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My Flirty Boyfriend
im worried about my boyfriend. he tells me he loves me and stuff but hes a flirt. i know that he could be with those girls and hes not-hes with me but that doesnt mean he can still flirt just cause it doesnt mean that much. flirting can lead to more. just saying. anyway i've been talking to my mom and she says to keep an eye on him haha and like asked if he txts other girls when hes with me and he doesnt. like i know hes not cheating and i know hes genuine because we've been best friends for 2 yrs but during our previous relationships we flirted a lot and told each other we liked each other. and he told me he had thought about kissing me even frenching me when he was dating other girls. in a way this flatters me but in a way it worries me because he could easily be thinking about another girl and not me.
im worried because we go to dfferent schools and if were lucky see each other one day a week. soon im moving like a days drive away in another state and i wont be here at all. i dont know if we will have a relationshp after i move but before i have to know i can trust him when im not here. i try to keep him happy but sometimes i dont want to. we are Christians too so we are working on making our relationship holy. i know he loves me and we are best friends but what should i do about his flirting with girls when im not around? if he was really faithful he would only think of me. and thats my expectation. i think im gonna tell him thats my expectation and if he cant do that then we can go back to being just friends. but what else? and also i love him so much and dont want to say it badly and make him upset. he tells me he doesnt like the other girls and he obviously shows me hom much he cares about me and puts me before other girls every time but thats not the point. the point is hes a flirt and girls flirt back (i already know a couple girls who like him and some random girl asked me where he was at youth group this one time) and when im not there he may start liking another girl. i think it feeds his ego and makes himself feel good about himself cause he doesnt always feel great about himself. please help and im sorry it is so long! :) thanks SO MUCH
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well since you are moving and he doesn't seem very trust worthy then... i hat eto tell you this but i think it's time to brake up )-: i'm really sorry but it's true i would want to stay together too, but you'll meet new guys and you'll probly end up liking other people, sorry, but it's true . long distance relationships aren't very fun.
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I know it is really hard to deal with
when you're young. Its taken me a lot
of years to ignore my flirting man! I
usually just tease him about it. I know
he isn't going anywhere. Been married
almost 33 years.
Some guys ( or girls) are just flirts.
It just comes natural to them. They do
it and don't even realize. I think I
started to ignore it when I got really
mad one day and asked why he felt the
need to flirt with every female that
crossed his path. He just gave me a
puzzled look and said "I do?".
So I really don't think you have much
to worry about. Hes just a natural born
flirt. It can't hurt to talk to him and
let him know it bothers you. He will
probably control himself for a while.
If he goes back to it though, it means
nothing.
If you are there when he's flirting,
Yes, mine doesn't care if I'm standing
right there. Just roll your eyes or shake
your head as if to say 'what a goof'. :)
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