Q: ok soo im a girl and im on my period and im getting sick of it because im allergic to a lot of stuff in medicines so i really cant take anything for bloating or cramps. so as far as cramps go i try to use the heating pad and sometimes that helps but like when im at school i cant. and as far as bloating? i have no idea any ideas?

Q: Ok so in my english class we have to present a speech thats 2 minutes long... I know I know, its not that long..... but when it comes to presentations and speeches i get sooooooooo nervous!!!!!!!!!! ANY TIPS ON HOW TO CONQUER THIS FEAR??????? please and thank you.

Q: I underestimated the amount of time it would take for me to cover ten chapters so my only option right now, aside from failing the midterm, is to pull an all-nigher! However, I can't seem to stop falling asleep at periods of time...

I need something that will keep me awake!

Energy drinks won't work. Caffeine has the opposite effect on me.

Any suggestions?

Q: i get nervous really easily. like when im talking to a guy i like... or someone puts me on the spot. my face usally turns bright red over nothing and i start sweating and shaking relaly bad. when i tell my friends this... there like just relax and dont be nervouse. but they odnt undertsand that I CANTT!! i try to think im not nervous but it always shows by my face being red or me sweating... how are some ways to get it under control?

Q: Ok we are always moving and we never Get ANY THING planed I just want to get my mom to understand how hard it is to get attatched to people and then move.

And How do I let myself go out with some one when Im scared a move is going to be around the corner?

Q: Well, I am 13/f.This might sound stupid but I found a guy on the computer and I was wondering how I could find out if he is cheating on me or not?Also wondering should i still go out with him even tho he is off the computer? Thanks.

Q: Talk about bad hair days...I suffer with at least 3-4 a week. It's not that I use cheap shampoo or don't buy stuff for my hair...it' really wild...(sorry bout this) but my hair is like hagrid's from HP. Yeah and it looks awful.

Now I know I'll never have Jessica Simpson or Jessica Alba hair, but I want to get a hair cut on Friday. Something new. Something that can work with any mood; loose; ponied; straightened; curled...anything! I'm thinkin something short(shoulder length or about 1-2 inches below), layered and neat.

Does anyone know if this will work with my rounded face...and if anyother suggestions arrise please advise me on what to do


thanks,
bad hair day's everyday!

Q: ok, so the story starts off with me meeting this guy named dustin on myspace
so we meet in person, cause my friend knew him and so we started talking last august. (of 2006)
so we have a tonn in common. only thing is, we come from different kinds of families. like his mother and father are divorced and they could give a shit about him. and my parents are very caring and a lil over protective sometimes.
so we havent kissed for three months (more like..never)
he says he really cares about me and he will always care about me. only now it doesnt feel like it.
and he likes this other girl(lizzie) and he hooked up with her today.
hes telling me stuff like he still loves me and cares about me but its getting really hard for me to believe him
has anyone been through this before?
what did you do to stop things and move on?

Q: i have no clue why these types of questions are so common, but here it goes:

there`s this kid at my school who is like...16 (i`m 14) and i really like him. he`s got black, "emo" hair, a lip ring, and is just so damn hot. i hear a lot of my friends say that he`s an ass, but why guy isn`t? all my friends say that they could see me with him, and that he`s probably better than my current boyfriend (i doubt it). My bf and i are "taking a break", and i recently found out that he slept with another girl. Now when he said we needed a break (due to my mother), i thought you know, not seeing each other and taking time for ourselves. i did`t think he meant we could hook up with other people. I had plenty of chances to, but i didn`t. I just made-out with some boy down the street. I really like the guy that`s in my class (on certain days) but i`m afraid to talk to him and that i`ll get rejected. i`ve really never been rejected by a guy, because i`ve never asked one out or anything. Ok...maybe once or twice...but i didn`t mind being rejected then. Now i do. The thing is, he`s the same zodiac sign as my boyfriend (which is good) and we have somewhat of the same interests (i won`t say what they are ;]). I`m just dealthy afraid that if we do hook up, he`d talk smack about me later. what to do, what to do? what do you guys think?

Q: 13/f
Okay, my ex-boyfriends brother is really sweet. me and my ex broke up like 8 days ago and his brother hinted to me that he wanted to go with me.i don't want to be classified as a hoe if i go with him. The thing is if i did go with My exs brother would it be for payback. Because my Ex goes with his exgirlfriend!!!!!!! i really do like my exs brother but I still am in love with his brother!!!!

Q: ok I'm really confused right now, i Dont know what to do right now. I like my boyfreind brandon, but he can be a huge asshole. he tells me what and what not to do, he critisizes me, and even yells at me, plus he has problems of his own and i can't deal with him and his problems AND my problems alltogether.he also hides things from me, lies to me, and sneaks about everything. I can't ever beleive him. all my freinds say i should dump him, but i still like and care for him. plus he's not ALL bad. i really enjoy being with him. There's also a guy named Russell who seems to be interested in me, and ditto for me. Me and him talk alot on the phone, and he helps me with alot of problems, and I like him too, but i dont want to leave brandon then go out with russell right after, but if i wait for a while then break up with brandon, then russell gets a girlfreind and loses interest in me, then that would SUCK ASS TOTALLY. i dont know what i should do. should i break up with my boyfreind, or give him 1 last chance. If i DO give him 1 more chance, then this will be the 3rd chance i have given him, and im TIRED of playing games with him. what the hell should i do??

