about

Hi, I'm Kristin..

I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me

advice

ok, so there is this one girl at my school. she talks soooooooo bad about everyone else and she does not even relize what a bitch she is.she always says on her xanga that everything that comes out of the persons she mad at mouth is lies, when that is really her. she talks bad about these girls and is suddenly friends with them? she is not a nice person and needs to get a life that does not involve gossping! she also talks about how other peoples looks are like they are super fat or something, and trust me lets just say she is not exactly miss perfect anyway. Everyone says the one thing they do not like about her is her gossiping ang lieing.sometimes i just wish she would move and get out of everyones life. i know i should not be thinking this, but i do. am i wrong to be thinking this way?

Err.. I hope this isn't me.. Well, no I guess you're not wrong to think that way because after all... she's mean? I'm really hessitent about writing this for the fear of it being me.. Am I really like that?

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well you know how on xangas they have scrolling text boxes for some that make layouts. Well what's the code? i need it really bad. So if you know the code PLEASE answer! lol
desprate*
i rate high

Go here,
www.createblog.com
It has what you're looking for plue more.

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I just became a Level 1 moderator like 3 days ago but now I am interested in becoming a Level two moderator...does any one know how to???

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=69
That should help!

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Hey no problem. Your answer was the one that i could acctually relate to. i hate it when guyz just don't get the message. I've told him flat out, I'm sorry but I can't make myself like you. It might have been harsh but it is the truth. He just doesn't get the message. I don't wanna be rude but if that's what it takes i'll do it. Well I just wanted to say thanks and your advice was really good.

ttyl!

XoKiSsEsOx

I try as hard as I can to relate to the asker. Who wants advice when they don't understand what the person is talking about. Thanks for the compliments, I hope I helped a lot. You're going to be my latest favorite comlumnist, hope you don't mind.

-therocket♥

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Ok here's the deal. There is this really wierd kid at school. I was online yesterday and he told me that he liked me and has since the first time he saw me. He has told me this before and acts like a total jerk to tons of people sometimes he can be kinda nice but not really. Sometimes I will be sitting in a class and I will look over and he will be staring at me. It's the wierdest thing. I hate it. He knows how I feel about him too. I don't like him at all. Basically my question is, how do I deal with it. He always tries to talk to me when I don't feel like talking and I don't wanna be totally rude but I don't like him and never will.

Holy crap... I'm in the EXACT same situatin. When I read that I thought that was me asking that question, but anyway. I bet yu've tried everything like I have. I've been mean, nice, rude, random, depressed, nothing seems to get him off my back because he says he likes me for who I am. It's sweet and all, but I'd like to be me without having to change me to get somebody else away. He might like you because you are everything he is not. Try being everything he is, because who wants a clone of themself? Another thing, I know you've tried this, but I'll say it again. Tell him straight in the face how you feel. Be blunt, don't sugar coat it because he'll get mixed signals and wont understand clearly. Today, the boy who likes me looked at me in class and I mouthed "Why are you looking at me", yes, mean, but it got him to stop because he was embarassed I caught him.

Most likely this guy isn't going to stop if he hasn't in your past apptemts. I'm plotting up new ideas on how I can shake this guy, but I highly doubt any will work. In the mean time, just be thankful someone likes you for obviously you. As nerdy and obsessive he might be, bare with him, he'll eventually find someone else, promise.

-therocket♥

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ok so i was being really stupid but i was talking on the phone and trying to straighten my hair at the same time when i accidentally burnt myself right below my chin!! it looks so bad, so does anyone know how to cover it up or get it not to scar!! please help!

Aww. Use a consealer to cover it up, but before you do anything put Neosporin on it first so it wont scar. Neosporin really does help, it lessens the visibilty of scars quickly..

-therocket♥

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I'm 14 and I already lost my virginity... Is that normal?

Normal? At this rate, yes it's kind of normal. The age of when you should have sex is getting lower and lower. I wouldn't have advised you losing it at 14 because you've got your whole life ahead of you, but you did. If you truely love this guy, stick with your whits because you've already done something that combines you emotionally. *steps off soap box*

I don't think you should have done it yet, maybe waited a year or so because what if that's all he wanted. That's probably not the case, but you know, just in case. Good luck in the future and be sure to use your heart and your head, they never lie.

-therocket♥

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What's better..

Ipod Mini that holds 1,000 songs
or
Ipod Mini that holds 1,500 songs

It's a $50 difference and I'm wondering if it's worth the 500 songs, and if anyone has one please let me know what types of problems you've had if you've had any

I have a regular iPOD, but I have over 1,000 songs and i've had it since, er, 3-4 years ago. If you want the 1,000 songs it's last a while, but not as long as the 1,500. I'd go for the 1,500 because if you're like me, music is what I live off of. I have a bunch of music and the 1,000 wouldn't do for me.

