My best friend ever is always ditching me for guys. Everytime Im on the phone with her, if she gets a call from a guy or even her ex-boyfriend who treated her really bad when they were going out. What do i do?
xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Friday June 30 2006, 3:58 pm: I think you should just talk to her. Best friends should always listen to what you have to say. Tell her you don`t like her ditching you ( i know it`s something that people say a lot but it works).She should never choose guys over your friendship.
xolilabbs214ox answered Friday June 30 2006, 1:06 pm: i kinda have a friend like that. you just have to be like "ok. ur my best friend and i was there for you when those boys dumped you. and know you are putting them b4 me." just exlplain to her to try to get her priorties(sp) right. and maybe say that if she keeps doing it, maybe ou wont be there for her when she lets those boys back into her life again...just to get hurt. [ xolilabbs214ox's advice column | Ask xolilabbs214ox A Question ]
EmbracedxRain answered Friday June 30 2006, 11:53 am: I know how that is. You need to tell her how you feel about it and let her know you feel like she is choosing guys over you, which isn't fair. If she doesn't listen to you or understand how you feel.. you might want to reconsider what kind of friend she really is. [ EmbracedxRain's advice column | Ask EmbracedxRain A Question ]
aShKnOWs answered Friday June 30 2006, 4:40 am: I had a friend like that.Well she want really a friend if you know what i mean? Well first tell her how you feel in a calm matter. No one likes to be told wht they are doing wrong wen they are being screamed at. Secondly, if she blows it off, or keeps doing it=BLOW HER OFF AND MAKE NEW FRENDS! kk?!
Teza answered Friday June 30 2006, 2:18 am: The best thing to do is just talk to her about it. She might not even realize that she does that. If you don't talk to her and tell her she's going to keep doing it and it's going to bother you more. She's your best friend and she will respect that you told her how you felt about it. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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