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i just cant think of a good opening line. sorry.
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 4:45 pm
my best friend (we'll call him Bob) and i have decided that we both like eachother and we're about to go out. but then i found out some disturbing news. bob has this friend, (Gretta), and they had sex. my other friend, (fred) told me this. it happened about a month ago. fred kept saying that he had to tell me something about bob before we could go out. and he said i really should know because its important and ect ect ect. so he told me that there are two stories to this: GRETTA'S STORY: she fell asleep and bob was next to her. she was drunk-ish. (and shes 13, if that says anything, shes also a real slut. so yeah.) so she fell asleep and he raped her. she called her brother and told him and he was about to come and beat bob's ass for it. bo...
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i can wait i think but i dont know if i will hurt anyone& i
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 3:37 pm
14/f
i know that alot of people have problems with other people dating with ehh kind of a big age difference..well i met this guy, he is the best, sweetest, kindest person with the most respect for someone,he would give you the shirt off his back to some one who needed it! and he is also protective but in a GOOD way!i love everything about him!! he has always been there for me, i can tell him anything!! he always keeps an open mind and listens to what i have to say. he NEVER gets angry with me! well we dated and i ended it because i was to affraid of my feelings, they were growing to quick. and well i love him and i cant help it. but see i have spoken to his gf.. and she really likes him.. and i dont want to let her get hurt for som...
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my crush's friend
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 3:16 pm
15.f
i like a guy.
i am friends with two of his friends, guy A and guy B.
i am considering telling either guy A or guy B about my crush for several reasons. firstly, i could get the inside scoop on my crush's life. secondly, i can get advice from them on how to go about becoming friends with my crush without being obvious.
"why don't you just gradually start talking to your crush more instead of risking him finding out from your friends and getting into all this hassle?" you might be asking. but the answer is simply that i'm scared. please note: do not give me advice on how i should be more confident, etc. or i'll rate lower.
i've come to the conclusion...
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ex.boyfriend trouble!
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 2:40 pm
Hi, i'm 14/ f
anyways.
I had a boyfriend in the summer and we'll call him T. I broke up with him because i never saw him, and it didn't feel rightt. Now, we go to different schools, but i still talk to him on myspace.
like we still flirt with each other sort of. He does have a girlfriend, but I think he still likes me? T is such a nice guy, but I'm not sure. Plus, i think i push away guys. Like, the really nice ones and then i feel like such an idiot!!.
'sigh'- help? what should i do? leave it alone or what?
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to have sex or not to have sex
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 2:24 pm
ok so first off i'm an 18 year old guy. i've been in a relationship with my dream girl for now 7 1/2 months. she's 17. she's the first girlfriend that i've ever had. before me she dated a guy for 7 months, they broke up about a year and a 1/2 ago, but that was pretty much it for her. we're both deeply in love with each other. before her i was depressed and miserable but she changed all that and since we've been together i'm happier than i ever could've imagined. i know that she's really happy with me too. so basically we can't get enough of each other. something that has really been getting to me lately is the issue of sex. in 7 1/2 months we haven't done anything sexual at all, no blowjobs, no handjobs or anything like that. i kind of thou...
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expecting a baby and boyfriend has no job
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 12:39 pm
My boyfriend and I are expecting a baby in July, it will be the first child for both of us. It was totally unexpected, we had only been together a few months when we found out I was pregnant. We are both 27 and really not where we wanted to be in life when we started a family, but are still both excited and want to do everything we can to give this child a great life. There is one thing, my boyfriend has no real work experience. He worked delivering pizzas for a few months, but he isn't working anymore. I know it's hard to find jobs in this area, and with not much experience, but I am very worried about the strain this is putting on our relationship, and for when the baby is here. I work full time and have my own apartment, a very small apa...
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Should I leave him alone or not?
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 10:59 am
I am a 22 year old female & I'm having a huge delimma. Ok so I started hanging out with this girl let's call her Jill ... she is married to let's say Bob. I been hanging out over there for about 3 months. Jill has 4 kids && only 2 of them are Bob's but he is not certain because Jill just revealed that the youngest one might not be his. I cant lie I have been attracted to Bob since the first day I met him but HE IS MARRIED. I know it's wrong. Jill has cheated on him so much ... just within the last 3 months she has revealed stuff to me that I could not even grasp, stuff that you dont do when you are married && in love. Only she doesn't love him she just wants him to be in love with her while she is out sleeping wit...
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This boy
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 2:01 am
13/f
Ok I'm in 8th grade and this boy I have been crushing on for awhile now has been talking to me as usual but I think he thinks of me more as a friend. I talk to him and we joke around and I am just confused on what to do. I know you hear these kind of things a lot but please help. I only have one class with him and thats the only time we usually talk. He asks me if he can borrow stuff and he has a nickname kinda thing for me. My school is year round so last trimester he use to always come up to me and leave his friends to talk to me. It seemed like he wanted to get to know me. But now it seems different. I mean we still talk but I think he doesn't like me the same way. I think he may like one of my other friends but I can...
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WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG?
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 1:21 am
What is wrong with guys...? Why are most guys that I meet immature jerks? Why do they feel the need to have a million girls at once and cannot commit to anything? Also why do guys act differently around their friends than around you and that their friends are sometimes more important.
I am asking this because my friends ex and his friends have been acting this way for a very long time and I just don't know why they think they can get away with it...it doesn't make any sense to me that this happens...
Guys please don't get offended. I am not talking about all guys...just a lot of the one's I have met.
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boys
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 11:54 pm
ok well i really like this guy who goes to my school rite. well i'm to much of a chicken to go up to him and just talk to him even tho like we kno eachother.. idk if i should tell him how i feel or if i should just stick to the outskirts...ugh i'm sooo confused what should i do? if i do talk to him what should we talk about?