It's worth the 50 dollars because it holds 500 more songs, which if you think about it is a lot of songs. If you do the math it can hold it can hold 50 albums with 10 songs on each album. That's a bunch of albums!!

Problems? The only problem I've encountered was when my sister's files corrupted. Her files we unable to be used again and was forced to get a new one, but don't worry. The iPOD my sister has was 3-4 years old. Mine is going to break soon also. The iPOD minis are really good and durable, so it's worth it!

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People tell me that i'm fine the way i am but i'm fat. i'm 5 7 and 188 lbs. i dont look seriously obese but am-i-fat.com says i am and i'm gonna trust their expertise. is there a way that the website's wrong or am i doomed of obesity?

Well, the website is going to tell you average weight for your height, such as this site. http://www.netfit.co.uk/fatwht.htm. 5'7 is 67 inches. It says the average weight inbetween that height is 135-165. So yes, you are a little above the weight limit for your height range. Just simply go on a diet. Watch what you eat and exercise regularly. I know that you can shead those pounds!

-therocket♥

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Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate!

They're stretch marks. You get these whenever you grow too fast and your body doesn't have enough to catch up. Put a coco butter cream on these lines and they shold go away soon.

-therocket♥

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i skipped all of my workout classes for the past month cause i've been sick. yesterday i came back, worked out SO hard, now my muscles are so sore that i could hardly get out of the bed. i want to know what is the best thing to do (esp. for my legs, they hurt so bad)...

a) rest for the next couple days and do nothing until they feel better
b) keep working the muscles, continue running and conditioning today
c) stretch them?... or what, i dunno.

only answer if you know what youre talking about. thanks

As you obviously know, your muscles are sore because you haven't worked out in so long. Your muscles have gotten used to not having to work expect the usual get up in the morning. The best idea is going to be to keep working them, but not as hard. You need to keep working them so they get the swing of things again. You basically have to train your body to remember what it feels like to work out again. Once your body remembers your muscles will get less sore. Even when I work out my muscles still hurt, especially when I do a new work out that works new parts of my body. Take some advil or motrin to relieve the pain.

-therocket♥

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I am 15 and 5'3 and 142 pounds..I used to be 112 when I was 12..I had gained 30 pounds :-x..I can't do sit ups for some reason or anything like that, I need to use my elbow to help me up. I have a breathing problem and I can't really run w/o having to stop and catch my breath every few yards. Is there anyways I can get to about 120 by summer?

If you cannot do sit-ups, that might be a huge problem. Losing weight requires eating right as well. Eat good and healthy and that will help speding the pounds.

For exersices you can go to wwww.toneteen.com, they've got a lot of exzercises for your arms, legs, and stomach. Everything you need to know to lose poundsd.

If you truly want top lose 20 pounds by summer you need to be commmited and believe in yourself, I know you can do it!

-therocket♥

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Ok, so there are these jeans I want at Abercrombie and Hollister, but super expensive!! They are those pants that are torn/destroyed...Does anybody know how I could do it myself, and it would look good without spending a fortune??!!Thanks!!

As weird as this might seem, use a cheese grater. It really does tear the jeans without cutting major holes.

-therocket♥

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This might take awhile...but my ex boyfriend and I are talking again about going back out. Our past relationships...were good but then it wasn't. We broke up a couple of times. The thing is, he's a smoker...weed! Awhile ago...he use to do it constantly, then every other day. Then once a week, thne now once a month. I know he's trying, but not hard enough. The other day, I asked him..."What's more important? Your weed..or me?" He replied "Your more important then anything" So I was happy. But still I'm in confusion. We want to go out, but then again, rumors will start up and bets will be place on how long we would last. He's Qb of our Varsity football team(which is huge), and I'm well known for who i hang with, and the sports i played. In other ppls eyes, We look like high school sweethearts. Its just how do i tell him i wnat to be with him, and i like him so much, not the hundred other guys who ask for my number or gives me theres! They don't mean anything to me...just friends. But like what can we do to have a better relationship? how do i know if he's sincere about his feelings for me? How do i know it'll be different? Sorry it's so long, but thanx so much if your able to help me!

