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this is weird-
but do boys get orgasims?
cuz i knoww like for a girl you like
shake a little and like it feels amazing
but like guys do that too rite? and if they
do, how and when do they get them?
thanks

When a guy has an orgasm thats when he "cums" or the right term is ejaculate. That is them having an orgasm... they may shake a little too.
holly

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ok i am 5'5" and weigh 225lbs. all my friends don't believe i weigh that much but i do...i want to lose weight and people told me how to eat healtheir but i can't...i think i'm addicted to food...any advice for me to overcome the addiction...HELP

Seek some help medically. Because if you cant eat more healthy when your friends tell you too... then you're going to need to find a doctor or a special trainer that can force you too.. there is some serious health issues in your future unless you address this problem. NOW.

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whats the worst time to flush a toilet when someone is taking a shower? in the middle or beginning? :(

i'd say probably the middle because they are already warm then BAM it gets cold! ha... random question!

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why is it that some people can wink and others cant? is it like rolling your tongue?
haha thats really random, but ive always wondered that

Some people can just do special things... I can make my tounge into the shape of a butt! LOL. Only my older sister can do that... that i'm aware of... so I guess we're weird!

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Well here the thing. I'm a sixteen year old guy and I have a problem. The thing is that... I like older women. Not just like a little older. MUCH older. Like women fifty and up. I know its weird and gross probably, but I can't stop thinking about it. It's not like I want a relationship with an older women I'm just extremely attracted to them and I can't stop thinking about them. I just want to have sex with older women, and even if I did try to get with an older women they might think I'm weird and I wouldn't know what to say to them in order to try and attract them to me. I just need help on what I should do about this and how I should go about it. Please help me A.S.A.P.

Okay, Its not uncommon. So you're not completly out of the norm. But step out of your shoes for a second and think about this... a lot of males that have this sexual craving dont have either a mother figure, was abused or abandoned by their mother... so their looking for that "mom like" figure in their life. Even though most dont look at it this way. It's just sort of a fantasy. There's nothing you can really do but if you dont want to be with an older woman... then dont let it come between you and someone you may be with for the rest of your life. Also there are a lot of older women or older men that date younger people.. they wont think its weird. Just gotta find the right person.
Good luck.
Holly

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Me and my bf make out all the time but i always have my hands just like to myself idk what to do with them..... anybody have any ideas of what i can do?

You should put your arms around his neck. Anything that feels comfortable.

its kind of awkward to kiss and just keep your hands to yourself

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This guy has been calling me a lot, and I barely know him. We've hung out a few times (with other friends with us), and only once has he mentioned wanting to see me in a different way if you know what I mean. But he calls me and we talk about random stuff. The thing is, he's not the boyfriend type and usually has a bunch of girls, never a girlfriend (or so I've HEARD). My question is.. IF I wanted to have something with this guy, how can I make him "settle down" and be in a real exclusive relationship? Any tips, tricks, advice? thanks!

Take things slow. if you try and rush into relationships they always turn out bad. Take the time to get to really know him and talk to him about what he wants in life like relationships and future and what not. If he doesnt want the same things as you, its not worth it. good luck

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well i really like this guy and he is real nice including really HOTT. Well i want to do some thing with him because ive not got to hang out with him out of shcool. but im not alowd to have him over. eny ideas were we could hang

well if you arnt allowed to have him over its probably because you're a little young to be dating.

I know how that is. I was once there too. Find a girlfriend that is allowed to hang out and have guys over... Go over there and just chill!

:) its kinda fun being sneaky anyway

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Hi, I really like this guy I used to work with. I've liked him for 3 years now. We used to have a little thing where we looked like we were going out but we weren't. Well he came over the past few nights and it seemed like he really liked me but since those few nights he hasn't called or talked to me. Can anyone tell me what they think about this and whether or not I'm just wasting my time on someone who is using me. What should I do?

well he might like the fact that you like him so he plays hard to get? But maybe hes just being an ass. Try calling him and leaving him a message asking whats going on. He might just be busy. But if he doesnt call you back in a few days its not worth a heartache. Good luck!

