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im 15/f
my friend lets call her britney liked this guy lets call him mitchell. she used to like him but she doesnt know i liked him before she did. she now likes this other guy and its a different guy. i like mitchell again and told her but she got annoyed? i also really like mitchell and i want him to know but also dont want him to know because i dont think he likes me. what do i do? (link)
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It's girl-code sweetie. Whether they dated or not, the fact that you knew she liked him is what annoyed her because your supposed to be her friend. Plus by what your saying, the guy doesn't even like you so why destroy a perfectly good friendship for someone that is nothing to you.
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So about two and a half weeks ago I was hanging around the football field after a football game with one of my friends (were both cheerleaders, so we had to stay after to put up our mats and stuff). While I was carrying one of the mats to the locker room one of the guys on the football team was also hanging around (even though it was pretty late after the game). I know the guy, but we don't really hang out and stuff and only have a few mutual friends. Anyway, he called me over and I went to go talk to him and right away I knew something was weird. He started hitting on me and touching my arm and asking me if he could give me a ride home and what not. I said no and told him I had to go. But he grabbed me and pulled me into the guys' locker room. I tried to get away, but I was really no match for this kid. He had me pinned against a wall and was half trying to dry hump me/cover my mouth and half trying to get my skirt off, when thank God, my friend Jake found me. Jake plays football and had forgotten his phone in his locker and came back to get them. He shoved the other dude off me and was trying to get him to fight him but the other guy ran off.
Since then, the other dude hasn't admitted that he had physically forced me to do anything. Not much I can do to prove it so I kind of have to leave it at that. But the thing is... ever sicne then I've been feelings this weird attraction to Jake. Even though for years he's been like a brother to me... It's weird. I think it just may be because he rescued me, and I'm having some weird response to that... I really don't want to like him... haha he's a great guy and really hot but he's my friend and I don't want to ruin that and I'm not sure what to do. Any advice? By the way, I'm sixteen, girl. The guys are both seventeen. (link)
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I agree with the "reporting it" like STAT, but to the JAKE issue... im sure you've heard of Icarly on the NICK show... this reminds me of the episode where FREDDY saves CARLY from a car running over her. Yes Im an adult but my little sister watches this so sue me if i watch it too. After the accident she suddenly felt atracted to him. She wasn't in love with him, she was in love with what he did. He had to push her away even tho he didnt want to. With time she figured he was right. Give it time. If you still feel this way for him then go for it, let him know. Most of the time "friends" of the opposite sex are near you because they are attracted to you as a person. Yes sometimes they just want a friendship but you will never know unless something happens. But keep your distance, if he wants something with you, he will come. Be patient...
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Hi.
i am 14 yrs and am 1mth preggers and dont know what i should do. i hate the thought of an abortion and adoptipton but i am only 14 and am still a kid... what should i do, is an abortion the right chioce? (link)
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I was 16 when I became pregnant with my son. I am very AGAINST abortion at all costs. No matter what there is a living creature inside you whether you like it or not. & it is not (his/her) fault that you and your partner made a mistake. I suggest adoption. It will make someone who can't have kids very happy and will give the baby a home and a family (he/she) deserves. You are not capable of having a baby to yourself because you are too young. Unless you think you can handle it. I took reasponsibility of what I did and had offers for adoption but I wanted to prove that I could because "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger". I thought about abortion but I had a nightmare of actually going through the procedure and heard his voice saying "why mommy why did you kill me, i love you mommy, why didnt you give me a chance", horrible experiance. I still get chills just at the thought. & that's because it didn't even happen, just imagine if I did go through with it. I don't think I could live with myself. But everyone has a different way of thinking and it's all in your hands. Take control of the situation and don't let anyone make you change your mind. Not even me.
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i have a doctors appointment tomarrow and i wanna know if i give a urine sample, can the doctor tell if i had sex, and i did a couple days ago. please help me (link)
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not "sex" but pregnancy or std yes
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hello i went to swimming yeaterday.
when i got out from the swimming pool and walked towards life guards to pass the key,
there were two life guard one is girl and the other one was boy.
they were sitting together and when i passed the key to the girl life guards. boy life guard was really looking at me fo rlong time with smile on his face and the girl life guard finally passed the key to the boy.
i just wondered wheather the boy life guard liked me though i know its a silly thing to ask but im just bit curious. (link)
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Depends on the age difference. If your waayyy younger than him.... he was just tossing a friendly smile. But if you seem to be around the same age there is a CHANCE that it was a flirty smile. But don't jump to conclusions. Best way to find out is just my talking to him.