Q: I am the Bride. The Groom has 3 daughters. I have known, loved, and enjoyed all 3 girls for years. We have shared a lot.

The Groom and I decided to finally marry after much soul searching, years of living together, breaking up, and finally getting back together, staying together for keeps. One HUGE problem -- daughter No. 3, the youngest, the most needed
( financially and emotionally ), the most spolied, and sometimes really mean, she decided that at about age 15 ( 10 years ago) to be horrible to me, and she has never stopped. She throws fits (use to on the floor kicking), refuses to talk, asks that I leave the house if she's coming for a visit, ignores me if I am in the same room, and she will probably make this wedding a living hell. Her father seems to agree.

Her sisters are fine with me. We are adults and we have our own issues. Nobody is casting any stones. His children are age 32, 29, 25. I am 39 this October. We have dated since I was 23, so for 17 years.

I have helped raise the girls, and I love them very much. However, I was also the ruler maker in our household. So like other would-be step moms with teenagers, we had our challenges, mainly with Traci. The girls are all married now with children of their own. How can I, we, break news and still enjoy our wedding and our life together?

The girls live 3 hours away by plane. We see them 4 or 5 times a year at family functions. We all get along well except for her.

The father is very worried that she will not talk to him, make the wedding problematic, not participate in family functions, and blame him.

What can we do?

Q: Should it be a red flag if your bf was calm one minute and then the next he was flying of the handle? My bf for no reason a couple of nights ago just yelled "you're not listening to me"! Another time he stuck his face in mine and yelled "I'm SO sorry". This is because I told him I wanted to leave a party that his friends were being jerks at. It kind of scares me how he can switch from charming to beast like that. He lately has been critzizing everything I do and making me feel like crap. In the beginning he was so polite and charming and sensitive that's what made me fall in love with him. But now I'm mostly seeing a monster. I've heard stories about how he treated some of his ex gf's. One said he was constantly calling her stupid and yelling at her too. What should I do?

Q: I'm almost 21 and I admit it my boyfriend and I don't always use a condom, but I've been on the pill for years and never had an issue. Till recently when I was sick, the Dr gave me antibiotics but didn't tell me that they would make my birthcontrol inaffective. To make matters worse I forgot to start my newest round of pills after my last cycle. For two weeks now I've been waiting patiently for any signs that my period is coming and nothing has happened other than nausa and dizzyness, and being un able to zip up a dress I made a month ago. I haven't had the courage to take the test yet, mostly cause I'm pretty positive about what it will say. But now here comes the hard part how do I tell my boyfriend that by this time next year we could very well be parents, how do I tell him that because of one little known fact and my preoccupation with my job on campus that our whole lives are about to change. I need some advice from people outside of my cirlce of friends and family someone who has nothing to gain or lose.

Q: Okay so my boyfriend name is Patrick who i am in love with well yeah me and him are getting into fights about rediculous crap! and he lives like 45 mins away and yeah i wanna see him on weekends but i dont wanna loose my friends cause of it, cause when they say wanna hang out i have to say no cause i have to be with him and he'll get mad at me if i cancel and idk i just dont know what im suppose to do. i dont want my life revolving around him and i dont know what to say or do when he does it.

Q: so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year on and off and we are really in love and im 15 and he is 17 and he is not a virgin but am. lik i feel like i want to but im scared and unsure if i want to. i want to have sex with him if he is the one im gonna be with for ever and i dont want things to change if i do. how do i know if im ready and if its true love???

Q: I babysit a 3 year old and she makes a lot of messes! After we complete one thing she is already on to another mess before I'm even done cleaning up the first one. Any ideas? Also if you have any fun games to do that wouldnt take long or wouldnt make a mess! that would be great! thanks!

Q: In December I'm booked to play a gig (I play blues piano) with a guy my age (15, plays guitar) whom I've never met before. I've seen him play before, and my dad said that if I wanted to I could sit in with him and play. Which I definitely want to do because this guy is gorgeous and my dad approves of him, which is rare. My ultimate goal is for him to notice that I have a lot of talent, and that might help me get my foot in the door of the music biz (he's recorded a CD already on an indie label and has famous friends). Anyway, my question is: how do I go about "showing off" without actually "showing off"? I'm generally a calm, cool, and collected person and I want to come across as a smart chick, and I'm not quite sure how to do that because people have told me that I intimidate people a bit when I meet them. Thank you.

Q:
Okay. I have to choose between two boys. Now, me and sal went out. Then he dumped me. He realized he made a mistake and wants to go back out again.

Matt, on the other hand. I have never gone out with. It's totally obvious he likes me. Everyone says he's going to ask me out. But I've been waiting for like, 3 days.

I would prefer to go out with Matt, but if he isn't going to ask my out than I might as well go out with Sal. Because I like both of them.
So what's going to happen? What should I do?

Q: I have natrally wavey hair and when i straighten it sometimes it will stay but i have to ride the bus in the morning and the mostness in the air makes it flip out anyways to make it stay straight ??

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