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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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to say if i was pregnat .... i would want an abortion theres no way i could go there all the pregnacay because my parents our in polotics... an it how much would an abortion cost ... i heard clinics out there do it for free .. im not going threw the pregnecy thing so dont try to change my mind wont work.. pleasee does anyone know how much it cost?

if you didn't want it then you shouldn't have spread your legs. and live with your self for being a murder

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Ok, my friend is really shy about everything. Like making out, holding hands, etc. Is there any way he can be less shy with girls? Thanks!

just by experience.

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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird?

no way you are perfectly normal. i mean yea it's a little weird but not too much. it's just a phaze if you don't grow out of it then yes you are either bi or lez

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Okay well my boyfriend and I have recently been having sex through about 3 months and we have been going out for three years. Not once have I had an orgasm, I always have to fake it and I sort of get tired faking it because I want to experience what an orgasm feels like. And I don't want him to give me oral or finger me or whatever, I want to have an orgasm through intercourse. The sex feels good, but there are times when I cant even feel it in me. Does anyone know how I could achieve this?

well sorry but try experimenting. like let him go down on you or give oral or w/e. but also try new positions

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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless

ask her again but you can get bad infections from them

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how would one overcome an addiction to pornography and masturbation?

(i have this friend, see...)

17.male

dunno try doin it cold turkey. but at ur age all boys are pretty much

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

any time is a good time

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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing?

well i went swimming with one in. but try just slowly getting in and then fully if no blood comes out.

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OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks!

you can't stop it but next time they take it as a compliment say something like. "that's really something to be proud of" and walk away. it is very disturbing but there isn't really too much to be done

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how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE *

usually they are raped

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im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do?

tell the truth. at least you have enough morals to not to

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condom packages always say that they are like 99% effective if used correctly and stuff, but in school we learned that since condoms are latex like balloons, they have tiny holes in them that sperm can swim through. wtf. how effictive is that?

don't believe it.

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i had unprotected sex about 3 days ago. he didn't cum inside me, so i know i'm not pregnant. but could i still have gotten any stds, even though there haven't been any signs so far?

yes you could have std's. and yes you might be pregnant just get a test.

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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..

you ar bi. it's where you like both sexs

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whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

NOTHING. its the same

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I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
thanks

you have to tell someone soon. it happens all of the time. go to the police station or go to the hospital. tell them that you were raped and need to be checked for std's and brusing. you need to report it and make sure he won't do it again. im sorry about what happened.

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okay...
well...
uhh..
this is hard for me to ask this
but i have already fingered my g/f and we both want more
we are WAY TO young for sex about 5 years from it, what can we do thats not sex d00d please help

SORRY but fingering is a form of sex

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this is a very embarrising topic but i have a gf who has done numerous things to me (sexually) the problem is i truly dont know the perfect way to finger a girl.....very embarrassing but please help

everyone is different when it comes to that. just massage around the cliterous then start with 2 fingers in and out.. in and out then go to 3 and up until you can't any more and just ask her how it feels.....etc

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Ahh, okay I know this is weird but um..Every time I shave "down there", it seems like I still have some stubble or w/e..Does anyone have any tips or something because this is starting to bug me..And please dont say waxing, Ive tried it, it hurts lol..Ill give you a 5 if you give me a good idea!

well you should get those good disposable razors. and that should work that is the only way i can shave. and also use more shaving cream or soap

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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx

yes it's normal. im 15/f and i have 38DD. and also men like it

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