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bestfriend
OKay im 14/f and i have a guy friend whos 15 he is like my best friend and he has always been there for me... but latley weve been talking about like doing stuff with eachother and like fooling around... but like we wouldnt have sex or anyhting close to it.. but like do you think it will ruin our friendship or change it for the worse?????
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Hi, I think he wants to move it to the next level, RELATIONSHIP. Daniel.
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my advice is to go with it. follow your feelings. because if you dont you wil wonder.."man i wonder what COULD HAVE happened between me and him?" regrets are bad. go for it..bbut definately talk it over. express to him the importance of your friendship and how you dont an to lose it. I am living proof that good friends can go out..things might not work out and you realize you are better off as friends..but you can still go back to being the same friends you always were.
go for it!
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ya i think it totally will because it always starts off with talking about it.its obviously gonna lead your best freind into aksing you if you guys can do it?And if you say no hes gonna say that he likes you more than a freind although he doesnt JUST so he can get it on with ya. so i think you should tell your best freind to stop talkinmg with you bout it and youll really appreciate that.
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Things will definitely change in your relationship, but it might be for the worse. I'd talk to him about how your relationship could really change if you did that stuff and both make a decision. If you guys start going out, you could break up with eachother the next day and things could never be the same, but if you just stayed good friends, it would be much harder just to break up a friendship. You have to take that risk. I can't make this desicion for you, so I'm just going to warn you to make a good choice!
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I do think it will change your friendship, but I wouldn't say it's going to ruin it. Things will be different, and there's a chance they can never be the same. Are you sure you want to take that risk?
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It might not be a good idea because you might get really close then one of you starts to get feelings for eachother while the other one realizes they don't feel anything more then friendship. Also you could dtae then brake up and not get along if it's a bad breakup. Hope everything works out though.
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Its a very good possibility that it might or you may kiss him and feel like he is like your brother...but hey talk to him about how you feel like it might ruin your friendship and see what he has to say...then make your descion
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Well, it could make you both closer, or it can make yins drift apart. And plus, you might seem weird around each other..
But, if your willing to accept that and take a chance...then i would say do it.
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