16/f. alright. so today in school, we had lunch (as we always do) and my boyfriend has my lunch. apparently, so does his girlfriend. i usually wait for my boyfriend at a specific spot and we all meet up there (a group) to sit and socialize and stuff. well, today...i didn't see my boyfriend coming for a while. and i was standing with my friends. and i see him walk towards us..but he stops at where his ex girlfriend was sitting. he sees that im there, he makes eye contact with me, yet he goes to his girlfriend, says hi, kisses her (like as a hello)...and starts talking to her. without saying hello to me first. he talks to her for about 20 minutes..and then he comes and says hello to me as if he just saw me...yet he meets with us everyday. what do you have to say about this? i don't think he's taking me too seriously..he's in my grade btw.
coalerz answered Wednesday March 19 2008, 3:53 am: I dated a guy for two years and to this day he is my best friend. A ex boyfriend or girlfriend is an ex for a reason and they are with you because you are different. most couples stay friends. but jeliously will only bring you apart. so what! thousands of people kiss when they say hello. but he kisses you different then any of them. its not like he passed your table and ignored you to go to her. she was just on the way. most couples share friends so catching up on gossip isnt a bg deal. I think he loves you but he loves to keep people as friends ex girlfriends or not. he did see you were there but he could have ignored you all together. thats why he loves you. he did look and saw where you were he just stopped to talk to his friend (which is an ex) first. my ex is my best friend though i would never be with them again. like i said ex's are ex's for a reason you are there girlfriend now. just have fun and dont worry. If they wanted to be with their ex they would. but they arent theya re with you and they love you. dont worry about him talking with an ex. getting mad over nothing will only further you from him. if you need anything just email me fuzzballbob@msn.com [ coalerz's advice column | Ask coalerz A Question ]
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