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My name is Danielle and I love to help people. Ask my anything and I will try my best to answer as accurately as I can with personal advice from my expierince or knowledge.. Good luck and God Bless all!
*Keosha*

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Hey everybody! I'm 14/f. Well, I have a fear of dogs. It's just that when they get close to me I'm so afraid and start to take off. Once when I was a young kid, my next-door neighbor's dog Kiki was chasing after me and I literally thought that it was going to kill me. I don't want to be afraid of dogs because I think they are the cutest things ever, especially puppies. Does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome my fear of dogs...I would really appreciate it! Thanks.

The only way to overcome your fear is to face it. Face the dogs and remember that not all dogs will hurt you. Hope i helped.
-Keosha

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ok all of my friends are having sex (and there all around 15 and 16, and i am 15.) And I don't feel like people our age are ready to have sex yet...but all of my friends are telling me how much fun it is, and they kept telling me how i need to lose it. I kept telling them that i'm not ready, but they keep pressuring me to have it. How can I get it throgh there head that i'm not ready and I don't want to lose it untill i'm ready?

First of all if they are pressuring you to do something you dont want to do it is called "Peer Pressure" and they are not your true friends. If they were they'd accept the fact that your not ready yet and move on. I wouldnt try to get it through their heads , i would make new friends..sorry to break the ice like that.

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the other day, i was walking around in the woods and must have touched some type of plant that had a bunch of sharp balck things on it.the sharp black things got stuck in my fingers.i got all but about 2 out.these 2 are really deep in my finger.there kind of like bee stings.what can i do to get them out?is there some sort of cream i can put on it to make them come out?

thanks!

I know this may sound funny but soak it in hot salt water to loosen it up and then take tweezers or nail clippers and clip or pull it out...just try it

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For the past few months, I've been feeling sad very often. I'm 15, female, and I guess I feel sort of alone. I constantly think about death, how I don't have many good friends, and how I don't have anything I really need to be happy.

I'm also on a diet, I've lost 20 pounds, because I think I need to be skinnier.

I guess what I'm asking is, am I depressed? And do I need some sort of help? My mom knows how I feel and she is always lecturing me about it. I just want to know what I can do to not feel this way.

Ok,....You may just be depressed. The only thing you need to be happy is yourself and God. Start praying about how you feel and ask for help. Prayer changes a lot of things. I promise. Love yourself. Your special. God made you the way you are for a reason. Be yourself and find out what your interests are and then get involved.
If you need someone to talk to IM me.
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-Keosha

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everytime i look at everyone i feel like they got something id ont im very insicure and i wanted help on being more secure any ideas?

Learn to love yourself and trust yourself. Find what you like and make it happen..beyouand dont worry about everyone else..God made you the way you are for a reason. So be happy with yourself.
If you want to talk goto my advice column and IM me - Keosha

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ok, my boyfried is 18 n im 13.And we have sex, Please dont call me a slut cuz i am NOT ONE. it doesnt matter what age i am cuz im not imature. But,we have been going out for 6 months. sometimes when we do it with out a condom dont worry its safe for some reasons he says its dry in there n it hurts, any help on what that is???

You need to stop having sex with him. First of all its dry without a condom because you need a lubricant...but your 13 and he is 18..your body is not developed enough to have sexual intercourse yet.. No your not a slut but your uterus can turn sideways and mess up your insides if you keep on having sex at such an early age, i know from personal expierence. So stop hvaing sex with him for 1. 2- ALWAYS use a condom, you never know if he is cheating on you, your risking your chances of getting STD's, which some of them u cannot get rid of...so if you want to talk go to my advice column and IM me..
-Keosha

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I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help

If u goto the health dept. and tell them to keep it confedential they wont tell your parents and you wont have to tell anyone, but you need to go to the doctor and get treated because if you dont it will get worse and it could turn into PID (pelvic inflammatory disease) which is deadly..so trust me its better to go to the doctor
-Keosha

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I really want to make gluten free chocolate chip cookies but I can't find a recipe anywhere on the internet for them which doesn't measure in cups. I'm from the UK and we don't measure in cups over here so I don't know how much that is!!

