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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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WHY D0 ADVICENT0RS CALL IT FEEDBACK.. ME AND MY FRIEND WERE JUSTTALKING AB0UT IT AND WE D0NT KN0W ! THANKS IN ADVANCE ♥

Feedback is when a person says thank you or comments on a answer they got on a question.. ♥ Dez

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Hello Everyone, I need some serious help. Skool is starying real soon and I have micro braids in now. When I take them out I don't want to get a perm right away because I am in a wedding like 3 weeks after skool. Anyone knows a nice hairstlye to get till the wedding for skool, I will rate everyone high. Thanks

you want a hair style to do with your micro braids..? well if so i would wear it down and maybe if you can curl it a lil bit.. or i would have it half way up and have some braids hang down in your face i think thats cute.. sorry if i didnt answer your question.. ♥ Dez

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well see iv only kissed one girl before in a truth or dare game and she kissed me back and all but it was only a peck on the lips and im afraid becuase i always wanted to have sex but like im a little nervous now but only for like making out and the girl another time was dared to give me a handjob (yes we are physco) and i couldnt get a boner i tried for a really long time but i couldnt like does anyone know any things that can help me with kissing and is it because im nervous that i cant get a boner...i didnt think i was nervous but i might of been..sorry if its confusing


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Yes its normal for you to be nervous.. try to think about something else.. i mean think about her and whats about to happen.. but dont think about bein nervous.. ♥ Dez

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When do you first start going to the gynecologist?

there really isnt a age limit i dont think.. but i would think you'd start going when you are sexually active or if your not havin normal cycles.. ♥ Dez

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When I would sit in the tub for like 30-60 minutes, I would notice that the water would get gritty and then I would rub my skin and it would come off!!!!!! Then there was a lot of DIRT or something on the sides or the tub when I got out, is this normal!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Thanks in advance for helping me (IF YOU DECIDE TO BE RUDE THEN I WON'T EVEN RATE YOU!!!!)

okay my lil step sister has had this happen she thought something was wrong but we found out it was the lotion coming off her.. she puts on the lotion thats really hard to get off.. so it could be that if you wear lotion.. but i would suggest if its not that then go to the doctors or something.. ♥ Dez

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why does it itch done there when u shave and how can i maybe ask my mom that i wanna get a bikini wax ... anyother way i could remove hair with out my mom really knowing

you can go get bikini wax yourself.. and your skin is irratated down there. try puttin lotion on it.. ♥ Dez

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i've counted up the days after my peirod and i think my boyfriend and i missed my ovulation days by a few days everytime. the last time we had sex and i could have been ovulation would have been on the 2nd of this month. and i took a test yesterday that came up negative. do you think i'll have a positive result later on? or should it have showed up by now?

it should of showed up by now.. ♥ Dez

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My kitten is sneezin alot any idias why thnx for your help i rate 5's NOT MATTER WHAT!!

It have a little cold or something.. if it dont stop sneezing in a day id take it to the vet.. hope your kitten feels better.. ♥ Dez

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what do you do while a guy eats you out?

lay there and enjoy it.. or touch the back of his head and rub it.. ♥ Dez

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It get the worst razor burn down there. Help please?

dont shave for a while down there and maybe rub some lotion down there some kind with aloe.. ♥ Dez

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I have some questions about mostly everyhting that has to do with pleasuring your partner. I'm a virgin and unexperienced. Okay here goes...

Once you get on birth control or take the pill or whatever, is it possible for your parents to find out eventually?

Can your gyno tell if you're on the pill or birth control?

What are whipped cream & strawberries used for; like where do you place them and stuff?

How can you get rid of the odor down there? Are guys actually enjoying the smell of it? And if possible, is there anything you can eat/drink to make the smell/taste better?

What are the best type of condomns? Most effective?

Thanks in advance.

1.. if you get on the pill it might be possible for them to find out if you dont hide them good.. if your on the shot they could find out when you dont have a period and if your on the patch they could find out if you put it in a noticeable place.. the pill might be the easiest thing to hide out of all those three things..
2..the gyno should be the people to give you the birth control..
3..Whipped cream and strawberries are just used to make sex more fun or just to spice it up a bit.. most people put the whipped cream on the vagina and the guy eats it off or it can be put on the guy on his penis and licked off by the female.. but it dont have to be put the it can be put on the stomach,nipples or where ever you'd like to lick your partner.. the strawberries are just fun to eat together and shared..
4..females all have a odor down there if you take a hot bath before doing something sexual or using summer eve it helpes.. you should be okay if you do that.. if you drink alot of pop it would help the smell to drink alot of water.. and if you take a hot bath dont have bubbles in it..
5.. use trogan
♥ Dez

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This year I wasn't doing so well in school. I failed 2 classes! My mom got sooo mad at me! So she put me in Summer School. Ughhh! I got so mad at her, I failed Summer School on purpose because I was so angry I had to do it. 3 days ago my mom got my Summer School Report Card. I'm grounded for the rest of the summer. I can do stuff still, but no sleepovers. But then I told my mom Summer School was hard for me. So, now I'm not grounded. But now I feel like I'm on the spot.. and I regret what I did. What should I do?? =/



x- Lauren -x


you cant change what you did.. so all i can really say is do better and try harder next year.. ♥ Dez

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um like i'm to embaressed to buy k.y warming gel or w/e but what else could i use to lube up my fingers like would vasaline be okay or what? URGENT lol

I wouldnt use Vasaline.. i suggest just going to get the stuff dont be embarassed or get somebody to get it for you.. and by the way the warming gel is great on your body i didnt use it for sexual use i used it to get massage and it felt wonderful.. ♥ Dez

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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!

