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ex's best friend 14/f
me and my ex are still friends, but he tells everyone that he still likes me and isn't over me. well, his best friend also likes me, and i like him. would it be okay to date him ?? is there a way i can explain this to him without hurting him ??
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Well, I'd talk to your ex first and straighten things out with him.
He needs to know that you still want to remain friends, but you don't really feel "connected" in that way right now.
Then I'd talk to your best friend and ask him how he'd feel if you two were going out.
It'd be absolutely fine to date him - just don't forget about your other friends in the long run.
All friends (and boyfriends) are created equal, so donate the same amount of time to spend with all. :)
Good Luck!
-Mariah- ]
well first talk to the best friend
it might be easier for the guy you like to talk to your ex because they are bffs
if you want to personally talk to your ex dont straight out ask him if you can date his bff
it is probably best to find out for sure if your ex likes you and if he does explain to him how you have feelings for his best friend and dont want to hurt him
hope i helped* ]
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