yess, i put a question about this before... but something else came up. but if you didn't read it, this is what's going on. i have an ex boyfriend, and me & him broke up 2 years ago, and we had a REALLY harsh break up. and he avoided me for two years.. and this is the second year, which is this year, he messaged me at of nowhere apologizing to me for hurting me before. and he told me that he still haven't gotten over me, and he wanted to start over with me. and 2 days later we stopped talking for a while, so i was thinking maybe he was just joking around saying that he still liked me, or maybe he stopped talking to me for a while, because i have a boyfriend. -- the situation now, is that, i was hanging out with his little sister before she went back home since she traveled down here for spring break. and i didn't really expect to see him, but we ran into each other. it was VERY awkward, because we went through alot when we were together.. and i acted like he wasn't there, because i didn't know what to say and because i was nervous. when we saw each other again, he stared at me for a while, when he was looking my way.. i turned my head the way he was looking. and i think he knew that i was looking for cute guys, because everytime when i turn around looking for a cute guy, he goes "what are ya'll talking about?" or "what are ya'll looking at?" and he turns around too. and he hears me say "omgg.. he's soo cute." and he stares at me. then later on that day, i messaged him apologizing telling him why i didn't talk to him that much, and i explained everything. then he aimed me and we talked till four in the morning. and i wanted to find out if he still liked me, so i asked about this one girl that he talked about before. and he goes "everybody wants me to go out with her. -_-" and i said "then why don't you?" and he goes "idk.. naw.. she already has somebody i don't wanna interfere" when he said that.. maybe he stopped talking for a while because he didn't wanna interfere with me & my boyfriend also. and then i said "and what if she didn't have someone?" and he goes "idk.. maybe.. but i'm confused." and i said "why?" and he said "because i also like this other girl you see.." and i was wondering who was the other girl, if it was still me.. or he literally likes 2 girls. but he wouldn't tell me who. so far.. i know he likes one girl that lives in his city, i don't know who is the other girl. i'm not sure if it's me.. or someone else.
so, do you think he still likes me.. and that i'm the other girl he likes?
cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday March 26 2008, 8:39 pm: I think that he really does still like you, but as for the other girl I can't really say. I don't know him and I'm not in his head so no one can really tell you what he is thinking. You said you have a boyfriend well do you still like your boyfriend or do you want to date your ex? If you want to date your ex then I think you should break up with your boyfriend and tell your ex that you still have feelings for him. If you don't want to be with your ex then you just need to calm down and be friends with him. Yes its going to be awkward for a little while but sooner or later you will get more comfortable and maybe find a great best friend.
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