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Two problems
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Ok. the frist question is one of my friends has had a crush on one of our guys friends((Lets call my guy friend Marc and my friend who has a crush on him Rosa))Anyway,Rosa has had a crush on marc for who knows how long but the problem is rosa and all my other friends know marc is gay.Rosa was going to confess to marc last week but she was soo nervous to say anything to him that she had a chance to tell him she left running away leaving all her things with me.
A friend of ours who knows Marc really well((I'll call her kate))Kate told Rosa that if she tells marc he'll be all 'Ewwwww.....how gross' to her,and she do'sent want that((even though there is a high possibilty he might say that since he can be really cold))I just dont want her to feel hurt.Besides she also likes someone else and I tell Rosa that she should just get over marc.
But she is soo determined to tell him and I dont want marc hurting her feelings.
So should Rosa tell marc her feelings or should I try reasoning with her and tell her to get over marc and go for the other guy she likes?
My second problem((though I really dont think its a problem or not i dont know))on valentines day i told my crush that I liked him.But he said he only liked me as a friend and nothing else.But the whole time I confessed to him he was blushing,scratching his head,smiling,I was ready to yell in his face and tell him to stop doing that cause that made me even more nervous that i was.
It's already been about a week since I told him and he still somewhat stares at me like before i i confessed to him.I just dont know if what he told me was true or not cause maybe he does like and is just too scared to admit it or is just not ready for a realtionship,or maybe his parents dont let him have a girlfriend.I dont know but he still gives me the signs saying'I like you' but just not that frequently anymore since I told him.
I'm sorry for the longness,but I serously need help for my friend and me.
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first off, if rosa knows marc is gay then she should know that they can't have a relationship , because he wouldn't be into her.
so try to reason with her to get over marc, so she doesn't tell him herself so that she doesn't get hurt, being since its not marc's fault.
um , and secondly, if he says he doesn't like you, you can't tell him he does. he might end up liking you, or maybe he does and he just isn't ready for a relationship, but you have to go by what he says.
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ok well first of all this girl needs to tell him how she feels. i fell in love with my best friends when i was 13 or 14 n i told him..and it turned out he was gay. it made things al ittle awkward at first, and i felt hurt, but now were best best friends again. so yea. second, this guy deff likes you, maybe he likes you so much hes scared. either than or he was just embarrassed. bc guys are just weird like that. but the first ones more likely. hope i helped :)) -ali
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Let Rosa do as she will. Everyone gets rejected sometimes, and it always hurts. She might secretly feel she needs to hear Marc shoot her down before she is free to go after this other guy.
You've give Rosa the best advice you can, now just support her in whatever she chooses.
As for you, try and forget about this guy for a while. He told you he wasn't interested. Part of respecting a person is believing what they say. He probably blushed he was flattered and a bit embarrassed. The 'signs' you think he still giving, might just be his way of trying to go back to you 'normal friendship', like you were before you confessed so things don’t get all awkward.
He told you no. Please believe him. Until he tells you otherwise, try to move on.
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