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being myself.


Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 8:21 pm

so. this was my first year in high school and in public school. i was "shy" and quiet in class. I did make soem friends though. It just feels like in school all the girls look the same and than u have me who has my own style and stuff. People are saying im "weird" and making up rumors just because i stick out. I have brown hair and green eyes and people just think im weird because im not afraid to be myself. Am i doing the right thing?

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sarraleew answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:43 pm:
you should never be afraid to be yourself. all my friends are really out there. some wear wigs and tops, mountian dew can belts (don't ask), and the most out there and bright eye makeup. they get comments and rumors but the key to it is ignoring them and sticking to being you. most of them will stop once they see that you don't care, and the other who continue are jealous that you are yourself and that they have to hide behide fake clothes and fake selves. so start rumors about them or just tell them that they're pathetic, and just jealous. so stay being you and fuck them that they're not cool enough to do the sme.

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LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:38 pm:
you're doing the right thing...when youre upperclassmen, people will start to really like your originality. <3

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queen_of_beauty94 answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:21 pm:
Hey!Dont listen to all dose shit heads talkling about you.Who cares if you dont dress the same as them?!Dont chage for anyone.Its cool to be yourself.Being yourself is better than being all fake and liking the same thing as everyone else.
YES!!!!!!!!its the right thig being your self.
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Ashlee_ox answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 10:40 pm:
yeah u are dont worry about wha they say!

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 10:19 pm:
i think youre doing the right thing. i mean who wants to be like everyone else? i actually did the same thing as you. the thing is is to just ignore the ones who talk. but yes being your self and being who you know you are if good.
simone

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JACKiEx3 answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:58 pm:
you are definietly doing the right thing. staying true to yourself is the most important thing. never change yourself to fit in. the friends you have love you for who you are and thats ALL you need.

in a few years. looking back high school is going to be such a small part of your life and you can be happy that you stayed strong.

i admire you :]

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DaNcE_In_ThE_RaIn answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:55 pm:
Of course you're doing the right thing..People are probably just jealous that they don't have the guts to be who they want to be and not who people want them to be. Don't listen to what they say it dosen't matter anyway. Forget their lies.. Be you!

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not_your_star34 answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:30 pm:
Yes, you're doing the right thing. You should feel good because not many people have the guts to wear, do, and say what they really want to. That's one reason that a lot of people look, act, and do the same thing.

You shouldn't act a certain way because people say things about you. You sound confident, because you aren't afraid to be yourself. If you acted/dressed a certain way just for people to like and accept you, you might make 'friends,' but they wouldn't really be 'friends.' They would like you for what you're pretending to be, not for who you are.

People who are scared to be themselves envy people who are proud of who they are. Always stay true to you and ALWAYS be proud to be who you are!

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
&hearts;Manders

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xomegaroni answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:25 pm:
yeah you are!! i like being the one that sticks out & i respect people that do it too. as long as you're being yourself it doesn't matter.

-hope that helped!&hearts;

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naimee answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:23 pm:
Of course you are! I love people that are unique, and that stand away from everyone else. You aren't trying to be something you're not, you're just being yourself. & It takes balls for someone to do that! You're lucky that you can have originality, because some girls & guys are just so into themselves, and want to fit in with everyone else. :) You're definately doing the right thing. Keep it up!

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HCOxBABE answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:22 pm:
Yes, you're doing the right thing. It's good that you have originality & they don't. I can't stand those people who think you're weird because of the kind of clothes you wear. Don't listen to them, they're just afraid to be different.

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