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Q: hey im 16 my bf and i have a long distance relationship he broke up with me and my feelings for him r still really strong. when he broke up with me he said that there could be a "us" again and i was all like ok whatever. but i was thinkin bout it do u think he is just using me?? also i kinda wanna get over him so how do i do that?? please help thanks

put all memories of him behind and away like naything that reminds you of him put that away like pics and ect.

Q: hey..i'm headed to High School in a week..9th grade..in a few advanced classes..bio,geometry..spansish..etc..anyways..
what are some things that are a must have for high school? like as far as notebooks,folders..?stuff like that..
also..i'm very unorganized when it comes to my school papers and such..so plz keep that in mind when thinking of things i should buy..
thanx a bunch..

get a list

Q: there is this guy I know his name will be Fred okay so I sorta like Fred but today I was talking to him and he kept telling me how he wanted to go all the way with me but I have been telling him that Im not ready for that and the farthest I will go with him is making out but he won't leave it alone help me please

then i would just leave him alone!

Q: well i have twin nabors n there is this one i liek n we were kinda cuddleing on my bros bed n well i was talkin to him n then we went upstairs n he told my bro what i said.. y dose he do that n y do i get shy when by bro ask me about it...

its ok.. but thats a big heith diff. how much younger are they? are they even mature and as for the brother thing you may just feel likes it is your personal life..

Q: ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

be more flirty or ask him what is holding him back

Q: If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?

have a friend tell him if your extremely nervous and dont know how he feels back towards you.. that is what i would do

Q: ok, im 17 and what do you do when your mom and best freind both hate the guy you are "seeing" and wont even give him a chance? but they dont even know how we are around each other and how we care about each other?

sit them both down and see what they have against him and tell them the truth and correct them and tell him he is really a great guy and have him along like waiting outside and bring him in thbat way they can re-judge him and get to know him and have a new aspect on him

Q: ok i have this sister who is always bisy...always at photo shoots and tours and stuff and i NEVER get to c her! i love her soo much but i see her more in magazines and oon tv then i do in real life...i know she has a carear but i miss her? how do i deal, and what do i do?

write her and tell her how you feel about the situation and let her know that its very important that you 2 keep close and keep in touch because she is your sister and you could write her text her call her or anything or have your mom talk to her about it whatever makes you comfortable

Q: I am always biting my nails all the time. I have tried fake nails. But I cant have them on because I play so many sports. Is there a way I can stop? I do it even when I dont realize I am doing it. I also know its not healthy at all. Any tips will be helpful... thank you!

i used to do that so i would put nail polish remover on them and that stopped me because it taste so bad

Q: Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do

wow thats kinda yeah i understand but i would talk to her make sure that she doenst like u otherwize that'd be gross

Q: heya im going to be a freshmen this year so its my first time in a public school. i was wondering if most people use backpacks or binders or w.e cause i heard that most people dont and i dont want to look outta place.. any comments would be helpfull and i rate well
~thnx~

ppl use binders and backpacks just go the first day and check it out

Q: i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom?

you could ask her to help u but i think you are most likely old enough to make that decision on your own i first shaved my legs in 5th grade

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Q: what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.

well everybody has diff. aspects on it like i think home is having sex doing like everything going all the way 3rd is like doing everything u would besides sex 2nd is frenching like making out and 1st is hugging and just pecking on the lips but u prolly heard diff. and similar things in life and more to come trust me i hear diff. versions all the time

Q: Heyy...i want to wear a lil makeup its lite but im in 7th grade and my mom wont let me wear it out of the house.....should i just not wear it ask her or just wear a lil lipstick?

Do not wear lipstick.. thats so grannyish.. and your in 7th grade c'mon.. if you got caught wearing lipstick you'd be.. wow i dont want to go there use lip gloss or chapstick like flavored but put the makeup on at school and wash it off afterwards

Q: ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors

- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black

p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL

Anggie

PINK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Q: like...were do u stick a tampon in and like were is the like hole? i dunno there r many holes and i dunno which one is it sry i feel weird for askin...and were does the blood from ur period cum out of...i feel weird for asking ty!

there is 2 holes and one of them happans to be your butthole.. lol dont stick it there

Q: ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!!

thats normal trust me.. just put the wax on it.. i gave my friend a thing for when you do your nails to put inside your mouth it puts your fingers apart.. it wasnt used but it was a gushy thing so it didnt bother her

Q: my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

tell him and ask him what he does for fun

Q: whats a good style of sneakers or brand or specific sneaker that i can wear to go back to school that not everyone will have but still come off as really cute.

im a girl.. if you didnt realize by now. Haha.. thanks for the help

lugz or phat farm

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"