Today at school, during lunch, i got bored.
we guys were sitting on the bench outside and they dared me to walk up to a guy and slap him for no reason at all. Being bored, i did it and kinda slapped him harder than I intended. I am not usually a violent or mean person but that was pretty mean. It turns out he is one of those sensitive guys. ( not sensitve as in gay, more like as in easy to fell upset and has plenty of emotions.)Most guys just laugh when you do crap like that, but he almost started crying. I felt bad, and went to appologize to him but he didn't quite accept my appologies. He was saying "forget it" but he still looked all emotional.
I feel really guilty about it now and i want to know how i can apologize to him.
sleepiesheep answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 9:25 pm: maybe talk to him and tell him why you did it and that you didnt mean to hurt him of get him upset thats all i can think of sry. hope this helped.
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silversky89 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 5:11 pm: You need to sit down and talk to him about the whole. It is almost certain that he will ask you why you did it in the first and when he hears it was a dare, it will be up to him to forgive you or not. But make sure he hears you out that you are not usually a mean or violent person. If he hears that and understands he will be more likely to forgive you. [ silversky89's advice column | Ask silversky89 A Question ]
Ask_Kayla answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:58 pm: you could always try telling him that ur sorry or make him a card and somehow get his phone number and leave him a message or you could go up there and kiss him and tell him that your sorry! that has working for me many of times..
i dont really no if your a guy or a girl so i hope this helped ither way
x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:52 pm: Ok well just let him cool off and look for him in school tomorrow and approach him when your friends aren't around. Tell him you realized how mean that was and you didn't mean anything by it, and that you didnt mean to slap him that hard at all. Tell him you're not a violent person and that you want to make evrything sraight between you guys. Good luck! ♥ caitie [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
hco_babe answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:43 pm: umm. your a dick. (if your a guy) yeah. basically. you should sincerely apologize with none of your little friends who dared you to do that around, and ask to take him to lunch on you or something nice like that. that would be the right thing to do. oh and p.s.never do anything like that again. [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
Docholliday answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:33 pm: What? Are you for real, that is the most rude thing I have ever heard of. Why would your friends dare you to do that? And are you a guy, cuz hello guys don't slap they punch. That was not cool, sorry to be all downing on you but... Come on, that was horrible, dude if girls saw you do that for no reason you are going to be out of luck with getting any nice hot girl. You just need to be straight witht the guy and tell him you are just dumbed for acepting the dare, and that you sincerely apologize. Good luck with that one, and I hope to God you never do that again. [ Docholliday's advice column | Ask Docholliday A Question ]
OMGitsRoxy answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:33 pm: Haha, thats so funnny!!!!! Guys slap guys? Cool. Umm okay, try to get one of your friends to ask him what kind of music he likes and get him that artists new album or lastest album or w/e. Go up to him and say "dude here, i got you this. sorry i slapped you. somebody dared me and i was bored... you know how it is. please forgive me, im sorry." Lol, that sounded really weird, but thats all i got. *laughing my ass off* [ OMGitsRoxy's advice column | Ask OMGitsRoxy A Question ]
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