i have always been the person that all the people thinl is wierd and i've been trying really hard to get people to like me. i want all the guys to be swarmig around me just in case i drop a piece of paper in between classes. how do i get to be that girl.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? triquetra answered Monday February 25 2008, 6:36 am: Becoming that girl isn't as simple as dressing up nice etc. You've got to go out and hang out with friends whom you fit in with and who've got nice enough guy friends.
But guys won't swarm around you if you've dropped a peice of paper because it is such a trivial thing to fuss over. Plus, you've got to become popular and 'delicate' for that to happen and being popular sometimes isn't as good as many people think. You've got keep up the apperances constantly and you loose your own personal identity which you were born and forge one which doesn't fit you.
Don't try so hard to make friends because if you try hard, they will think that you're desperate and won't like you.
Remember that this won't happen quickly, it will take time and effort.
jobrolover3725 answered Monday February 25 2008, 12:10 am: you can't really just become that girl overnight. but you can make changes in yourself that will get you more friends and help you work your way up there. wear cute clothes. look pretty everyday for school. wear make up. do your hair nice. be nice to people. laugh and smile a lot. flirt with the boys. good luck babe :) [ jobrolover3725's advice column | Ask jobrolover3725 A Question ]
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