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my boyfriend's friends hate me
ive been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months, on and off. we really like eachother. we break up for stupid reasons. he gets me reallly angry sometimes. his friends used to like me, and tell me things. but in the past month, me&my boyfriend broke up & i was really hurt. all of his friends knew, they told him& blahblah, we got back. but then all of his friends started talking about me, as they pasted me in the halls.. they tell practicly everyone they hate me. its really bothering me, & me and my boyfriend barly hang out now. i approached one of his friends, who hates me the most, & asked him why he has problems with me & he was like i just dont like you haha and walked away laughiing with his friends. i dont know what to do, i cant even talk to my boyfriend because him&his friends are alll alike. this is realy bothering me
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Well if a guy listens to his friends then he is more like a girl who listen to hers. If you waste all your time and effort in being with someone who can't think for themselves then you're looking to get sucked down in that world of misery and unhappiness. Have a talk with your boyfriend and ask him what he wants. If he cares and wants the relationship with you great. If not, then don't worry about it because there are lots of guys out there that will be there for you and can think on their own two feet. Don't cheat yourself on being happy in life.
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You really shouldn't care what they say if you really love your boyfriend. If they start saying crap about you, if your boyfriend really loces you, he would know they are not true. Just ignore them, that will really tick them off and sooner of later they should stop bothering you. Confront your boyfriend about it, tell him that you don't appreciate them talking to or about you like that. If he doesn't stick up, maybe you shouldn't be with him.
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obviously, (i really hate to have to tell you this) your boyfriend doesnt care about what they are saying or he would be trying to stop it. they say that if your boyfriend or girlfriend doesnt like your friends you should dump them. well, if you didnt do anything to these boys and they are just hating you for no reason you should talk to your boyfriend. and if he doesnt do anything about it then dump him.
its a million to one here. your alone. and he doesnt seem to care by what your telling me. maybe they are mad because you upset him, too. i dunno. im not in their minds. but yeah. talk to your boyfriend. get him to help. if he doesnt, break it off.
i really hope it all works out! :)
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