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My sister hates me.. help!
Okay, here's the story:
when i was 9 years old, i found out that i had a sister, named Elisabeth. she is now 20, and i'm 13. I have only seen her 3 times in my entire life, why? because she hates me. Now i know alot of you are gonna say "but she DOES love you" she doesnt. She absolutely hates me. She never gives me her number, nor her email. She hides from me--litteraly! she lives in my state (i THINK) but i dont know where. My dad has no contact with her, and my mom isnt related to her at all. So my sister ends up hanging out with my cousin, (FYI my cousin is like, Miss. Perfect and is really nice, etc.) like the sister she never got. Now i'm tired of crying, but i do love her. What the hell do i do? i mean, i cant forget about her, i cant talk to her, WTF?!?!?!?!!
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well i would talk about this to your parents even if this is the last thing you want to do. talk to her and see why she doesnt like you. maybe its some of your habits or something but if she only met you 3 times, i dont think she hates you i think she just doesnt know you well enough and is uncomfortable around you, plus there is a big age difference. hope i helped - - <3 michelle
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sweetie, i dont think she hates you.
she might hate your dad and the rest of ur familu, but how can she hate you if she doesnt even know you?
she just has no contact withy ou because of ur dad.
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Maybe she has a really awful relationship with your father and doesn't want to have a close connection with him. Who knows. Worrying about it will never make her stop being an idiot. Crying won't make her love you. If she won't make you worth her time, why let her take up yours? Just try to use the love you are lucky enough to have from your parents to fill in the void she creates.
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Have you tried asking her why it is she is hiding from you? Why she seems to hate you?
I think it would be a good idea to have a talk with her if you can catch her sometime.
It could be that she just doesn't know how to treat you. Maybe she doesn't really know how you feel about her. Your dad doesn't have anything to do with her...she may think you feel the same.
She may also be a little jealous of his relationship with you.
Try and talk with her. Hopefully you can get her to listen and become good friends if nothing more. :)
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Hey There,
Look Her Up, Read in Phone Books, and maybe ask people about her. Get in contact with her. And Get face-to-face with her and just ask her why she does this. Of course she may say she doesnt hate you. But prove her lie way wrong.
Show her that you don't hate her although that might be what she thinks. You guys really need to work on your friendship. Hope things work out for your sake!
-GD ((Green Day))
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