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i`m afraid of rejection.
i have no clue why these types of questions are so common, but here it goes:
there`s this kid at my school who is like...16 (i`m 14) and i really like him. he`s got black, "emo" hair, a lip ring, and is just so damn hot. i hear a lot of my friends say that he`s an ass, but why guy isn`t? all my friends say that they could see me with him, and that he`s probably better than my current boyfriend (i doubt it). My bf and i are "taking a break", and i recently found out that he slept with another girl. Now when he said we needed a break (due to my mother), i thought you know, not seeing each other and taking time for ourselves. i did`t think he meant we could hook up with other people. I had plenty of chances to, but i didn`t. I just made-out with some boy down the street. I really like the guy that`s in my class (on certain days) but i`m afraid to talk to him and that i`ll get rejected. i`ve really never been rejected by a guy, because i`ve never asked one out or anything. Ok...maybe once or twice...but i didn`t mind being rejected then. Now i do. The thing is, he`s the same zodiac sign as my boyfriend (which is good) and we have somewhat of the same interests (i won`t say what they are ;]). I`m just dealthy afraid that if we do hook up, he`d talk smack about me later. what to do, what to do? what do you guys think?
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Oh God, baby.
EMO HAIR and a LIP RING?!?!?
Emo kids are bad news, sweetheart. They are self centered, self destructive, and pompus. This boy sounds like a disgusting human being. If your friends say that he's a jerk then he PROBABLY IS!
As to the "what guy isn't" part, I have more male firndes than female friends and they are glorious people. If all the boys in your life are unkind, then you are rollin' with the wrong crowd. He's too old for you and even if you do date him he will just reject you in the end. Stick with the boyfriend ya got.
And have yourself a beautiful evening.
Love from,
Grandma Betty Louis xoxoxo
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If you really cant find the courage to ask him out write a note, ask a friend to ask for you. Anything that wont make you feel humiliated in front of him. Regection is ok, but no one wants it, so do the above and everything will be fine. Don't worry!
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rejection is not something to be afraid of everyone has got rejected now and then.if you just cant find the nerv to ask him then just write it down and make sure that in the letter you write how much you ike him,and even if he says no that plese dont tell anyone
if hes the sweet guy you think he is he will understand
who knows maybe you guys will share the same intersts lol.well let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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okay well i think you should occassionaly start talking to him. try to find out if you would get along as friends first. If this happens then ya would make a good couple. anywho dont hate me for saying this but dont compare him to your old bpyfriend that much b-cuz it would not be good if he turned out the same dont you think?
well about getting rejected...if it happens dont trip,remember its HIS loss NOT urs there will be someone out there someday who would make you the happiest girl ever and this guy would be hating himself for not going wit you!=]
Good luck&ill be wishing ya go together!=D
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ok. well maybe since your in a class with him sit next to him one day?? work on an assignment together. start talking to him. if you dont talk to him or act wierd around him, dont. becuase its only awkward if you make it awkward. so just start talking to him. get to know him better before you go straight out there and ask him out.
and if you two are friends already, then skip the whole part about getting to know him.
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