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I want to stop likeing him. he's too confusing


Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 11:37 am

okay so, there is this kid that I REALLY like. lets call him kevin. well I told only my three best friends about liking him and they are just like awwwww. but like I really don't think he likes me because whenever he is online he NEVER i/ms me and if we are talking he will sometimes just stop anwering me. but then I tell my friends I was like okay he doesn't like me he doesn't i/m me I should just give up and then my friend goes "well you like him a lot and you aren't iming him either cause you think you are being annoiny, maybe he is doing the same thing." and that got me thinking what if that is the case? so then without my permission my best friend claire texts him and goes "awww! do you like heather (me)?" and he was...

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Tease Him!!


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 11:55 pm

ok i really want to tease my boyfriend and act all sexy and get him really turned on and excited. we both agreed no sex we dont even want to go to 3rd. actually we havent gone to 2nd but gotten reeeally close. we have had dry sex though. the last time we hung out we had dry sex a couple times and made out A LOT and he put his hands up my shirt right under my bra and kept asking to take my shirt off but i said no. he was really turned on tho and even had really red cheeks! so to make him happy and get him excited i want some more ideas for that. he knows we arent gonne go to 3rd or have sex so im not like being mean or anything. he likes it when i do sexy things. also i dont feel comfortable doing like a stripped dance for him or rubbing him...

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My Flirty Boyfriend


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 10:51 pm

im worried about my boyfriend. he tells me he loves me and stuff but hes a flirt. i know that he could be with those girls and hes not-hes with me but that doesnt mean he can still flirt just cause it doesnt mean that much. flirting can lead to more. just saying. anyway i've been talking to my mom and she says to keep an eye on him haha and like asked if he txts other girls when hes with me and he doesnt. like i know hes not cheating and i know hes genuine because we've been best friends for 2 yrs but during our previous relationships we flirted a lot and told each other we liked each other. and he told me he had thought about kissing me even frenching me when he was dating other girls. in a way this flatters me but in a way it worries me b...

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guys 8-)


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 10:19 pm

I really like this guy. I am pretty sure he likes me too. We always flirt with each other... and it seems like both of us go out of our way just to run into each other at school. He is always picking on me in a good natured way and we always have fun together. ... problem? he has a girlfriend that goes to a different school :( ... What is the appropriate thing to do in this situation. I know he has a girlfriend, and I should stay away... But I really LIKELIKELIKE this guy... Like if he gave me a chance I know I would fall like head over heals in love with him. i can tell he likes me too... ... but ugh I guess what would you do in my situation??

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confused!!!!


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 9:41 pm

sadie hawkins is coming up, and i asked a guy a little while back, and he said yeah, but theres a problem.. he goes to a different school and i never see him. i asked him a couple of weeks ago, and we hung out on valentines day and he was my valentine but we didnt talk about it that day. last week i asked him over a message if he was still going to go with me, and he said that he was thinking no because he was sick, but once he gets better, he will want to go and that hed get back to me later. i still havent seen him in person, and i havent talked to him either. what should i do?

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should i move in???


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 9:20 pm

i've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs and we lived together for 3yrs.6mnths ago he moved out of state.he wanted me to come with him,but i had some commitments that i just couldn't leave.since then we've been having lots of problems,we even broke up and got back together.i feel like am the only one trying to make this work because for some reason he's soo relaxed about this whole thing.now i think moving to him will actually save this relationship,but am afraid he wouldn't want me to move since he's enjoying he's indepency and am the only one making this work.should i move??

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I dont know!! Im Confused


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 8:37 pm

Wel...there is dis boy and today he gave me a hug three times right and he is in the same lunch as i am in and he grabbed my hand and we hugged and e swayed form back and forth and we hugged for a long time and then we was in class me and him were talking and i he kept staring at me and im like are u spacing out??? And he was like no its dat your maadddd sexy and i w waz like ok and he kept saying it and I dont know if he likes me he i sda sweetest boy i have ever met IN my entire life he is so sweet and we have mad stuff in common so i dont know if he likes me becuase he treats me differently then all his other female friends????

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Ok Me and My Boyfriend


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 8:06 pm

Ok I was thinking about taking me and my boyfriend's relationship to another level we talked about it and he said he don't want to rush me into it and he wants to do it when I do it so like I'm thinking about it but I want to know like how does it feel does it really hurt and if it does what are some things you can do to make it less painful?

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Do I need to do more?


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 6:58 pm

I'm usually the type of girl who doesn't call the guy first or contact them at all in the beginning, but once we're in a "stable" relationship, I'll start calling them or texting them first.

I guess you can say I got this from my mother. I once told her I called this guy (even though we had been talking awhile) and she got mad and said, "No! He's supposed to call you!" So ever since then I've never called.

And maybe I'm scared of when they don't answer!

Well, here's my point:
The guy I like is younger than me, about 2 years. I don't care, though! He likes me a lot and I like him, yet he never calls or texts me. He's texted me three times over the month we have been t...

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boyfriend...


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 6:57 pm

My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. We have had sex before, but he thinks it would be cool if we try something new. Like having sex with one more person. He wants a girl obviously. I wouldn't mind cus i'm bi. But should we or not? will this hurt our relationship?

