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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me...
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just ask your parents. im sure they will understand if you really wanna go. and say youll bee sleeping in another room. that always helps =]
xOx ash-
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WEll, I'm not a big fan on lying so I think you should fess up. Tell your parents that there will be parental supervision, and say that you will call them every few hours to make sure everything is alright. IF you sit them down and explain this to them, I"m sure they'll go for it.
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i think you should flat out ask. i was in a situation over the summer ...we had a co-ed campout..and i lied to my parents and said i was sleeping at a friends house..well what do ya know..one of the parents called my mom about this "co-ed sleepover" and i got in (some) trouble.
funny thing is, my dad told me all i had to do is ask and he would have said ok.
so try it. ask. tell them your friend will be there and his parents will be sure to seperate guys from girls when its "bed time."
honestly..i could see myself just saying im going to a friends house but really sleeping over..but after what happened last summer, i would probably ask.
are your parents the type who will call you at your friends house? if your confident they wont, you could chance it..but just be sure tias parents wont call your parents about this
(thats how i got caught...a friends parent called my family about it)
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With all honosty? Ask them. Just plain out. Say "Tia and I are goin gto go sleep over Andy's. is that ok with you?" Be ready to adjust to any requests they have. If they want you to call them at 11 or something, go with it. They jsut want you to be safe. If you have to, have your parents meet andy and his parents. If they do say no though, I'd back out. If your parents find otu they'll lose their trust of you. Just ask him to hang out some other day.
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Being the rebel that I am I would lie about it and say you're sleeping at Tia's house. You may get in trouble but how long can they really punish you for? And is whatever punishment they can give you worth staying at a guy's house?
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Your parents will find out. Are they the type that will check up on you once in a while? Do you have any friends that might accidently spill the beans? I would just ask them, that is if you really want to go. Maybe they can meet Andy's parents. Are they going to be there?
Heres the thing. If you lie, and you get caught. Your parents will have a very hard time trusting you in the future. Funny thing about trust. It is very easy to lose someones trust and it is very difficult to earn it back. You can always lie and hope for the best but eventually parents find out. Do you want their trust?
Eva J
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just tell them that and hope for the best. have a good time and it will be worth the trouble...if you do end up gettin caught. just do something out of the ordinary. dont worry so much. chances are that everything will go good anyways and your parents will never kno
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Lol wow definitely have been in that situation. Do whatever you think you need to do. If you know you're going to get caught, or think it's wrong that you do it, then don't. If you want to do it, then do it. It's up to what you think you should do.
♥ Melissa
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Don't do it. BAD! I know it sounds like fun but it is not worth it. Trust me.
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You actually need to be honest about this if your parents see you being honest and good and trust the guys parents they might actually say yes and besides if they catch you you are so beyond dead. and I'm typically a rebel child.
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dont do that. just tell them the truth and say that it isnt like you gyus are gonna have sex or something (DUH!) so they shouldnt worry. If they say no, see if you can go over till 1130 or something then come home. :)
Hope it Helps!
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Melanie
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WOW! this has happened to me so many times. I have been caught too many times to count. HONEST! Don't lie to your parents about you sleeping over at Tia's house and then going to Andy's. YOU ALWAYS END UP GETTING CAUGHT! Tell your parents that Andy is one of your friends and tell your parents to talk to his parents about it. If his parents were smart they would make sure nothing is going to happen to any of the kids sleeping over. Talk it over with your family and Andy's.
HOPE I HELPED!
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Well i would try asking your parents..sneaking over there won't turn out pretty. They will probably try to call just to make sure you are there, to say goodnight, or for other reasons and the parents will realize you aren't there. I wouldn't take the chance of you being caught because your parents may never trust you again.
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