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This guy
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 7:13 pm
13/f 8th grade
Ok I have a crush on this guy. I've only talked to him like once or twice. I want him to notice me more or have him talk to me. Ok I am unpopular and he is popular. I know that doesn't matter much but you know, its harder that way. So anyways I hardly talk to anyone except friends. Well I do talk to other people but only when they talk to me. But I am working on that. But its like they label you for life as the shy quiet girl who hardly talks. I mean I don't even know if there is hope for me with a guy. I have had only one boyfriend and thats it. Should I even try for the guy? And just have a crush on him and just try and focus on something else? Or should I do something else? Also its pretty hard to talk to hi...
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my boyfriend's friends hate me
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 6:49 pm
ive been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months, on and off. we really like eachother. we break up for stupid reasons. he gets me reallly angry sometimes. his friends used to like me, and tell me things. but in the past month, me&my boyfriend broke up & i was really hurt. all of his friends knew, they told him& blahblah, we got back. but then all of his friends started talking about me, as they pasted me in the halls.. they tell practicly everyone they hate me. its really bothering me, & me and my boyfriend barly hang out now. i approached one of his friends, who hates me the most, & asked him why he has problems with me & he was like i just dont like you haha and walked away laughiing with his friends. i dont kn...
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He says one thing, but acts another
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 6:35 pm
14/f
Uhm, okay so there's this dude I like. We call him chikkin. Because I just love every kind of chicken there is, except burnt. But anyways, this is where the problem started. My friend had told him that I like him for reasons that I don't want to get into. So when she told him he smiled and said really. That's what she told me. She's not the type of person to lie, or she wouldn't have told me that she told him. That was last Thursday.
On Friday, he gave me a hug and said hey to me whenever I passed by. I don't get to see him much during the day because he's in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. Then when I got on the bus he completely ignored me! And to make it worse he was talking to this girl that was sitting in f...
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not very social
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 3:33 pm
im kinda a quiet person in general and i dont really know what to say around guys.. i try and be myself but nothing really comes out.. so i have a date with a guy soon and i was wondering how do i open myself more? like be more talkative because im not very talkative.. thanks
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Violated.
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 3:09 pm
14\F
Ive been going out with this boy named Eric for about 4-5 months now, and were always going on dates and everything and just this weekend [Saturday] I went over his house alone... well we've been kissing for a while but thats it I mean IM ONLY FOURTEEN and Eric put his hand up my shirt, and I donno if it's normal or not but I sorta freaked cuz its the first time anything besides kissing has happened to me.. and I was like Woah and he like continued so i was like oh umm im sorry but can you stop. So kinda mad I think he did, I let him"feel me up" on the outside of my shirt so he wouldn't get to mad, but then he tried un-buttoning my jeans and thats when I was like WOAH! What are you doing?? and he was like weve ...
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Things don't feel right
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 2:15 pm
Recently, my boyfriend and I have been having a lot of trouble in our relationship. Things came to a head and after a painful couple of days of arguments, we talked everything over and made the decision to stay together while making a few changes.
This all happened about a week ago and since then we've been trying to get back to normal and being natural around each other but things still feel weird. I feel slightly awkward around him and being sweet to each other/saying 'I love you' seems a lot more staged than it was before.
I know that this is to be expected after such a big argument but does anyone have any advice as to how we can regain more normality between us and start to feel more comfortable again?
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TIPS ON HOW TO FIX A BAD FIRST IMPRESSION?!
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 4:40 am
i met this guy online and we decided to meet in person.
unfortunately, he's gorgeous, articulate, intelligent, interesting, athletic, and into all the music i'm into.
however, he is older than me and i'm worried that i came off as immature and dorky.
we just met yesterday, i haven't talked to him about how he thought it went yet, but he said he might see me again.
i'm just worried because i've never been even kind of involved with a guy i'm that attracted to because i always think they're out of my league.
i'm a little stuck and don't know what to do here, someone give me some advice?
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how to keep him
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 11:24 pm
me and this guy were together for like a day and a half I broke up with him cause we didnt talk much at school...well i continued to like him and now we might get back together 5 months later now that he has ended his 3 month relationship with his girlfriend and well he dosent want ne one to know we are together cause he is always to him self and dosent like my friends and well how do i keep him interested in me...I heard to play hard to get but IDK
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he doesnt talk!!
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 10:19 pm
me and my bf just started dating and ive realized that he doesnt talk at all and i love to talk. i feel like really out of place sometimes bc hes so quiet but i really like him. how do you think i could get him to talk me or whatever?
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Lifee.
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 8:11 pm
I hooked up with this gorgeouss junior a couple weeks okay. We've been friends since the beginging of the year (I'm a freshman; girl). Oh I guess I should say a hook up for me is making out (hardcore haha ) and 2d base and maybe a bit of 3d. BUT ANYWAY so he came over a couple weekends and we just watched movies and hooked up... then prom came around. His bestfriend told me he was going to ask me and I was just kinda like ugh i dont wanna got to prom. So this kid ended up asking someone else. Now... he doesnt call or IM me much anymore and barely talks to me in school. I feel like he hooked up with me, got what he wants and now he's done with me. What can I do to show him I dont need him (besides the obvious of flirting with other guys, i ...
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he says hi to his ex, but not me..?
