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Virgin?


Question Posted Thursday June 28 2007, 2:51 am

Is a girl considered a "virgin" is she has had oral or anal sex but not intercorse?

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disasterxwoah answered Friday June 29 2007, 11:30 pm:
It's different for people, but I say yes, you're still a virgin.

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DangerNerd answered Friday June 29 2007, 6:14 am:
In my opinion virginity is about being clean for your partner.

Ask yourself... without that, what is the point of it? There isn't any if you can't guarantee freedom from disease and sexual baggage for your partner.

So if you have done anything that would even have the possibility of you having a sexually transmitted disease, then you have taken away the whole point of virginity, which is being completely free of sexual baggage and disease.

As a side note: Never lie about this. It always ends badly.

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Genrawks2 answered Thursday June 28 2007, 5:59 pm:
Uhm. Everyone has different opinions..

As for me, I think you're not a virgin anymore when the dick enters the poonani.

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miren2k answered Thursday June 28 2007, 1:48 pm:
There is a clear cut line between being a virgin and not being a virgin - once the penis has penetrated the vagina. Only then, are you not a virgin.

It is factual only a few people will say "It depends on.. etc" because they don't understand the facts.. the word virgin comes from biblical times.. the reason it was so amazing that Mary was a virgin and gave birth to Jesus was that you can obviously not have a baby if you are a virgin because you havn't had sex

Now.. if Mary had anal sex and someone somehow thought that it meant she was not a virgin anymore, then im sure a lot of people would be confused at how she was pregnant with Jesus after anal sex rather then being pregnant after being a virgin.

LOL

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GalPalNessa answered Thursday June 28 2007, 12:29 pm:
as a matter of fact, yes =)
even though oral and anal sex has taken place, you are still considered a virgin, sincevirginity is defined by not yet having ever had intercorse... penis penetration into the vigina...
so, yup, still a virgin
=) hope this helped

VB

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FiaBean answered Thursday June 28 2007, 11:26 am:
Nope, you have to have penis to vagina interaction in order to become de-virginized. Also, your cherry needs to pop. :)

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cheap_thrills answered Thursday June 28 2007, 11:07 am:
A girls virginity has nothing to do with scientific fact, it's up to the girl to decide when she loses her virginity. So no, that may not be concidered losing your virginity because those arent the standards the girl has set. Its like saying if vaginal sex is losing your virginity, then rape is losing it as well.

hope this helped.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday June 28 2007, 10:09 am:
It really varies from people's different opinons.

Some believe a girl isn't if she had oral/anal and some believe she still is.

To me, unless the penis enters the vagina, a girl is a virgin.

However, you need to decide for yourself. It's really your opinon.

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orphans answered Thursday June 28 2007, 9:56 am:
at my school, oral sex is kind of common and so no, so it would basically keep a girl a virgin
i would consider having anal sex losing virginity, but others may not consider it that way

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lbwhite89 answered Thursday June 28 2007, 8:46 am:
Everyone has their own opinion on what makes someone not a virgin, but here's my take on it:

I don't think oral sex makes you not a virgin. I've given a guy oral before and I still consider myself a virgin. Even if he did it to me, oral sex doesn't take your virginity.

Now for anal. If I received anal sex, I wouldn't consider myself a virgin anymore. Take gay men for example. Some never have sex with a woman. But would you consider a gay man a virgin just because he's only had anal sex? I'd say that person is DEFINITELY not a virgin.

Vaginal intercourse is different, but I don't think that people should still say they're a virgin just because no guy has entered their vagina. You could be the biggest whore in town and just have anal and oral sex. That definitely doesn't make you a virgin.

So basically, IN MY OPINION, once penetration occurs, you are no longer a virgin.

But, like I said, everyone has their own opinions about things...there's technically no "right" answer.

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sdcutie717 answered Thursday June 28 2007, 8:03 am:
Most would say yes, but there is no clear cut line for what is and isn't a virgin. If you believe that losing your virginity is when you recieve or give oral sex, then your not a virgin. Some consider themselves virgins until a guy has actually cummed inside of them. It's all about how you look at it.

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