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I Wanna Do Stuff With This Guy, But I Don't Know What To Do
This is a long story, theres a shorter question if you want on my next post this is all the details thou ....I'm 14 F, and I really like this guy and we were talking on IM yesterday and I had already told him that I liked him and he said he liked me but that was a long time ago and we kept saying that we'd do something like go to the mall or movies but we never did. So yesterday we were talking and I was like who do you like at the moment, and he's like well theres alot more people flirtin around with me than I am with them. Then I asked like who, and he wouldn't tell me (I knew I was one of them) so anyways I begged and pleaded with him to tell me who else, and he never did, but then he said i wont go out with anyone who likes me right now (meaning me) so then i changed the subject and asked him why he went out with his ex girlfriend and he said it was a long story, then i asked why he liked his ex (its a diffrent question) and he (suprisingly) answered me he said because she was "fun" and he was bored and i was like 'fun meaning..?' and he said like she was just flirty, and i was like oh.. like talking flirty or something else? and he said like something else, and i was like 'what?', and he said like 'touchy' flirty, and i asked would you ever go out with some one like that again? and he said yeah if i could find someone then i said "this is soooo uuuunnnnnfffaiiirrr, yyoooouuu doooonnnttt knnnooowww what i would do if i actually saw youuuu i feell likkke a sssllluuut for saying this but its true!" then he asked what would i'd do if we were alone, then i said id do anything except for sex or stuff with sex in its name (i thought about it like 4 days before and i was going to tell him that i wanted to do stuff but i didnt know how to tell him, got that out of the way) (then i asked him what he thought of me saying that and he said he was intrested, which im glad because i want him) but ive never done any thing before and i dont really know what to do, or what there is to do....
what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)???
and if you want to tell me how, that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is
If you give an answer ill give you a 5, no dumb crap thou please!
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As I told someone else who asked another question similar to yours; “that is [Sex] something that should be for one and only one, your spouse (that’s after Marriage).” You do not want to engage in such actives, it will bring you nothing but sorrow & regret.
Guys who ask such request are immature juvenile who have be confused by the Evils of Our Time that try to destroy all that is good. They have become prisoners their own hormones and will remain in that lonely, pathetic state until they relies their can be nothing sweet and lovely about such actions. They will suffer the internal pains from their actions till their last breathe. Trust me, I have see many people (some I cared for greatly) suffer in the very manner which I just spoke of.
I will no more touch on those actions, but I will tell about a group of Guys out there that I know. These young men hold themselves in extreme high standers. They would never dream committing such evil actions. I do not support the premarital sex, the abusement of women, children, or any other similar monstrosity. They are appalled by those who ether support such evils themselves or support those who do support those action (They don’t engage in actives nor watch, read, or listen too things make the actions look innocent. They treat women with the respect they so rightly deserver, they are happy with themselves and with others, they would care for nothing more than see a friendly smile of those they are around. These are the young men that the World tries to hide and or destroy. The World claims such men no longer exist, BUT THEY DO. I have seen them with my own two eyes. I have seen the light then shines bright inside of them. Believe me, my friend they are out there, but you must look for them. They are not hard to find once you know WHERE TO LOOK and WHAT TO LOOK FOR. Finely don’t believe that those types of men are so few in numbers that you’ll never find one, (For that is another LIE) fear not, for they are not as few as one might think and what is even more their numbers are growing.
I hope that this helps you. Sorry that it’s so extensive, but I feel that it will help, best of Luck. Let know if I helped in anyway.
Humbly
~Teen Guru~
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Hmmm.. wow get outa there right now. He only is interested in you if you will get with him. He's ignorant and his no respect for girls what so ever. DO NOT get yousrelf into that. Because what will happen is you will get involved, and then feelings that should be there will beging to be there. YOu will like him and he wont have the same feelings back. You can do what you want, but be careful. With guys like him, high level of hurt coming right at you!<33
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well it seems he's older then you, and he's looking for sex and most guys his age are... there immature and us girls just have to deal with it!! if you are afraid of like oral sex or hand jobs.. theres tons of stuff besides that.. kissing other places..his tummy, nibbling on his ear lobes.. never give it all away.. always keep them wondering and wanting more!!! thats how us girls SHOULD do it! thats how i am and iv never had a complaint about being to "straight" and im not straight... like i said you have to keep them wanting more.. just ya know... when you kiss his tummy take your tounge and follow it down to past his belly button and that will make him want you.. but like i said thats just an example.. never be afraid to be creative with sex or sexual experiences!!!
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you could give him a hand job which means jackin his dick off.. he can finger you which means fingering your vagina.. you could give him head which means suckin his dick.. he could eat you out which means lickin and suckin your pussy.. thats if your ready tho.. ♥ Dez
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Well, I think you should take the fact you are a virgin and never done anything a good thing. Think about the situation a month a two from now. You are probably going to regret messing with that guy. Clearly he only wants you to mess around with him. I think you should think about it some more and ask yourself do you really wanna do that. If a guy says he wants to mess around with you, he does't mean I wanna be with you. He just wants pleasure.
-God Bless
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www.talksexwithsue.com
^definately go to that website..shes a wonderful expert who even has her own talkshow...on that website she has articles on fingering,handjobs,oral sex...and tips on how to do it..so definately check that out
ok so the guy can touch your breasts..lick them and suck them
you can give him a handjob which is like masturbating for him..if you dont know how tell him to put your hand on there for him and show you how he likes it...he will be more than happy to show you
he can finger you..you can show him how you like it and he will be more than happy to listen...getting fingered is supposed to feel good..but if he fingers you and it hurts your vagina..tell him to do it softer and he will listen
you can give him head (oral sex) This is done by you sucking his dick.. (there is a very good article on this on talksexwithsue.com ..so i would check it out because the article is VERY helpful and informative)
he can eat you out (perform oral sex on you)
i hope i helped..definately check out that website though, its a ton of good information i think you would find helpful
any more questions? inbox me :)
-melissa-
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The things that you can do without having sex is oral sex. Which isnt like sex acually. Oral sex is blowjob.head,handjob. Things like that. But it kind of seems like he only wants a girlfriend who is willing to do that. Since you are really into him you can go for it. But make sure that you use a condom before doing anything. So you dont get STD or Herpeas. ll ♥ ll
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