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 8:03 pm
16/f. alright. so today in school, we had lunch (as we always do) and my boyfriend has my lunch. apparently, so does his girlfriend. i usually wait for my boyfriend at a specific spot and we all meet up there (a group) to sit and socialize and stuff. well, today...i didn't see my boyfriend coming for a while. and i was standing with my friends. and i see him walk towards us..but he stops at where his ex girlfriend was sitting. he sees that im there, he makes eye contact with me, yet he goes to his girlfriend, says hi, kisses her (like as a hello)...and starts talking to her. without saying hello to me first. he talks to her for about 20 minutes..and then he comes and says hello to me as if he just saw me...yet he meets with us everyday. wha...
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Cant get over him.
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 7:29 pm
Theres guy Ive liekd for a year and something nowww. And he use to like me when we were both in middle school but now hes in highschool and hes changed so much and hes being an asshole to me all of a suddden. But when we liked eachother, we hooked up and we did a little more then making out but not sex or anything. But that was the first time ive ever done somehthing like that with anyone. But then he stopped talking to me and hes a jerk now but I can NOT seem to get over him no matter whattt. Im always the one to talk to him first and it ends up in a fight usually or something. I called him once and he actually called me again after that and we talked a lot but one day he called and I didnt call backk and the next day I told him to call me...
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Ex/Prom/Boyfriend
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 6:16 pm
So I dated a guy over the summer and we ended everything once school started because he lives about 2 hours away. we hardly ever talk now and he just ended about a 4-month relationship with a girl from his school. however, over the summer he mentioned that he would like to go to prom with me (before we ended everything and before he dated someone else). it took me a while to get over him. But now, I have been going out with a guy since the end of February and he asked me to prom sometime in early feb. I am hearing things from a couple people that he is a man whore and i am finding out things he was done to girls. This makes me wonder but i haven't talked to him about it yet. ANYWAY, my question is, should i go to prom with both guys or jus...
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ex's best friend
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 5:25 pm
14/f
me and my ex are still friends, but he tells everyone that he still likes me and isn't over me. well, his best friend also likes me, and i like him. would it be okay to date him ?? is there a way i can explain this to him without hurting him ??
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Falling for your Best Friend who happens to have a girlfrien
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 4:57 pm
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so I've known this one guy since 7th grade. (I'm in 11th now) We were really close friends back when I went to public school with him during 7th grade. I transferred to a private school and have been in a private school since the 8th grade.
He's really good friends with my ex-boyfriend, whom, lets just say my parents put a restraining order on (long story).
So I work with my best guy friend. Let's call him B.
So since the 7th grade, I've somehow known that B has liked me all along.
A few months ago I admitted to him that I like him and he says he has since 7th grade and has not stopped caring about me. ...
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Im scared of what i want......
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 3:04 pm
17/f so i has this boyfriend and we broke up but io am still in love with him. but he is the "wrong" guy.....he cheated on me cause he kissed another girl so we broke up. i swore to myself we would never talk again but it just happened that we did and he apoligized and said he regrets it so much and it hurts when he sees me aorund school. and its like he still looks at me the way he used to and idk....what do i do???? i dont wnat to want him but i cant help it......thanks in advance <3
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what's going on?
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 12:43 pm
ok well i'm dating my ex again and we get along really well consdiering we've known each other forever and have dated a couple times. but this time it's kinda weird between us.. he calls and we talk for like 10 mins then he says he's tired and he wants to go to sleep. i mean i can understand this sometimes but HE DOES IT EVERY NIGHT. and it makes me think that he's bored with me or something.. do you think he is? what should i do to make him stop doing this? HELP ME!!!
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Why does it still bother me?
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 12:13 pm
I've been with my bf for almost 2 years, and he makes me sooo happy. I lost my virginity to him, and he's my first love. I knew his previous girlfriend really well and she told me every detail about their relationship. They never had sex but they did other things... if you know what i mean... She was his first love, and i was the one who comforted him when they split up. But now we're together and i still get upset when i think about him with her. I know its natural to be like that with your bfs ex, but i cant help but cry when i think about him being in love with her, and although he says he doesnt still think about her i know he does.
Is anyone else going through this? or do you know any ways i can try to get her out of my...
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Is he cheating?
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 11:38 am
I am so devastated! My fiancee of 3 months is texting and calling an 18 year old girl secretly. The problem is he is 43. She works at a place he plays darts at on Wednesdays and Fridays. I looked up his cell records and there is over 100 text and picture messges sent between the 2 in the last 4 months. He said they only talk once in a while but I got suspicious when his phone is always on vibrate and his text, incoming and outgoing calls (except for mine) are deleted every day. one phone call lasted 44 minutes. She sent him a text when he was in the shower letting him know how good her bubble bath was! He denies any and everything. AM I CRAZY!? I am 30 years old and I told him I cant compete with that!Please help
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He means alot to me
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 1:51 am
My boyfriend means alot to me. we're 15 and we've been together for a month. lately i've been worried. he asked me out 3 months after hima nd his ex broke up. and they went out for 17 months. longggg timeee!! well my friend saw them talking in the hall 4 days ago, for a little while. and they're now friends on myspace again. i dont want to get hurt. im not a jealous girlfriend. not one at all. i just dont like ex girlfriends..or at least this one. i just dont like the fact that they can be messaging over myspace and i wont even know about it. my and my bf dont have cell phones. so we only tlak on house phones and myspace occaionally. but we havent talked since our one month which was 4days ago. Am i worrying over nothing. the ex does have ...
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