He has sincere feelings when he is quitting old habbits to please you. If he's cutting down from everyday, to once a month, that is extreme progress. If you two were boyfriend and girlfriend again, he'd be more likely to stop faster and stay off of them. Flat out tell him how you feel because he might be waiting for you to tell him that you like him. Maybe he's afraid to tell you for the same reason you're afraid to tell him. Tell him that out of all the guys in the school, he's the one you look at differently and have feelings for. To have a better relationship you need to communicate and trust eachother. Be able to trust him whenever he goes out with his friends and tell him you trust him that he wont do drugs while he's out. There's no insurance for the future. So there's no garuntee it's going to be different, but you've got to try and make it different. Try and mold this relationship as if it was clay and form it to the type of relationship you think you and him deserve.

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We're doing a lab in school next week which involves the murdering of goldfish so that we can look at its circulatory system. Who cares? It's just a goldfish, right? Wrong. Goldfish are animals too. People, like myself, have had golfish as pets. Mine lived up to be 7 years old, which is a very long time for a goldfish, but it created a bond between us. My teacher even made a joke about it, that her turtle likes this lab the best because he gets to eat all the dead goldfish. Which I guess is good in retrospect because they aren't just throwing them away once they've dug out all of their organs. It's the principle of the thing though, I know the boys in my class with be nothing but immature about this and torture the goldfish before killing them. I can't watch any kind of death, the only time I killed a fly I cried for an hour. And she has them swimming in glass bowls in our room now, so we get to watch them every day, only to murder them later on. When we did frog dissection, an alternate computer program was offered to observe their organ systems, so why are we buying so many fish each year that could have ended up as pets for other people and lived 7 years? If we killed just one fish and made a video on it,though it's still cruel to that one fish, the hundereds of fish we kill each year would be limited to one fish, once. Or even if our teacher was going for a hands-on experience, she could just kill one at the front of the class and have all of the students take a look. It's just wrong to me that we are going to be graded on the procedure of taking a beating heart and making it stop.

So, what can I do to stop this? How do I try and get my teachers and classmates to understand? Or am I overreacting?

There's two ways you can look at this. Your way, or the teacher's view. Take her personality and take that into perspective. It sounds as if she doesn't care much about the goldfish. To some people, goldfish are goldfish, not a cat or dog. They don't think much of them. When we have them as pets, they are usually off in a corner and fed very little because we tend to forget about them. With cats and dogs, it's hard to forget about them. That's why people don't see it your way. I see where you're comming from, but I don't think there is any way for you to stop the lab because the teacher looks like she's already prepared for it. Try asking her what you said in your question, why can't we just do one demonstration. If you are really sickened by the thought and sight of a dying goldfish, ask her if you could pass on this lab because of your outlook on this lab and how you find it cruel. If you want people to understand, tell them what you told us. I didn't think much of goldfish when I first read the question, but after I really do see why you're upset. Just because we can't interact with fish as we do dogs, doesn't mean they still can't be friends.

-therocket♥

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there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!

.: Miss Confused :.

Well, you shouldn't hit people anyway, so you shouldn't be stuck in that category, but as for why he's telling you he'll leave you if you hit her is hard. Shouldn't it be, if she hits you, their friendship is over? Not vise versa? Don't jump to conclusions, just think it through. She likes him more than a friend as you've obviously seen her flirt with him, but does he flirt back? If he flirts back and you think he likes her as well, you might need to have a talk with him. Ask him calmly and politly if he might like Courtney more than a friend. He might just be a really protective friend, and if that's the case and nothing more, so be it. That's how it's going to be. They will just be close friends, but if he doesn't feel the same way about her, Courtney is bound to give up sometime.

-Therocket♥

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If there are any cat experts out there, I need your help! My cat has constantly been throwing up her food twice a day for almost a week! (She's not bulimic!LOL)What's wrong??? I rate 5's!

I'm not a cat expert, but here's my theory- She might have a stomach virus. Yes, cats get them as well. I know when I was sick, everything I ate i couldn't keep down for more than an hour. Maybe take her to the vet to get some medicine, I'm sure that'll help. Maybe if you don't want to take her to the vet right away, try switching her food with a different kind or brand to see if it's her stomach that won't keep it done, or if it's attitude because she doesn't like it.

-therocket♥

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ok i have this claddagh 4 band puzzle ring... i took it apart and now i have no idea how to put it back together.. ive looked on google and the ring hasnt come with instructions.. its real complicated.. does anyone have any simple, easy directions to put it together? thanks, i rate 5's

http://www.walshbrothers.co.uk/Update/puzzle_ring_solution.htm

there you go... good luck

-therocket♥

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well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!!

yay! My friend and I made a news boardcast about our day. We had news achors and everything and then live updates. It was a whole bunch of fun.

-therocket♥

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Is the blood that comes when you have your period different than regular blood?

It's the same blood- because there's only one type of blood in your body, but the blood you have on your period is much thicker and has a much more disgusting smell.

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