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My bf keeps hurting me acting like he doesnt care
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 11:23 pm
my bf and i are best friends and i love him but we keep having problems. first things have been a little rocky because im moving faaar away in June. like a 2 day drive away. the problem now tho is that i went to where im gonna live soon to look at houses and schools and stuff with my parents for a week and his phone is broken (just broke last week a couple days before i left state) he called me on his friend's phone on friday and tried to get in touch through IM but i didnt have a computer. and he emailed Sunday but never replied to my email (i borrowed my friends computer) the last couple days i have tried really hard to get in touch and now it seems he doesnt care. he didnt email me or call on his brother's phone or his mom's or dad's. he...
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This guy......
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 10:26 pm
Ok basicaly i was new to the school i go to now at teh beginning of the year. I saw a guy in my choir class and thought he was really cute. Once i met some new people i told one of them i thought he was cute. Then one day we were walking to choir class and the guys was about 3 feet in front of us. My friends decided to yell "(my name) likes you" and he kinda cocked his head a little. Well to the point now, he keeps looking at me like he always looks at me now and i really like him well ok i dont "like" him cause well i dont know him but i would like to but i'm to nervous to even talk to him. So do you think he likes me or is just like ew she likes me" or what lol?
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guy guy !! help please
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 9:23 pm
ok i met this guy at a party and we hooked up a cuople times and grinded and i mean we hooked up allot.. and i was leaving he asked for my number and he alls me all the time...and i think he really loves me alot thats what he syad beacuse i no i fell in love with this kid in less then a week. and he said his crazy about me..and you know you meet people at clubs and there all fake well his that guy he calls me none stop and txts me everyday since we met and im suppose to be going out with him this weeknd ...amd i stupid...or should i be worried or something...do you really think he loves me ...is this even possible please help !! ???
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does he like me or not
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 8:50 pm
13/f
well here i go, well my ex boyfriend and me r not together and on my birthday i had a party and he came wit his family i was waering a show off offit and he looked me up n down and i said stop looking at me and then he stoped.the next day my ma had to go to talk to his mother and i had just gotten my new celllphone and my lil brother asked who is on there i said everybody just playing and he did not look at me evn when i got there so i guessed he was mad.so 2 weeks after that i went wit my ma to work and he was there and my ma bought pizza and i was at the itchen eating and he was to and he was getting close to my face so i said back off because his little cousin was there and he was talking to her and tahts when he got close ...
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failing in love with a good friend
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 7:29 pm
lately i'm been finding myself falling in love with one of my good friends and he's also in the "clique" that i hang out with but i'm so afraid to tell him because i really love being his friend and i don't want to ruin that and even if i tell him i dont want it to ruin our friendship, it probably won't but it will still make things awkward for me cause i won't know how to act towards him...i need alot of advice, what should i do? thankss
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does he like me?
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 7:14 pm
yess, i put a question about this before... but something else came up. but if you didn't read it, this is what's going on. i have an ex boyfriend, and me & him broke up 2 years ago, and we had a REALLY harsh break up. and he avoided me for two years.. and this is the second year, which is this year, he messaged me at of nowhere apologizing to me for hurting me before. and he told me that he still haven't gotten over me, and he wanted to start over with me. and 2 days later we stopped talking for a while, so i was thinking maybe he was just joking around saying that he still liked me, or maybe he stopped talking to me for a while, because i have a boyfriend. -- the situation now, is that, i was hanging out with his little sister before ...
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confused..
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 7:03 pm
15/f
well, i've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months. and the thing is, i'm not sure how i feel at the moment. i KNOW i can do better, because he treats me bad at times, and he gets too overly paranoid. he gets paranoid by saying that i can't talk to guys. -___-" and he got mad at me for going to target after school with my friend, which is a girl. because he says that there are probably guys there... but anywho.. i seem to be annoyed with him often also. but yet when something happens that could possibly break us up.. that's when i start getting scared.. but i don't do anything about it. i don't get as scared as i used to.. but i still get scared and nervous. when he used to say "never let me go" i feel ...
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In Love???
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 3:15 pm
ok so im trying to figure out if im in love or in lust.
my bf and i only see each other on the weekends. so during the week we talk a lot and stuff like that and then when we see each other on the weekends we talk and watch tv and stuff but most of the time we makeout. a lot. haha and whenever we are together like at youth group or w/e we are always so attracted to each other and sometimes sneak off to kiss. is this just lust? we care deeply about each other but whenever we are together we always find a way to makeout. and whenever i am with him i want to hold his hand or have him put his arm around me etc.
he and i have been best friends for like 2 yrs and for like 4 months before dating he and i really like...
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So I have a crush on a pot head..
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 1:30 pm
14 / f
I go to an alternative school, and we have very small classes of 5-10 people. There's a certain boy in my class who I really do like him a lot. He's nice, and he's showed and expressed interest in me -- but the problem is he can only seem to say it when he's high. He'll flirt with me in class, and call me later in the night and I can tell that he's completely gone, and he says things he usually wouldn't. He seems to want to get high at every turn. I've never done drugs or had any interest in them, so I have no idea where he's coming from.
I'm put off by the fact that he's a pot head, but at the same time I can't just stop liking him all together. He asks me to come hang out with him all the time, but I d...
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i miss...
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 9:29 am
yeah so for a while i was obssed with my ex and then i came on here and got some advice and i was over him but hes coming back to me but not in a good way why is it that i feel angry when i think of him? and that i feel like im the uglyest girl in the world?
and that at the same time i still like hima lot? i cant get him out of my head!!!! i need serious help..... ):
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