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Things don't feel right
Recently, my boyfriend and I have been having a lot of trouble in our relationship. Things came to a head and after a painful couple of days of arguments, we talked everything over and made the decision to stay together while making a few changes.
This all happened about a week ago and since then we've been trying to get back to normal and being natural around each other but things still feel weird. I feel slightly awkward around him and being sweet to each other/saying 'I love you' seems a lot more staged than it was before.
I know that this is to be expected after such a big argument but does anyone have any advice as to how we can regain more normality between us and start to feel more comfortable again?
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How big are the changes? If you have to change yourself to the point where you feel uncomfortable, than something isn't right. Are his changes making him seem like someone he's not? This could make you feel like he's not even the boy you loved. Try going out with lots of people for awhile, because if he's around his buddies and you're around yours, you will both feel tons more comfortable. Good luck.
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My dear friend,
I think you're a little afraid of him, and you don't feel you can trust him, or that he's really sorry for the arguments. I think you should talk to him about how you feel (he might feel the same way) and maybe take a break from each other for a while.
-Linda
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