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he doesnt talk!!
me and my bf just started dating and ive realized that he doesnt talk at all and i love to talk. i feel like really out of place sometimes bc hes so quiet but i really like him. how do you think i could get him to talk me or whatever?
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Try to strike up a conversation about his interests. Find out what he likes to do and see if you can start a conversation on that note.
Take him out on a date that you'll both love that matches both of your interests - you have to have something in common.
For instance, if his favorite sports team is the Red Sox, ask him how they're doing this season.
If you start getting bored because neither of you share any interests at all, maybe you can create some new ones that you both will share.
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this may not be what your looking for but i'll tell you what i think. if your very talkative and he's shy then he likes you doing all the talking. i'm a shy guy and my girlfriend always yells at me for not talking enough but only because she's also really shy and feels wierd talking alot. if you want him to talk then just keep it loose and ask alot of question. the questions should be dumb, playful kind of questions like "do you like me?" or "am i pretty?", stuff like that/ just keep it loose. it's not such a bad thing that you're the vocal one in the relationship. you may feel out of place but he feels relieved that your the talkative one. i hope that helped a little bit.
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