Does anybody know anything about gluten free cooking and/or how to make gluten free chocolate chip cookies?

If you don't know how to make gluten free ones, can you please let me know a recipe for normal ones and I will adapt the recipe? Thanks!

One thing that you can do is type in a search engine for : " Measurement Conversions" and use that to determine how many cups you have to convert
-Keosha

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Hi ive had this health problem for about 3 yrs now and it just doesnt seem to go away im writing about it to see if anyone shares this problem. I dont really want to ask anyone is else because its abit weird, well so my parents think. First of all my my heart beats really hard and fast and then it feels like a really really strong pulse around my body like my veins are are exploding. I know it sounds really strange but its really uncomfortable and happens nearly all the time. You know you can feel your heart beating well i get that feeling around my whole body especially in my hands, it feels like their going to explode. Im sure thats not healthy. Hope someone replys and doesnt think im to strange lol.
Liam

Ok, have you seen a doctor yet? Because that is the most important thing that you can do before you may get the wrong answers..its doesnt sound normal to me...ill answer more after i look this up for you
-Keosha

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my mom is plannin on takin me to the doctor this week. she wants to take me to make sure i am not sexual active.. my questions are

1) i dont want my mom to be in the room wit me while the doctor is there. how can i tell the doctor with out lettin my mom hear. she wants to be in there but i dont want her to be and i know if i tell her that i dont she will get mad.

2) can a doctor really know if u are sexual active? otherwors noe that you had sex once..

i heard that isnt true because you can pop your cherry wearing a tampon

Ok, to my knowledge yes a doctor can check to see if your still a virgin.
You can only pop your cherry yourself if you stick something in you far enough, if your cherry is very low to the opening of your vagina or if you play a lot of sports or are very active that way..
to get rid of your mom while your getting checked i dont know if thats gonna be possible if you dont want her to know that you said that

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Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me?

Ok
1- dont stress yourself out over somet hing you have no control over, you cant force her to come back to you
2- if you know he abuses her tell the police or her parents and save her
3- just pray about your situation

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What does "meet the bottom of my Nikes" mean?

I think it means if someone is saying it to you out of ignorance that they want to step on your face

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How do you remove tips from nails without going to the nail salon and having them do it

You can soak them in acetone ( nail polish remover with acetone in them) or you can pop them off which usually hurts but is able to get through

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i love my best friend to death and I REALLY dont want to disobey her trust. see a while ago she told me all this stuff about how she has another world she can escape 2 and sometimes she feels like she doesnt know who she is. she sometimes even, she says, forgets her name. shes already tried talking to her parents and a therapist, and her parents have tried giving her pills. all of it, she says, just make her feel worse, like shes insane. she has a lot of friends, gets good grades, in whole leads a very normal life and acts perfectly normal. we didn't mention this for a while, but over the weekend i went down with her family to the beach. saturday night she started randomly dancing in the sand, running and spazzing randomly all over the place, inchined way to close to the firework display just so, as she put it, she could be close to the sea, and wrote the name's of random people we no in the sand. all of this is very unlike her, and i at the time half-jokingly asked her "if she was here as herself" she wudnt answer me for a while and then very quietly said "who else would i be" and then wouldnt answer any more questions. later that night i asked what was going on and she wouldnt tell me. one of our other friends was there, who doesnt no everything i no and said shes fine stop overreacting. iasked her if she "promised" she was fine (promise is our trust word) and she wouldnt promise. i tried talking her into talking to me cuz i just wanted to help, I didnt want her to go through whatever it was alone. she wouldnt say anything. the next morning everything was back to normal. i dont know what to do and i cant tell anyone because i REALLY REALLY REALLY cant betray her trust like that. please help.