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i am 13. i think i may have started my period but im not sure i went to the bathroom and when i wiped there was a red streak on my toilet paper then i wiped again to check again and it was there again? dose that mean i could be starting my period ? (link)
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yes it does. that my friend is called spotting. it is a light sign of "PERIOD'S COMING!" which means wear panty liners "tiny pads" and carry at least one pad with you "just in case"
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It takes a lot for me to ask for help and I'm not really sure who to talk to about this so I figured I'd see who has the best answer for me. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we got engaged new years eve. We have a great relationship, I'm very comfortable with him and we have a lot of things in common. However, we do have our issues, like every couple out there.
This is something that has bothered me for quite some time now. He had a female friend who he had a one night stand with after they had both gotten out of a long term relationship. This was before he even met me. He explained this to me before we dated and said it was a mistake. This friend of his happened to be the girl my ex boyfriend cheated on me with. So as if that wasn't bad enough she was a horrible person. Rude, trashy, used my boyfriend for rides to her friends house. Numerous things that makes me sick to think about to this day.
At first I didn't say anything to my boyfriend, I didn't want to tell him who he can and can't talk to. A situation occurred later on that was the final straw for me. I told him how uncomfortable I was when he hung out with her. They eventually went their separate ways which couldn't have made me happier. Well I figured my problems were over since she was out of the picture.
Now there's this other girl who he used to talk to at work where we met. I had known her sister pretty well but I had only met her twice. She's one of those people that only talks to you when she has nothing better to do which is what I gathered so far. So out of no where last year she asks my fiance to go to the movies with her at 10 at night alone. Now call me old fashioned, call me ridiculous all you want but doesn't that sound completely odd? Well I basically flipped out, I said how how dare she ask you to go to the movies with her alone at night when she knows when we are in a relationship? I know that I would never do something like that and I don't know anyone who would.
Now my fiance is completely oblivious, he doesn't see anything wrong with this. He says well I haven't seen her in a long time, we are just friends there's no harm in it. So we happen to walk into her sister that same day and I told her what happened. She even agreed with me that it was odd. After I had explained why it was inappropriate for the thousandth time, my fiance finally said I guess I can see your point. Why don't you come with us and her sister ended up going as well. The night consisted of us sitting in the theater in silence. I mostly spoke to her sister and she barely said anything. It was awkward, I didn't know what the point of this was. So even though she seemed okay, she was too quiet I wasn't sure what her intentions were. So that happened last October and for some reason she starts talking to my fiance this time of year. She will ignore him all year then all of a sudden talk to him and ask us to go to the movies.
Well it's that time of year again and now, she's apparently inviting me now. So now we are supposed to go with her this Saturday which I'm not too thrilled about. Maybe I'm reading too much into it but its weird, me, him and her going to the movies together. Especially since I don't believe she is a true friend. He says I am being ridiculous, which I probably am but she has done things I don't like. She's asked him to go to the movies a few times alone and will text him randomly late at night when she starts talking to him again. I just find the situation odd and I really don't like it. I trust my finance, I don't think that anything is going on but I find it inappropriate. So now I am forced to go with them this weekend and I just know its going to be awkward. I feel like this is a silly teenage problem that shouldn't be happening.
I think my main problem is I really don't know her, the only things I do know are negative things. I honestly don't want to get to know her and I think that's my other issue. They haven't been friends for a long time and I don't want them to start again basically. I know this sounds horrible but it's ridiculous and random I guess. I wish I could say that I was just jealous but I honestly don't think that is the issue. I just find it strange that she all of a sudden comes around when she wants to and imposes on us.
