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Girls in the class
Ok... there is this girl in my class that is so FAKE.. she never rele acts the same.. U can just tell that she isn't herself around any1.. her clothes are in style but they r alll the same one's evry week.. How do u ask her if she is uncomfortable around us?
13/f
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Maybe she just needs a friend - and you know what? You could be that friend.
Maybe her self-esteem needs a boost.
She sounds like she feels self-conscious about herself because she obviously wants others to accept her, but she should have someone there to support her so that she can accept her for herself.
She should act like her own person.
She's not uncomfortable around you. She thinks that you're uncomfortable around her - that's why she wants to try to conform.
Good Luck!
-Mariah-
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ok my point of view. i am really outgoing now that i am 20yrs old. but in high school i never knew what someone wanted me to say or do. I was like the girl you are talking about i wore the same clothed every week because those were the clothes that were comphy. some people cant buy alot of new clothes and if you dont sit at the same lunch table her personality may seem really fake. and some people are. deep down they want to get along with everyone not just one certain group of people. most likely she is uncomfertable but bringing it up will only make it worst for her. if you really want to know, ask her to hang out with you and your friends and the mall or the movies and she how she acts. if she seems nerus you are probably right she is most likely uncomfertable. she just wants to be friends with everyone just like any girl.
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