo or not

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hey i was wondering, does hem on pants look rele bad? i'll rate!

no, i don't think so, but it depensd if it's done correctly and really i guess it all differs, because we all have different opinions on that subject, to sum ppl it looks bad, but to others it doesn't matter

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Help guys, I'm scared to go to the club with my friends because I don't know how to dance! Like even when were just jokin aroudn and dancing I won't do it because I don't know how. I don't know how to move my arms, legs, or stomache. I honestly need help!
Thank You sooooo much

just go wit the flow
when ur listenin to music, it all happens
my friends an i joke around constantly about me, cuz i can't dance, and they show me sum moves, and it's just HILARIOUS when i try to copy them, just have fun!!

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Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do?

tell ur friend how you feel about it

maybe u should check out the faq, there's prolly another question like this in there

but no offense, but that wasn't the hardest thing to solve, if u have a problem wit sum1, u talk to them about it

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He's 20. I'm 16.

My current boyfriend started as a crush. We didn't rush into things we started out as just friends. Now that we are together he has changed. I think he tries too hard to please me and becomes irritated very easily. He seems so insecure and ...well ... just different from the person I knew when we were just friends. Our phone conversations have become a so unbearable I hardly return his calls. HE senses that there is some tension but I don't think I can explain to him exactly what's wrong. How can I get him to be himself around me again?

you can tell him that u r startin to feel uncomfortable, and it feels as if he's actin like sum1 else, and u miss the old him

just try to talk, i kno that u don't think u can explain it, but practice talkin to him by talkin to a pillow or sumthin, eventually it will get easier for u to explain, just tell him kind wut u told us

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Okay herr it goes.. My best friend is haveing a swimmin party at her house. On the same day i get my peroid. It would be my 2nd period ever so is therr a good chance i won't get it cause i'm not on a regualr cycle.. or ami most likely to get it? i'm a pad wearer.. i'm swichin to tampon in bout a year or so..so i really done wanan try 1 but i have to go kuz she's my best friend.. wut do u all think..
Signed,
Help!

you never know
your best bet is to see how comfortable you are with a tampon in, but if u don't want to, then here's this

dependin on if u have or haven't started skool by the day of ur period, okay, well sum1 i kno said that the health teacher said that because of sum gravity thing, then the blood won't cum out in the pool

i don't really believe that, cuz i didn't actually here it from the teacher, and because it's hard to belive

but i say u go, but just hang out around the pool

or where the smallest pad u can and just float like on a floaty thing, u can get sumthin like that for around $2 at big lots, and it actually isn't 'cheap' as in it works

Good Luck, just try the tampon, if not then don't go in the pool

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wuts a good way to loose weight

excersise, eat smaller portions, and believe in urself, and believe that u can lose the weight as long as u try as hard as u can

u can
ride a bike
jog
walk
run
sports
eat healthier foods

then again it all depends on how much weight u wanna loose

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What does this mean...
"Denial is the first stage?"

Thanks!

i don't know how u mean, maybe denial is the 1st stage of ur problem, u didn't really elaborate

now cumming out of denial is the 1st stage to help yourself, is that wut u mean

well u didn't really give enuff info, sorry

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Is it good or bad to be sensitive?

in my opinion, both

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What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?..

SORRY IF ANY OF THIS SOUNDS RUDE OR INSENCERE, I DON'T MEAN FOR IT TO!!!

ok, well what u should do is sit down and talk with them

or atleast with your friend, i mean, how could she betray your trust, and sleep with your Ex??

also how old are you
how old are they??
you really need to talk to ur friend, and here's a lil sayin that a friend told me, u need it now more then ever

Grls r 4eva, guys r w/e, when worse cumz 2 worse, my grlz cum 1st

if u think she's sincere when she apologizes, then accept the apology, and try to work on your friendship, the guy, he can just go to hades house

I CAN'T BELIEVE U TOOK THE GUY BACK!?!?!?!

well good luck, and don't just check out my opinion on this 1, u need as much help as u can get

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i just got my report card!! it suks!! in maht i got a D3B and a D in the final exam and for the final grade i gotta D 2!! i got an F on the social studies final exam 2!! my parents are gunna c it wut do i do?!?!?! ahh!?!?!?! there gunna be mad they always want me to do better in school i will but this report card it wuz too late. wut do i do? i miyt just have to deal with the long annoying speech but i dont want to!! this suks!! try n help me sum how pleaz!! ah!! help!!

YOUR STILL IN SKOOL??? gosh we start up in 2wks, and ur still in it, wut summer skool??

well anyways, it's ur fault that u got those grades, which i don't understand
are these the grades
D
B
B
B
D
i don't really undestand since u didn't clearly state anything

but u need to face up to your mistakes, atleast all u get is a speach, when i'd get grounded wit such terrible grades, heck if i got a c, my but would be grounded for the WHOLE summer, Good Luck wit ur punishment

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OK, well, I wear glasses. I can see without them but not very well. THe thing is, how am I supposed to have sex with glasses on? Wouldn't it be a bit awkward? For those who wear glasses, do you just take them off or do you leave them on? ANy advice is really appreciated!!

either contacts
or take them off
while having sex, seeing isn't a necessity

i mean blind people have sex (im not tryin to sound rude or anything like that)
just have fun, either w/o glasses, or w/ contacts

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hey do u think chuinky hilights will look bad like cuz ive ben gettin thin ones lately but im thinkin chunky???

i think they look half n half

on sum ppl they look horendous, but on sum ppl they look awesome

it all depends on the color, and on the lenght of ur hair

long hair usually looks good wit chunky and thin, like at the very least shoulder lenght

blonde highlighs on top of black hair, with chuncky highlights a no no, now if it's brown hair wit blonde highlights yes

if it's blonde hair with brown highlights maybe

it all depends on the hair style and legth and color of highlights and hair

sry but i didn't have enuff info

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