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my (ex) boyfriend and the drama
ok, so the story starts off with me meeting this guy named dustin on myspace
so we meet in person, cause my friend knew him and so we started talking last august. (of 2006)
so we have a tonn in common. only thing is, we come from different kinds of families. like his mother and father are divorced and they could give a shit about him. and my parents are very caring and a lil over protective sometimes.
so we havent kissed for three months (more like..never)
he says he really cares about me and he will always care about me. only now it doesnt feel like it.
and he likes this other girl(lizzie) and he hooked up with her today.
hes telling me stuff like he still loves me and cares about me but its getting really hard for me to believe him
has anyone been through this before?
what did you do to stop things and move on?
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lol wow i bet you haTE MY NAME NOW CUZ ITS THE OTHER GIRLS NAME ,BUT I PROMISE IM NOT HER.I GOT A MAN THAT I LOVE .I HAVE HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME BEFORE AND I TOLD HIM,WELL YOUR FUCKIN WITH MY EMOTIONS YOU NEED TO DECIDE WHO YOU LOVE MORE LIZZIE OR ME .THEN SEE WHAT HE SAYS .IF HE PICKS HER THEN WELL...I THINK YOU KNOW WHAT YOU GOTTA DO
LET ME KNOW HOW IT ALL WORKS OUT .
LOTS OF LOVE,LIZZIE
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ok if he really "loved" you he wouldnt hav hooked up with tht girl. tell him not to tell you tht he loves you to prove it!!
i havent been throgh this exact thing but similar. the best way is to just forget about him he has obviously moved on, even if he wont admit it, and you should too
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Ehmagawd you serisouly need to forget about him. The phrase "I love you" should be taken really seriously. If he hasn't even kissed you yet, and he's hooking up with other girls, but he's telling you he loves you, he's probably using you. He might even be using you to get Lizzie jealous. So don't listen to him when he says stuff like that. If you want to find out if he really cares about you, dump him and see how he reacts. At the moment he doesn't deserve you. And relax - this is like a classic situation. Guy meets girl. They both come from totally different backrounds, but they still find out they have a lot in common and like each other alot. Girl finds out guy is a total jerk. Solution: girl dumps guy. Start with that. If you're finding it hard to forget about him, tell me and I'll give more advice :)
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If he was YOUR boyfriend why is he going out with this othere girl ?
It really just doesn't make sence. But don't break up with him just yet you might regret it later on ! Talk to him about it a see what is going on. You need to be up front about and tell him it isn't a laughing matter and you need a serious answer.
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