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Tease Him!!
ok i really want to tease my boyfriend and act all sexy and get him really turned on and excited. we both agreed no sex we dont even want to go to 3rd. actually we havent gone to 2nd but gotten reeeally close. we have had dry sex though. the last time we hung out we had dry sex a couple times and made out A LOT and he put his hands up my shirt right under my bra and kept asking to take my shirt off but i said no. he was really turned on tho and even had really red cheeks! so to make him happy and get him excited i want some more ideas for that. he knows we arent gonne go to 3rd or have sex so im not like being mean or anything. he likes it when i do sexy things. also i dont feel comfortable doing like a stripped dance for him or rubbing him 'down there' but i am cool with some sort of game if anyone has one. thanks so much and i will rate!! :]
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OK, iv heard im pretty good at this. One way i KNOW will work is when you kiss him pull back bt not completly, hold his head so u have control and trace his lips like a circle with only your tounge and exhale. Make sure you have good breath tho. They will be dieing to taste your lips. Also trace his ear lobe and breathe in his ear, they both do wonders, trust me.
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There's a lot of fun things you can do. I totally know how you feel because I'm dating someone and we agreed no sex. What I love to do is lay my boyfriend down, and pull his shirt up and trail your kisses all the way down his stomach but stop right before you get to his pants. He'll want you to go lower, so its fun to make him want it (: hahaha. Even like getting on top of him or kissing his neck. All these things will make him want it, even though he knows he;s not going to get it. Have fun!
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you could wear a really sexy outfit and take off your shirt for him next time, (if you feel comfortable). even though i don't know any sex games you can always ask your friends about any that you can do. if you don't feel comfortable w/ that then you will have to toughen up! glad i could help.
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You don't say how old you are, or how old your boyfriend is, but i'm assuming that you're in high school.
I'm going to tell you right now: This is a bad idea. Even the nicest guy will get pushed beyond the limits if you tease him. If you're really serious about not having sex with him, then it's just mean to tempt him. I firmly believe that NO woman deserved to be raped, but honey, you are waving a red flag in front of a bull. If you care about this guy, then just cut it out. If you're not ready, then tell him so, and leave him alone!
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You could try and take 'control' of him, some guys like that a lot, hold his hands out of the way, pin him down, don't let him touch you, whisper things in his ear, lean forward to kiss him and then pull away. There are many ways of teasing, including maybe eating food sexily, or dancing - not a lap dance, but just music with a slow beat, that lets you move up against him.
The main points are:
1. Keep things slow. Sometimes even painfully slow, so he wants more.
2. Don't always give him what he wants. Make him wait for it, then he'll enjoy it even more.
3. Keep him guessing. You don't have to go anywhere past 1st, but maybe hint at doing more, make it so he doesn't know where you'll put your hands next, and then his imagination will go wild.
As for games, you could use food items like honey/cream/chocolate and lick/kiss it off each other, although that might be slightly further than you wanted to go.
Good luck, hope I helped :)
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