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confused
this is going to be longgg to bare with me
i liked this guy for 3 years.
he was really mean to me
he would pretend ask me out and then when i said yes he would be like no your too ugly.
and this year he asked me out FORREAL that lasted 1 month cause he cheated on me with his ex. and 4 days later after we broke up he asked me out again and im like okay we went out for 2 and half months. and now we are broken up and the day we broke up we had a fight but it was okay and i missed him cause i was out of town and he wasnt talking to me so i got mad and i cursed at him and then hes like i have to end this relationship he said he needed time to be friends. and everyday i would ask him about the break up and everyday it would change first it was he almost garntee im going to ask you back out i just need time, and then it was i dont know if i will i want to date other girls, then it was yea i dont want to be with you anymore i dont like you or love you. and i felt like he was lieing to me the whole time but for 3 days he kept calling me babe and on the forth day he was like i cant call you babe we dont go out anymore. and then. he started being mean. and it took 1 weeks to get him to be my friend but on the 4th of july i punched him in his face. and he hates me again and he said he doesnt cause he doesnt care enough about me to hate me . he said he just doesnt like me cause im loud and annoying and that has nothing to do with being friends. and everytime i talk to him he thinks im after going out with him and he start talking about how hes never going to go out with me again. and its not even on subject he just brings it up so its like WTF??? and its like if you dont want to be with me why everytime i talk to you, you think i want to get with you all i want to be is his friend nothing more.and me and him share the same friends and he said he wasnt going to hangout with them if him there and its like you say you dont care enough about me to hate me. but you care enough not to hangout cause im there. and when we were friends it still felt like we are going out minus kissing.
and i dont know is he acting this way cause he likes me but doesnt want to. or he wants to date other girls and im all he thinks about?
cause he said hes over the fact i punched him
he just doesnt like me?
i didnt go anything to him
at all and im blame this problem all on myself
theres more to this story but i dont want to make it really long
so if you care to help me out with the WHOLE situtation tell me and i will get back to you
but just help me with this please explain why he is acting this way towards me?
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sweety he doesn't deserve you deserve better. He deserves trash and you should just move on.
go out with someone else and forget about that jerk.
please follow what i said.
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woman how could you be so BlInDe?? he never liked you from the start he just saw that your desperate and decides why not i mean at least ill have something to brag about in front of my guys.hes playin around with you and your feelings why the hell go thru this when you can just forget about him and besides you dont love him either cuz if you did you wouldnt have been feeling all pissed off rite now.dump him and 4get him
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Im sorry to say this but he is playing games with you and he is a waste of your time, accept this and move on. sorry
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Sorry but my best advice is to try and forget about him, atleast this doesnt harm your social life, you can still hang out with your friends - and he said it him self he won't go out with them if you are there.
He could actually be trying to forget about you and his feelings towards you hence the "being mean" so he might have strong feelings for you, otherwise during the times you were dating he found parts of you that he didn't like, and because he has known you for so long he would get the wrong impression of you thinking you want to go out with him again. I would say the more you tamper with him the more pressure and confusion would build - and you nor him would like the results, it seems to me like you two both need to lay off each other now, that means, don't talk to him, and pretend he is just a memory in your life.
However if he talks to you, then play by it, and just treat him like a low friend, let him build his class to being classified as a good/close friend himself. Let him do the work, you've gone through enough. ^_^
Don't forget theres always the bad side of the stick, he might fade away from you, but considering you have the same friends, this might not be the case so keep your chin up.
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