This is keeping me awake at night, giving me bad dreams. Basically making me crazy, and I was never like this. Even though I know it's innocent, it's just a freakin' movie, I don't like it. I just need someone to tell me I'm not crazy, that this is normal to feel this way. And that I'm probably making more of a big deal than it has to be. That is something I will admit, I read into things far too much and I wish I didn't. It just seems to cause me more issues for me. (link)
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You're not crazy, and it IS normal to feel that way. If you don't trust her, get to know her. Go to lunch with her and your fiance. That way you can see if there is anything between them. And the main detail here is that you need to trust him. If something "bad" is going to happen, they would DEFINITLY NOT notify you about it. It would be sneeky, BUT he's even asking you for permission pretty much. Take a breather. Go out with your friends while he goes out with his. And remember YOU NEED TO TRUST HIM!!
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What does it mean when your itching an burning when you pee and white stuff is all around your vigina? (link)
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It sounds like a urinary infection which is caused by bacteria build-up. Either you don't clean up after sex or you need to have better hyigene with yourself on a daily basis. It could also be a yeast infection. Either or, they won't go away unless treated.
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Last night when I was looking at my boyfriend's laptop history for an important link I visited on his laptop, I came across a bunch of porn links.
It somehow threw me off and I felt so insecure.
We've been together for two years now, he's 21, I'm 18. I mean, I know it's normal for guys to watch porn every now and then, and I guessed my boyfriend did so too, maybe once a month.
But after discovering this (by the way, I never snoop on his laptop- we are very open with one another) I told him that it made me feel bad and insecure about myself and I asked him how often he watches it. He told me that every three or four days when he's feeling horny.
This is just bothering me so much and he said he'll stop if it makes me feel bad, but I know that if he needs it, then he probably will watch it anyway and I told him that.
Is it normal for me to be bothered so much about the fact that he watches it twice a week or so, and the fact that it really makes me feel insecure and I just hate the fact that he's sitting there masturbating to some other women.
Overall, our sex life is fantastic, and he assured me that he doesn't watch it because I'm not sexy enough or because he's looking for something else...but I still feel weird.
Or am I being irrational? I need some explanations and comfort here... (link)
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Let's put it this way... would you rather he play with himself...alone...OR find someone else to play with when your not around. An easy fix to this if you still don't want him to watch that... tell him that whenever he's feeling horny.. to call you or text you. Sexting or phone-sex might be more comfortable for you because it's you and not some strangers. Don't hold back, & if he calles at 5am that's your call. Either that or he'll just go back to internet porn. Hope that helps. :)
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Ohkay... So me nd my boyfriend had birthday sex a couple days ago.. and we didnt use a condum and i had 6 more pills left of the very first months birth control... i skipped some tho... and we had sex a couple times he came in me twice... nd i looked up online about the first signs of pregnancy and im having those signs... i took a prego test... it said i wasnt... should i still worry??? (link)
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yes you should, your 1st instinct should have been to buy those "day-after" pills just in case... you never know. The birthcontrol pills are only a certain percentage of help. AND it might be too early to detect the pregnancy by the pregnancy test. It depends on how long it has been. But dont freak out and assume you are because of something you saw onine. Not all women have the same symptoms. But keep trying with the preg.test but read the intructions this time... meaning how far along it must have been to be able to detect. GOOD LUCK
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ok i really want to tease my boyfriend and act all sexy and get him really turned on and excited. we both agreed no sex we dont even want to go to 3rd. actually we havent gone to 2nd but gotten reeeally close. we have had dry sex though. the last time we hung out we had dry sex a couple times and made out A LOT and he put his hands up my shirt right under my bra and kept asking to take my shirt off but i said no. he was really turned on tho and even had really red cheeks! so to make him happy and get him excited i want some more ideas for that. he knows we arent gonne go to 3rd or have sex so im not like being mean or anything. he likes it when i do sexy things. also i dont feel comfortable doing like a stripped dance for him or rubbing him 'down there' but i am cool with some sort of game if anyone has one. thanks so much and i will rate!! :] (link)
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OK, iv heard im pretty good at this. One way i KNOW will work is when you kiss him pull back bt not completly, hold his head so u have control and trace his lips like a circle with only your tounge and exhale. Make sure you have good breath tho. They will be dieing to taste your lips. Also trace his ear lobe and breathe in his ear, they both do wonders, trust me.
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