I dont want to give out any information to you that is n otaccurate but there is a slight chance of personality disorder or schizophrenia there from what i hear of her actions and the way she talks about her issues...i would look up some stuff online at www.google.com or www.ask.com to find out the symptoms and causes/effects for the diagnoses

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I have short hair that I can't do much with. I was just wondering if anyone has any styles that I can do the morning kind of quick. P.S. my hair is up to my shoulders.

put the front i n rubber bands with scalp braids or flat scalp twists and then flip out the ends in layers..

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I'm going to try to become a vegatarian. I just want to try it out and see if I can live without meat. I heard it helps lose weight. I AM NOT GOING TO BE ANOREXIC! I'm just not going to eat meats. I know meat has a lot of protein, so besides meat what are some healthy foods that have protein?

Peanut butter
protien shakes
eggs
i will answer more to this when i can find more answers for you (my father is a body builder so i will ask him)

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OKay im 14/f and i have a guy friend whos 15 he is like my best friend and he has always been there for me... but latley weve been talking about like doing stuff with eachother and like fooling around... but like we wouldnt have sex or anyhting close to it.. but like do you think it will ruin our friendship or change it for the worse?????

Its a very good possibility that it might or you may kiss him and feel like he is like your brother...but hey talk to him about how you feel like it might ruin your friendship and see what he has to say...then make your descion

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I shave my bikini line and I always get really irritating and unsightly razor burn...any suggestions for home remedies/products that cure razor burn or a new hair removal technique that will prevent razor burn?

You can buy bikini zone which is a cream that you put on directly after you shave and sometimes throughout the day.. try it and if it doesnt work try putting vitamin E on it

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well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do



Help me!!!

Accept the fact that he's being inconciderate of your feelings and move on with your life, i know your pissed but forgove him and let it go and if you have to just dont speak to him. . .

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this is going to be longgg to bare with me
i liked this guy for 3 years.
he was really mean to me
he would pretend ask me out and then when i said yes he would be like no your too ugly.
and this year he asked me out FORREAL that lasted 1 month cause he cheated on me with his ex. and 4 days later after we broke up he asked me out again and im like okay we went out for 2 and half months. and now we are broken up and the day we broke up we had a fight but it was okay and i missed him cause i was out of town and he wasnt talking to me so i got mad and i cursed at him and then hes like i have to end this relationship he said he needed time to be friends. and everyday i would ask him about the break up and everyday it would change first it was he almost garntee im going to ask you back out i just need time, and then it was i dont know if i will i want to date other girls, then it was yea i dont want to be with you anymore i dont like you or love you. and i felt like he was lieing to me the whole time but for 3 days he kept calling me babe and on the forth day he was like i cant call you babe we dont go out anymore. and then. he started being mean. and it took 1 weeks to get him to be my friend but on the 4th of july i punched him in his face. and he hates me again and he said he doesnt cause he doesnt care enough about me to hate me . he said he just doesnt like me cause im loud and annoying and that has nothing to do with being friends. and everytime i talk to him he thinks im after going out with him and he start talking about how hes never going to go out with me again. and its not even on subject he just brings it up so its like WTF??? and its like if you dont want to be with me why everytime i talk to you, you think i want to get with you all i want to be is his friend nothing more.and me and him share the same friends and he said he wasnt going to hangout with them if him there and its like you say you dont care enough about me to hate me. but you care enough not to hangout cause im there. and when we were friends it still felt like we are going out minus kissing.
and i dont know is he acting this way cause he likes me but doesnt want to. or he wants to date other girls and im all he thinks about?
cause he said hes over the fact i punched him
he just doesnt like me?
i didnt go anything to him
at all and im blame this problem all on myself

theres more to this story but i dont want to make it really long
so if you care to help me out with the WHOLE situtation tell me and i will get back to you

but just help me with this please explain why he is acting this way towards me?


Im sorry to say this but he is playing games with you and he is a waste of your time, accept this and move on. sorry

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