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Is he cheating?
I am so devastated! My fiancee of 3 months is texting and calling an 18 year old girl secretly. The problem is he is 43. She works at a place he plays darts at on Wednesdays and Fridays. I looked up his cell records and there is over 100 text and picture messges sent between the 2 in the last 4 months. He said they only talk once in a while but I got suspicious when his phone is always on vibrate and his text, incoming and outgoing calls (except for mine) are deleted every day. one phone call lasted 44 minutes. She sent him a text when he was in the shower letting him know how good her bubble bath was! He denies any and everything. AM I CRAZY!? I am 30 years old and I told him I cant compete with that!Please help
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Destroy his phone and hide his bill. When he gets a new one, change the phone to full ring and then really jump his cage. Get the number of the girl and call her and jump her sh-t. Go to the bar where he goes or send a friend to spy and shut his game down. That is what it took to get my fiance to quit his little freedom flirting. He first broke it off but then came back realizing that the skanks he was flirting with, were flirting with other guys and he didnt like it done to him. He learned his lesson two ways: a: i wont let it slide and b: what goes around comes around.
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Tell him that its you or her. If he continues to text her, break up with him. It is and awful thing especially since your engaged. I hope he picks you and not some 18 year old slut...
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You could easily compete, and beat a nonsensical 18 year old. Seriously.
When a male tells you otherwise, it is his self-absorbtion and basic lack of respect for you that you can't beat.
Stop snopping. That isn't helping.
Tell him straight up that you are uncomfortable witrh the degree of secretness he has wrapped around his 'friendship' with this very young woman, and you expect openess from him. Any rational creature should be able to realize that texting about one's bubble bath crosses the line of acceptable behavoir for an engaged man. If, when you approach him calmly and without accusations, he refuses to even admit that his 'friendship' with her has become too intense and needs to be seriously reduced, simply walk away. A man who refuses to see at least that much sense, will keep on lying to you even when you catch him in bed with the other women.
Don't compromise yourself by sneaking around and peaking at his private things. Simply trust your gut and good sense. If he can't show that he too, has good sense, leave him.
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