Yes it could of been your cherry.. ♥ Dez

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im sure you probally have heard this question many times before but what do people usally use when they shave down "there"? like razor or wax? i would really appreciate any helpful answer, thanks

some people shave some people wax.. waxing is more painful.. and you dont get razor burns with wax.. and you dont have to wax as much as shaving..

heres what you should do when shaving down there.. when you shave make sure you use soap/ shaving cream.. buy a new razor and use a different razor *down there* then on your legs.. when you shave shave downwards first then when most of the hair is gone shave upwards.. afterwards put baby oil..or some kind of lotion on it.. if you get real bad razor bumps id suggest next time shaving with conditionor **like for your hair** or id suggest using lotion to shave down there.. ♥ Dez

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I can't get my profile to show up on my column
:-/ what should i do!!!!!!! I tried erasing it a few times and then retyping the whole thing!It happened when i changed the colors of my background... Thanks...
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it could be the colors you used.. ♥ Dez

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im 14/f...i feel like i sleep a LOT! like here's an average day: wake up around 10...take a nap from like 1 to 3 30...then get up and do whatever...then take another nap from like 5 to 6 30...then stay up until like 1 in the morning and go to bed and do it all over again the next day...is this normal or is there something wrong???

Hey i sleep like that too.. my mom even took me to the doctor for it and they thought i was depressed which i might be but i dont believe thats why i sleep so much most of the time its cause im tired or cause im bored.. and my doctor said its normal for teenage girls from 13 til 16 to sleep alot.. your normal but if you dont want to sleep so much maybe try finding more things to do with friends.. ♥ Dez

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This is a long story, theres a shorter question if you want on my next post this is all the details thou ....I'm 14 F, and I really like this guy and we were talking on IM yesterday and I had already told him that I liked him and he said he liked me but that was a long time ago and we kept saying that we'd do something like go to the mall or movies but we never did. So yesterday we were talking and I was like who do you like at the moment, and he's like well theres alot more people flirtin around with me than I am with them. Then I asked like who, and he wouldn't tell me (I knew I was one of them) so anyways I begged and pleaded with him to tell me who else, and he never did, but then he said i wont go out with anyone who likes me right now (meaning me) so then i changed the subject and asked him why he went out with his ex girlfriend and he said it was a long story, then i asked why he liked his ex (its a diffrent question) and he (suprisingly) answered me he said because she was "fun" and he was bored and i was like 'fun meaning..?' and he said like she was just flirty, and i was like oh.. like talking flirty or something else? and he said like something else, and i was like 'what?', and he said like 'touchy' flirty, and i asked would you ever go out with some one like that again? and he said yeah if i could find someone then i said "this is soooo uuuunnnnnfffaiiirrr, yyoooouuu doooonnnttt knnnooowww what i would do if i actually saw youuuu i feell likkke a sssllluuut for saying this but its true!" then he asked what would i'd do if we were alone, then i said id do anything except for sex or stuff with sex in its name (i thought about it like 4 days before and i was going to tell him that i wanted to do stuff but i didnt know how to tell him, got that out of the way) (then i asked him what he thought of me saying that and he said he was intrested, which im glad because i want him) but ive never done any thing before and i dont really know what to do, or what there is to do....

what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)???
and if you want to tell me how, that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is

If you give an answer ill give you a 5, no dumb crap thou please!

you could give him a hand job which means jackin his dick off.. he can finger you which means fingering your vagina.. you could give him head which means suckin his dick.. he could eat you out which means lickin and suckin your pussy.. thats if your ready tho.. ♥ Dez

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what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)(i dont want to do it, but i want to do more than just make out)???
and if you want to tell me how,(ive never really done anything) that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is

5s if you answer it

Well if your comfortable with doing stuff like him fingering you and you jackin him off.. thats something you can do and i believe thats between makin out and sex.. you could do oral if you'd like which means him eatin you out and you givin him head.. ♥ Dez

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How do I eat the carrots out of my garden. Somtimes I think they get lonley so I would try to eat them so they can hang out with my tummy and my insides. But I also dont want the poor carrot to get hurt! What should I do??!! Hellpp!! My carrotts need somebodyy!!!!!!



HELPPPPP

Im sorry about your poor carrots.. But you got a problem.. ♥ Dez

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