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hey im 16 my bf and i have a long distance relationship he broke up with me and my feelings for him r still really strong. when he broke up with me he said that there could be a "us" again and i was all like ok whatever. but i was thinkin bout it do u think he is just using me?? also i kinda wanna get over him so how do i do that?? please help thanks
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how could he just be using you if you had a long distance relationship? you woulda never been able to see him really. The reason he broke up with you was prolly because you 2 didnt get to see each other often. if he said there could be a chance of you 2 dating again then that obviously means he still cares about you a lot too. if you want to get over him then try going out with your friends and meeting new guys. ones that you will be able to hang out with preferably. it may take a while to get over your ex, but sooner or later you'll be over him and happily in a new relationship with another guy.
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Hun dont waste your time on this guy.I have heard that most long distance relationships dont work out.A good way to get over him is to go out with friends and meet new guys that always worked for me!Trust me you will realize your alot happier without this guy and that being with someone you can actually see and spend time with is alot better!:-)Hope i helped!
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I know how u feel. Im in a long distance relationship right now. We're 2 states apart. If u guys dated for a long time, then he prolly didnt use u. but if it was a short/sexual relationship... then he prolly did. It will be really hard to get over him if u really fell in love with him. Just stop thinking about him.. and find urself a guy that lives near u. It will help..
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GO AND FLIRT WITH BOYS! It takes your mind off of that problem with your EX! Plus don't go crawling back to him because then he would think he was control over you and when it is suppose to be you have control over him!
-Juicy
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Well, first... I think you should tell him how you feel and see how he feels. Long distance relationships are hard... especially for your age. I think you should just meet some new people around your area. That can also be a way to get over him. It usually takes time; but dating other people will definately help make the time fly by. Good luck, hun!
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here's what you need to do. First, talk to this guy and let him know what your true feelings are for him, and if he can't give you an honest to goodness answer about how he feels with you, he's not worth your time. Long distance relationships can be very tough to deal with. It might just be for the better that you guys aren't together anymore. A good way to try to get over this "long distance man" is to start meeting new people. Pretty soon, there will be someone new that is just as special as the last!
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I don't really know if he was just using you because I don't know the whole situation. But, if you want to get over him the best way to do that is to not talk to him. Talking to him will only make you think about him and miss him more!
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i been through the same exact thing.. i found out he was cheatin.. i loved him to death and he said he "needed time to think" and dumped me.. well i went back with him he dumped me again went back bc i didnt think i could live without him he dumped me once again for my BEST FRIEND ex best friend now i went back (Stupid) and then he dumped me for the closet friend i had(ugh) so im over him.. this is how i did it.. it is soo hard but u gotta be strong.. it took alot of time..try n find a close guy friend but dont fall back in love too soon
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put all memories of him behind and away like naything that reminds you of him put that away like pics and ect.
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Its hard o get over a boyfriend or girlfriend no matter what... the best thing ive used or told a friend to do is to go out with ur friends and juse chill... play single and have fun... some boyfriends limit the amount of things u can do when ur with ur friends and of course... some things u dont want to do when ur in a relationship.... check out ur surroundings and get into the single groove... then u can do things in a new relationship and correc the mistakes that occured in the old one... with im using u, it wouldnt surprise me... some guys seem to think if they have a girl locked in long enough, they can get with her no matter what, whenever they want... those guys are what ladies and mature men(like me) call dogs... as uve probably heard, MOST men are dogs... sounds like u need to jump outta the dog pound and go fishing with ur good friends... if that doesnt help, hit me up... im single since valentines day and lonely... its hard to get over a break up, butt i would get used to it... peace peace
-Jon :-b
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tell him how u feel i bet he still has feelings for u and hes not sure that u do so tell him
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