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it hurts... a lot
So, I was talking with this guy and I'm 15 and he's 16. We were planning on doing it because, I thought, we were basiclly dating. Today, I found out he had a myspace and apparently he has a girlfriend he never told me about or mentioned. I saw the comments she left him saying how much she loves him and then his replys and they were from today. I know this means he's basiclly an ass and I shouldn't be with him or care for him anymore but I really hurt. Should I just not answer his calls and have nothing to do with him anymore or should I confront him or what should I do? Should I tell his girlfriend that he was planning on having sex with me? (I've never talked to her before) Someone please help me before I lose my mind.
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i would deff say something to him, when he calls and play along untill brings up doing things, say.."mmm idk maybe ill do it when you a your girlfriend break up" and if he gives you crap saying that hell dump her after you do it, dont listen to him, your probally to good for him anyway
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WOW is that guy a player or something? I think you should tell his girlfriend but most girlfriends would be like your a lier so you should have proof or something. I know you do probably hurt 7 i think the best thing to do is say no & just walk away. I mean the guy is dumb. yes, i think you should also tell him. Maybe thre was a missunderstanding but i doubt it. If it wasn`t a misunderstanding don`t take him back whatever he does just don`t take him back.
Hope I helped & hope everthing will trun out good =]
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i would definetely tell his girlfriend. i mean, jsut think- if things were the other way around- wouldnt you want to know that your boyfriend was planning on being with another woman? and of course, stop talknig to him- hes a jerk, and you deserve so much better than that. hes only after one thing.
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I wouldn't answer his calls or emails or IMs or whatever. But if you do plan on telling his girlfriend, don't just be all, "Hi, my name is Caroline, and your bf was going to have sex with me." because chances are, she will think you are crazy and will block you before you can go into deets. OR she might believe you, if she's the trusting type and if her bf has a sort of playboy reputation. Hope that helps!
Alice
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confront to him that would make things alot better because if you let it in and his gf finds out then that would make things alot worse and you don't want that...so that is what i would do in this situation however do not mention anything to his gf or that would be horrible.
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I say you break up with him.....
BUT...
Give him a REALLY hard time first...!!!!;)
It's up to you how you wanna do it but just make sure you give him a REALLY HARD time before you break up with him. I know taking revenge is kinda bad, but don't you think that revenge is sweet sometimes?!
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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Hi, this guy sounds as though he's after the girls or sex. He might be using you. I would confront him about it before it goes any further. I suppose if you wanted to stick the knife in you could tell his girlfriend but really your better off confronting him and just move on. Sex should only happen when your:
a) Girlfriend and boyfriend
b) You've known each other for a while
c) You've thought about contraception
d) When you feel ready
e) A bit more older
He sounds as though he wants every girl on a plate and what will probaly happen is he will make them think that they love each other were as really he's in for the sex. I would deffinately confront him and have now't to do with him no longer. Daniel.
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yu should ignore his calls dont ever talk to him again no one deserves to go through something like that. Some guys are very imature. I say yu tell his gf about it also.
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Okay, can I just say... I FEEL YOUR PAIN.
yeahhh.. basically, same thing happening with me..but, he doesn't have a girlfriend. But, hes a huge playa. & I know he likes this other girl.
Its tough, but you gotta forget him best you can. He really isn't it worth it. Promise. I mean, he obviously doesn't care about you much.. if he has another girlfriend. He just wants to have sex with you, because he wants your body, or whatever. haha
Don't tell his girlfriend. You'll hurt her, & probaly more yourself. Tell him, you know all about whatsherface & want nothing to do with him.
Don't buy his lame excuses. I did for the one kid, & he ended up asking to do it with me again. After we just had the long conversation on how I didn't want too.
You gotta remember, theres other fish in the sea, & you deserve someone better then that. Its hard, but you'll get over him soon. Just start talking to other guys =) & you'll forget all about him in no time. Its working for me. =D
I hope I helped! Bye.
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You should havve gotten to know this guyy better before you two planned on having sex. I mean you dont know if he has aids or something.
But If I were you I would tell his girlfriend, or tell him that if he doesnt tell her,then YOU will. Maybe that will convince him to tell the truth. haha.
S0Oo0Oo0Oo---that is myy advice--I hope that I helped. :-D
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That guy is obviously not worth your time. No guy should ever treat any girl like that. I don't think you should tell his girlfriend. That will only cause further problems. Tell him you found out that he has a girlfriend and that you two shouldn't talk anymore. If you keep talking to him it will only hurt you in the end. Just erase him from your life and try to move on, no matter how much it hurts. Eventually you will find a guy that treats you right. In time it will only get better.
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well...saying something to his girlfriend might only upset him more and leave you being hurt more.<br><br>
you need to just confront him and all you have to do is tell him that you know about his girlfriend and you dont need a guy like him in your life...<br.<br>
then you completely erase him from your life. he's not even worth it. find a guy that respects you. i may not know you but NO girl deserves something like that.<br><br>
Hope that helped.
♥Me
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I know you have the urge to "warn" his girlfriend or confront him and get angry, but believe me it will only bring more pain.
if you try to tell his gf then he will make up some story that your some stalker, and there is a whole lot of more trouble. the fact is, your the girl on the side and the smartest thing to do is calmly tell him you wnt be taking his calls nymore and leave it at that
delete him from you phone & memory. He's only trouble and you dnt need that kind of negativity in your life.
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