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I hooked up with this gorgeouss junior a couple weeks okay. We've been friends since the beginging of the year (I'm a freshman; girl). Oh I guess I should say a hook up for me is making out (hardcore haha ) and 2d base and maybe a bit of 3d. BUT ANYWAY so he came over a couple weekends and we just watched movies and hooked up... then prom came around. His bestfriend told me he was going to ask me and I was just kinda like ugh i dont wanna got to prom. So this kid ended up asking someone else. Now... he doesnt call or IM me much anymore and barely talks to me in school. I feel like he hooked up with me, got what he wants and now he's done with me. What can I do to show him I dont need him (besides the obvious of flirting with other guys, i do plenty of that). Im not really sure what I'm asking. Is this normal for guys to do this? I guess I'm just new to all this.. being my first year of Highschool...
help me out?haha..
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I think this guy liked you, but when you told his best friend that you didn't want to go to prom, he probably assumed that you didn't like him and got upset. So, he decided to ask someone else. This would explain why he no longer talks to you. I don't think you need to show this guy that you don't need him. If you are flirting with other guys and don't talk to him he gets the picture. Like I said before, this guy probably already thinks you don't like him and aren't interested, and to be honest, he probably doesn't care about you or what you do anymore. You should be fine.
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Sounds like he knows you dont need him by showing him you dont have the same interest like going to prom. If he wants to go and you dont he will ask someone else. (he is not going to take you to something you dont want to go to) but if he does have different interest that is why he wont call or im as much. no guy wants to talk to a girl they dont have as much in common with as they thought they did. Its nothing against getting what they want and moving on. more like they wanted to share what they like with the person they are hooking up with. if they dont share anything in commmon later on down the road like in your case the calling and IMing isnt going to happen as much. When guys hook up with girls they think they have something in common with them if that shows to prove false they move on like asking someone else to prom they probably think they have more in common with the girl they asked then the girl they have been hooking up with. guys will go for what makes them happy. sound like you to both went the right way.
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