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My friend
The other day my friend and I were going through a album of all of our friends. We were talking about how much we missed our friends. I was having so much fun with her. Then she leaned in. I thought she was going to tell me a secret, but instead she kissed me. I'm a girl too. I was stunned. I just got out of a relationship with a guy 2 weeks ago. I have never been into girls, but when she kissed me it seemed...right. I just looked at her in shock. She didn't say anything. She got her stuff really quick and left. We have been friends since 7th grade and now we're sophmores. She called me that night and apologized. She told me she had a crush on me for a long time, but never knew how to tell me. I told her to come over (because she was histarically bawling). When she got here she kissed me again. I didn't pull away, but I'm still not sure what to think of it. I like her, but I don't think I'm bi or lesbain. The only thing is is that when she kisses me I do feel something. Which scares me. What should I do? Should I give it a shot? or tell her I can't do this. I'm so confused
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Ok. Well first of all, you have to decide (ignoring all bi/lesbian labels) if you really do feel something for her. It sounds like you do, and that's awesome, don't be scared, because two people who feel something for each other being prepared to be together is a great thing. It doesn't matter if youre bisexual or a lesbian, but if there's even the smallest spark, it might be a good idea to experiment, just so you don't miss out on what could be something amazing.
Try not to be too scared by this. Go with the flow, relax, and don't worry if it's normal or not. Talk to her, once you decide if you'll give it a go or not (I think you should) and tell her you just want to try it out and that you're not sure but you might feel something for her (or whatever is the truth.) If you try it and it works out, awesome. If not, it's not your fault - don't feel bad about ruining a friendship, because she instigated it.
Good luck. I'm interested to know how it goes :)
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Before you decide on that, I recommend this great book by lauren myracle called "Kissing Kate". Great book and I think it would really help your situation. You can find it at borders, barnes and nobles, or amazon.com. I hope that helped =)
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