lately i'm been finding myself falling in love with one of my good friends and he's also in the "clique" that i hang out with but i'm so afraid to tell him because i really love being his friend and i don't want to ruin that and even if i tell him i dont want it to ruin our friendship, it probably won't but it will still make things awkward for me cause i won't know how to act towards him...i need alot of advice, what should i do? thankss
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? softballbabe2610 answered Thursday March 27 2008, 1:54 am: well actually i just went though this to.
crushing on one of your really good guys friend is trust one of the hardest things to go though, cause you dont want to ruin the friendship but yet ypu feel horrible cause ypu want to tell him.
i would first lay a couple of hints.
and then tell him.
and then if he likes you to,
then it could work out
but make sure you guys promise to stay friends if you guys break up.
but you really never know what he's resaction would be until ypu try
cause that is what i did and it worked out great!
hopes that help
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cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday March 26 2008, 11:56 pm: This is one of those things that anything could happen. If you tell him it could ruin your friendship or create a whole different relationship. I personally would tell him, because it is going to bother you forever if you don't. You will always wonder what if you had you know.
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