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Ok here's the deal. There is this really wierd kid at school. I was online yesterday and he told me that he liked me and has since the first time he saw me. He has told me this before and acts like a total jerk to tons of people sometimes he can be kinda nice but not really. Sometimes I will be sitting in a class and I will look over and he will be staring at me. It's the wierdest thing. I hate it. He knows how I feel about him too. I don't like him at all. Basically my question is, how do I deal with it. He always tries to talk to me when I don't feel like talking and I don't wanna be totally rude but I don't like him and never will.
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honestly i would be straight forward with him. that way he doesnt get mixed signals from you trying to be polite and itll just make the whole situation a lot easier. I'd say something like, "i'm really flattered that your showing interest in me, but im currently not looking to pursue a relationship with you" and just leave it at that. short sweet simple and polite. anyways best of luck keep me updated and let me know how it works out!
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Holy crap... I'm in the EXACT same situatin. When I read that I thought that was me asking that question, but anyway. I bet yu've tried everything like I have. I've been mean, nice, rude, random, depressed, nothing seems to get him off my back because he says he likes me for who I am. It's sweet and all, but I'd like to be me without having to change me to get somebody else away. He might like you because you are everything he is not. Try being everything he is, because who wants a clone of themself? Another thing, I know you've tried this, but I'll say it again. Tell him straight in the face how you feel. Be blunt, don't sugar coat it because he'll get mixed signals and wont understand clearly. Today, the boy who likes me looked at me in class and I mouthed "Why are you looking at me", yes, mean, but it got him to stop because he was embarassed I caught him.
Most likely this guy isn't going to stop if he hasn't in your past apptemts. I'm plotting up new ideas on how I can shake this guy, but I highly doubt any will work. In the mean time, just be thankful someone likes you for obviously you. As nerdy and obsessive he might be, bare with him, he'll eventually find someone else, promise.
-therocket♥
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hey. yea i've had the same problem before...just tell him to get a hobby and start likin somebody else, yea it's kinda rude but he'll get over it and you'll be home free...
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