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My friend


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 6:53 pm

The other day my friend and I were going through a album of all of our friends. We were talking about how much we missed our friends. I was having so much fun with her. Then she leaned in. I thought she was going to tell me a secret, but instead she kissed me. I'm a girl too. I was stunned. I just got out of a relationship with a guy 2 weeks ago. I have never been into girls, but when she kissed me it seemed...right. I just looked at her in shock. She didn't say anything. She got her stuff really quick and left. We have been friends since 7th grade and now we're sophmores. She called me that night and apologized. She told me she had a crush on me for a long time, but never knew how to tell me. I told her to come over (because she was histar...

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ex boyfriend.


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 5:54 pm

well, i have this ex boyfriend that i had for three years, so obviously we still talk, we broke up about a month ago. and i am going to try to start dating again, it's going to be hard, but i want to do it.

well there's this boy that i have feelings for, he wants to start dating soon . but the thing is : if me and this boy do start dating , do i tell my ex boyfriend? i mean wouldn't it be best if he found out from me so that he didn't get upset , or should i let him find out himself?

13/f

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Love Triangle


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 4:50 pm

Okkay, Im going to name some people and descibe them and I would really appreciate it if you would tell me which person you think is better.

Person A - He has his own car & its really nice. He's super sweet, He is understanding, he is straight forward, He calls, He invites me places, he likes to hang out, he really fun to hang out with, he doesnt have anything against me and he likes me for me. & He is on the baseball team.

Person B- I just met him but he's really sweet and cute. My friend said that we would look cute together but there wouldnt be alot of communication because he is shy, I dont think he is shy, He has his own truck and he is fun to hang out with, he is atheletic.

Person C...

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does he like me?


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 4:42 pm

well theres this boy..
hes so popular and cute
btw: im in 7th grade[13] hes in eight[14?]
and well he never talked to me.
it doesnt suprise me cuz i havent had a boy notice me in a while. so why would the most popular boy notice?
well i went to my freinds house and he lives right down the street so...
we rode down there.
he was beign really nice.
and now in the hallways he says hi to me and stuff:)
and his friends are always askin if i like him or think hes hott. does that mean anything?

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falling for my best friend....


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 4:19 pm

17 female.

i have a best friend, his name is nick :)we do go to different schools. me and nick have been friends for about 5 years now. i've always had a thing for him, but i dont think either of us saw us being "more than friends" until i started having feelings for him about 2 years ago. and thats when he started going out with his girlfriend that he is STILL going out with. i can tell they're in love..which is soo hard for me to watch. i hardly get to see him anymore, but when i do i fall sooo hard for him, it gives me butterflies when i see him. i dont think he knows that i have a thing for him but now i think, whats the point if he has a girlfriend that he is in love with. he makes me so mad sometimes because h...

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I can't do it!


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 1:12 pm

I am having so many problems with my recent breakup! I can't stop wanting him and thinking of him! I need him!
People say go out and live your life and flirt...but I just can't flirt. I never could!
I don't want to cry anymore and I want someone to make me feel better!


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How long should I wait for a proposal?


Posted Monday February 25 2008, 11:09 am

First a few details, I'm a 21 year old female and will complete my master's in December (not planning to pursue a PhD). Basically I'm at the point where I'm job hunting, starting my first retirement plan, and figuring out what I want to do with the rest of my life. These plans ideally include marriage.

I have been in a relationship with "Joe" for most of the last three years. Although he is slightly older, I'm a little farther along than he is. He's still finishing a bachelor's, figuring out what he wants to do, etc. Recently "Joe" and I have had several discussions on the subject of marriage and our future. "Joe" claims to be interested in marrying me but frequently points out that he's still ...

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my ex is trying too hard


Posted Sunday February 24 2008, 10:56 pm

16/f..i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago..and i got over him, he's a jerk and all he wanted was sex..
now he's trying to make me jealous by listing all the possible girls and "omg so many girls asked me out/hooked up with me" <-- that's all he ever talks about. i'm not an ounce jealous..cause he's an idiot. but i just don't know how to react without giving off bad vibes (jealous ones)...should I pretend to be happy for him or ignore him or..? he's 16 by the wayy..and freshmen are asking him out :) (he's desperate)

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this guy is so annoying but he might actually like me


Posted Sunday February 24 2008, 9:41 pm

well, there's this guy who hasn't really ever shown any reason that he would like me. we generally hang out because my roomate (at my high school) is friends with him. we occasionally talk over msn but it seems to end with us argueing cause he can be a total jackass. but yesterday we were all watching a movie and then later when we were alone, he kissed me. and then my friend came in, she didn't notice and we pretended nothing had hapened. i've avoided him all day today, but even so he hasn't called or anything. i'm not sure he actually like me... does he?


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Two problems


Posted Sunday February 24 2008, 8:59 pm

F/14

Ok. the frist question is one of my friends has had a crush on one of our guys friends((Lets call my guy friend Marc and my friend who has a crush on him Rosa))Anyway,Rosa has had a crush on marc for who knows how long but the problem is rosa and all my other friends know marc is gay.Rosa was going to confess to marc last week but she was soo nervous to say anything to him that she had a chance to tell him she left running away leaving all her things with me.

A friend of ours who knows Marc really well((I'll call her kate))Kate told Rosa that if she tells marc he'll be all 'Ewwwww.....how gross' to her,and she do'sent want that((even though there is a high possibilty he might say that since he can be reall...

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