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My 17 year old daughter quit school, does not have a job--and does NOTHING around the house. She
does have money in savings which she has been blowing like crazy, but that's almost gone now. She lied to me about last night, said she stayed at a friends to babysit younger siblings, and I found out differently. The friends Mom doesn't even care that our daughters weren't there, so she is not much help. I don't know where my daughter is right now. When she comes home, I am going to tell her she cannot stay anywhere from now on. (she did this one other time and was grounded) I am prepared for a big fight from her, and she will probably leave without my permission. I am going to tell her that I will report her as a runaway.

However, then I have no clue what will happen next (if I get the law involved)

She might turn the story on me and say she is abused. (Which of course she is not) but she plays the role of the victim well, and threatened to call CPS another time when I put my foot down.

Her BF is 19 and lives in a bordering state, but is it against the law if he takes her across state lines? She is (17) and other people seem to think that would not be against the law because she is over 16.

So my questions are.

Is a relationship between a 17 yr old and 19 yr old legal?

What happens when a 17 yr old is reported as a run away?

Does CPS automatically believe a teenager who plays the victim?

Yes its legal for a 17 year old and a 19 year old. It has to be 2 years apart. If its more than 2 years then its against the law if hes over age. Now even tho shes over 16 doesnt mean she can make decisions like leaving state or whatever... or running away for that matter. As long as they are under 18 they are under your control unless you're abusive or she gets (okay spelling is bad) emansipated. Now you're gonna have to talk to CPS yourself because I dont really know. But as far as I know shes under your control still since she isnt considered an "adult" yet.

good luck.
sounds tough!!

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Hey how do i get a girl to like me?

Honestly just be yourself. Dont act any other way, because if shes going to like you she needs to appricate you for who you are :). Just try talking to her and asking to hang out and what not :) if shes interested you can move from there. But take things slow and dont push anything... girls dont like to be pushed into any type of situation it makes us uncomfortable

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so, a random question bout sex. i was just wondering, since statistics show that the average teen loses their virginity by the age of 17. well.. is it possible to have sex (when the guy uses a condom) and NOT get pregnant? cuz like, other teens have done it and they havent got pregnant riight? but what im scared of is that my sister had an unplanned pregnancy and she already had a baby. she said she used a condom and i guessed it broke.

questions:
is it common for a condom to break?
can a girl get pregant if a guy uses a condom?

thanks in advance.

No, a girl cant get prego with a good condom. Condoms break every once in a while if theres to much friction or there's a hole, but if you ever do get a break and you're scared go to planned parenthood and they will give you the morning after pill. Which is good. And if you still dont feel safe using a condom then at planned parenthood they will give you a year supply of birth control. Its an awesome place! Dont be scared to go there!
Best of luck

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so i'm a little worried i might be pregnant. typical symptoms are morning sickness, eating a lot & getting cravings, peeing alot, missing periods, maybe sleeping a lot? breasts getting bigger & tender?.. i dont know.. but anyways, i have all of that. what exactly are the symptoms? and yes, i plan on getting a home pregnancy test, its just hard to find the oppurtunity to. but i was hoping that it could maybe be stress. not saying i dont want kids but just with my age, having a baby wouldnt be a good idea- expecially with whats been going on with the baby's (if there is one) daddy.

Well you did list most of the signs. You need to stop putting of the pregnacy test and take it. And if you are pregnant and this isnt the best time for you, you always have the option of abortion. Best of luck!

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the past two times i have had sex i am bleeding, this is not my first time and i am really conserend and worried what does this mean?

Well your boyfriend maybe bigger than the last guy, also if you go a while with you doing any sexual activity your vagina hole does get smaller and goes back to a small form. So he may be ripping you. I guess try having sex more consistantly than spacing it out because it just may be that you're "shrinking". If it continues though I say you may want to see a doc from planned parenthood. And you can do it all in confidence. :) Best of luck!

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I always lie to my parents so I don't get in trouble. They're awfully hard on me sometimes, but after I tell the lie I realize it probably would've been easier to just tell them the truth, admit what I did in the first place was wrong, and then take my punishment. What can I do to stop lying, and is there anything that my parents can do on their part so that I don't feel the need to lie - or am I just a weak teenager because I used to be such a good kid and never get in trouble?

