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Stupid boys.
So I've been going out with this guy for a little over than a month. We're almost sixteen, and i really like him. To give you some background info about him, hes so shy, it took a month for him to just hold my hand or give me a hug. (ya i know. and no, hes not gay haha) Anyway, Im having this birthday party in a couple of weeks, and when i asked him if he was busy on a certain date, he was like "ya, im going to my grandmothers" so then i was like alright, ill just change it around, to friday. then he was like "well its ok, its not that important if i dont go" and altho im not sure how to interpret that, it hurt my feelings. i assume he meant that he didnt want me to change the whole party just for him, but i dont know. i mean i really want him to be there, doesnt he feel the same? also, he doesnt really call me, but we do hang out sometimes. And one other thing, he has never dumped a girl. He once stayed with a girl for like 6 months, but didnt like her the last 3 months, because he didnt kno how to dump her/is scared of "a girl starting to cry". whatever that is.
So basically, do u think he still likes me? And what should i do? Im really worried he wouldnt dump me if he stopped liking me. And I dont want to dump him, cause I still like him. Ugh, tell me what this silly boy is thinking!
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you cant really tell. because we're wierd like that. seriously, we'll say one thing when we really mean another. talking might be the best solution.
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No, I don't think he still likes you. It is easier for someone on the outside to see that. Dump him because obviously he is doing things that are making you unhappy. Don't put up with that stupid shit.
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I think you should talk to him, tell him how you feel. You shouldn't have to be guessing everything in a relationship. Anyways, If you really like him, talk to him!
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okay i was in a similar situation.like my boyfriend was really sweet at first but then he started ignoring me kind of and stopped calling me.he also told me he didint dump girls but he made them dump him.i wasent so sure if he wanted me to dump him so i talked to him.i asked him if he felt something for me and he said yeah but i just dont know wut i want right now. so i decided to keep it as friends[even tho i totally regret doing that because i love him].
anyways i think you should talk to him like i did. let him know you have strong feelings for him and would want to have him at your special day. ask him if he has those feelings for you or he is just with you because he dont know how to dump you...basically just talk to him and straighten things up=]good luck!
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talk to him about it. jsut be like whats going on? its like you dont want to be with me anymore or w.e. say oh i changed the party so you would be there and it is important for you to be there becuase you are my boyfriend. find out the truth before you assume anything and if he doesnt like you then maybe you cna do the favor of dumping him but you said you love him so then there you have to decide.
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