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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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My best friend ever is always ditching me for guys. Everytime Im on the phone with her, if she gets a call from a guy or even her ex-boyfriend who treated her really bad when they were going out. What do i do?

I know how that is. You need to tell her how you feel about it and let her know you feel like she is choosing guys over you, which isn't fair. If she doesn't listen to you or understand how you feel.. you might want to reconsider what kind of friend she really is.

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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them

yes, it is polite and it shows that you are interested in speaking with them and with what they have to say.

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Why do people say its special to kiss in the rain?
What makes it diffrent then kissing when its not raining?
Does it feel diffrent or something?.

Thank you
please answer a.s.a.p

it's just something different, and it feels more romantic.

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hey, i just finished my freshman year in highskewl and i received my report card. i looked at the bottom and saw simple rank 18/886 and WGT RAND 33/886, WHAT IS THAT? my friend's simple rank is numercally higher than her WGT. unlike me. WHAT'S UP WITH THAT.

its the regular grade rank and your weighted grade rank of where you are in your class. seems like you're near the top. good job!

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ok, well every now and then i get these really really bad headaches, my eyes get very sensitive to light and even the slightest noise makes my head pound. Now iknow the cause of these headaches isnt from my vision, because ive had my eyes checked many times and i do wear glasses. What can be causing them? thanks 4 ur answers

Sounds like your getting migraines. They can be caused from stress, and pressures in your every day life amongst many other things. If they are occuring relatively frequently, though.. you should see a doctor and be put on some kind of prescription.

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I think I might like my ex boyfriends best friend. I don;t now what to do. I still like my ex but I think I may like his friend more. what should I do. If you have ever had a problem like this please tell me what you did. thanks.

If you like him go for it. You can't control your feelings.

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I married and we we wont a chaild ,but the doktor say that here egs is not caming out to mix with male 1 is OK he sead pls help how we get the answer pls

Maybe you should learn to write and spell correctly before you have a child.

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Is it ok for christans to masterbate? I want to know befor I start. Thanks.

Yes. It's a normal part of life, or something like that. Though some girls do it more than others and some girls (like me) don't do it very often at all.

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Today at school, during lunch, i got bored.
we guys were sitting on the bench outside and they dared me to walk up to a guy and slap him for no reason at all. Being bored, i did it and kinda slapped him harder than I intended. I am not usually a violent or mean person but that was pretty mean. It turns out he is one of those sensitive guys. ( not sensitve as in gay, more like as in easy to fell upset and has plenty of emotions.)Most guys just laugh when you do crap like that, but he almost started crying. I felt bad, and went to appologize to him but he didn't quite accept my appologies. He was saying "forget it" but he still looked all emotional.
I feel really guilty about it now and i want to know how i can apologize to him.

Tell him it was a dare and that you didn't mean to smack him so hard.

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ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!!

let him know he needs to slow down a bit. and if everyone knows it seems like hes running his mouth.. so you might want to get rid of that too.

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ok this is a riddle that most of my friends dont get, i do know the awncer and ill give it to you o the feed back! easy 5!

What get's wetter,
The more it dries?

towel.

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hi, this has been bugging me for ages. when i was 13 i got the chicken pox. i went to the hospital and was seen by a male doctor. he asked me to take my top off to have a better look at my spots. i had them on my arms and body. then he told me to take my cami-top off too so i'd be naked down to my waist. i cried but he insisted it had to be done. so i did and he touched my breasts...all this was to confirm i had chicken pox. thats not normal is it?

thats not right.. you should tell someone

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ok.. i get my braces off soon (august) and i was wondering if anyone knows any good products to whiten your teeth??? i checked my dentist but the lazer treatment is 500$ and not including the stuff you have to keep putting on your teeth every so often.i just want something cheap and easy to start out with. Thanks!!!

I've used Crest White Strips & night Effects, and in my personal opinion the crest white strips work really well, so I'd recommend those.

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i hear i guy likes me and i like him. some of my friends say he does. how can i tell?

ask him. or see if he drops little hints. should be somewhat obvious if he acts differently around you.

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ok, heres the deal, ive been 18 for a month or 2, and heres the deal, im kinda sexually advanced, except ive never actually gone all the way. and ive always been proud of this...untill now, and its freaking driving me nuts, like i all of a sudden have to have it. and this is unbelievably unlike me cuz ive always been the upright goody goody that everyone can always depend on. so for the love of god, somebody give me some advice!!!!!! plz ladies, i need some advice

fight the urge!! lol =)

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Well.. i'm dating this kid named Eric and I really like Eric, hes like a really good friend of mine. We started dating on Tuesday, and now I just don't like him as a boyfriend anymore. Everytime I date a guy I can't seem to like them more then 2 days, Is there something wrong with me?? Is this normal? Should I keep dating Eric.. or do you think I actually don't like him?? *

Give it time, just don't wait two days figure you arent interested and give up.. wait a while and see if your opinion changes.

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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz.

Well you have her number, she obviously gave it to you for a reason if she didn't object to it. so why not call her?

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does anyone know of zit cleansers,creams,or pads whatever for oily face please help i donno what to try

Well I have "combination" skin so my fac eis oily sometimes.. but when I wash my face I use Clean & Clear Morning Burst Facial Cleanser in the morning.. Afternoon's I use Biore face wipes & at night I tend to use an astringent.. They all keep your face from being too oily and clean it pretty well too. Hope it helps..

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14 f, i'm in high school and i'm not that happy. sometimes i think its really fun but sometimes i just feel like crying. people say high school is supposed to be the funnest part of you life.... please help

High School's a really emotional time actually. You'll be happy one minute and sad about something the next.. but its all part of growing up.. so don't worry. hope it helps *amber*

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I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/

Every girl wants one of those movie love stories, whether they admit it or not ;-) So don't worry, you aren't stupid.

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