I think you just need to grow up and realize that lying doesnt get you anywhere. Sometimes if you just tell the truth.. possibly cry a little tell them you'll never do it again and mean it then they wont punish you. Sometimes telling the truth is better in the long run! Even if you do get grounded or whatever.. still keeps you out of trouble and you learn from it. Not much your parents can change.. its all about you and wanting to tell the truth.
best of luck

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How do I get over a guy that doesn't like me back. Everytime I see him in class; I just melt. I just begin to think about how perfect of a boyfriend he would be. I often find my mind just running off about him. My question is NOT how to get him to like me; Its how do I get over him?

Well I guess you can just try and focus on other people/things. Surround yourself in class with people that will help you get your mind off of him. In time you'll get over him. It might take a long time but sooner or later you'll find the right guy!
Best of luck

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I really like this guy, my really good friend, who is taken but he doesn't know it. I got him something for Valentine's Day, but obviously, I haven't given it to him yet... I'm wondering if I still should. I'm giving things to other people (both ladies and guys). It's nothing big, I mean what I got for him. Maybe I shouldn't give it to him... or? I don't know... I really want to but it might seem a little wrong. Should I? Or I shouldn't?

Well if you got other people gifts I dont see why not. It wouldnt be obvious that you like him.. Unless you're trying to show him. But if you're giving other people gifts as well I say go for it! He might really appreciate it!
Best of luck

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Is gatorade healthier/better than water?

gatorade is good to drink after you work out, while you are working out it dehidrates you. Or thats what the wrestling coach told me at my school. Go for water while you're working out, and then to get your energy back up and replace all that stuff you lost while you sweat drink gatorade.
Hope i helped :)

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ok theres this guy that asked me out i met him BEFORE MYSPACE. now he asked me out on myspace and way before he said do you want to hang out sometime this week but that was like 2 monthes ago and i asked if he wanted to hang out again.
it said he read it but no reply. and i left a bulletin saying something about this guy and this other guy because i asumed we wernt going out. and he replyed to that saying..that boy you like better be me. and im like. yeah it is lol. WICH WAS A HUGE MISTAKE. so what do you guys think. is he playing me? i mean it seems like he dosnt want to do anything. if he asked me out why dosnt he talk to me? PLEASE HELP ME IM CONFUSED.

INEEDHELPBAD

Any type of internet relationships are stupid. Go for the other guy. This guy obviously isnt giving you the time of day! Forget him!

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okay so ive been best friends
with this boy,his names JR,for
a couple years now. ive always thought
of us as best friends and stuff.
i never really thought of liking him
liking him..but the other night we
were texting and i was like "so how
are things goin with katie?"who is
this slutty girl that i always tease
him about liking cuz he did a long timeago,
and he was like "i dont like her natasha.god damn." and he got mad kinda so i was like "wow wtfs wrong with you"and he was like "well i like someone else,and it makes me mad that you always think i like her" and i was just like"ooh ok sorry" and thne i was like "so then..who do ya like?" just wondering u know since he is my best friend, and he was like "i dno if i should tell you,you'll think im dumb." and i was like TELL ME! and it took a couple texts to get him to come through then he was like "ok are you ready?!?" and im like "yah" and hes like "ok jfdladajldajfyoujlafjdaljfad find it in there"at first i didnt see it so i was like"huh?"and hes like"omg jflajlfadIljfdaljdaLIKEjfdjallaYOU!!jlfdjla"and i couldnt believe it so i was jus tlike"r you serious"and he is and everyhting...what do i do?
i actually have began to like him.but hes my best friend, if i got with him and we broke up it might ruin everything.he said it wont, but i ndo.
HELP.

you should talk it out. Explain your thoughts about how you are worried about the friendship. Also, guy bestfriends are always the best boyfriends. You start out with a good strong friendship and then you build off of that. Take it slow, dont officially have the name "going out" be "together" for a while to build up to see if you like it without the full commitment yet. If you feel weird about it just let him know. If hes your best friend for that long and you decide its not working out. He'll most likely understand! Just talk things threw. And take it slow.
Hope everything works out for the best hun!

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