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yeah so for a while i was obssed with my ex and then i came on here and got some advice and i was over him but hes coming back to me but not in a good way why is it that i feel angry when i think of him? and that i feel like im the uglyest girl in the world?
and that at the same time i still like hima lot? i cant get him out of my head!!!! i need serious help..... ):
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You feel you're the ugliest girl in the world because you're outside of a relationship now, and you want to blame yourself in some way.
Your anger for him is yourself telling you that he's bad news and don't get back with him, it won't work out.
You're still in an emotional battle with yourself over him though, because you did at one point have feelings for him, and you're still coping with that.
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this is jus like me its like you wanna be with him but you just cant. first you need to ex him out of your life only way you can get over him is if you have no cantact with him! you need to move on his not the only guy in the world trust me you will find someone better!
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Start dating other people. Find something you really like to do. Examine why you feel ugly and why you are stuck in this spot. Is it your family dynamics? Depression? Obsessive personality trait? I am a very obsessive person, i can get obsessed with anything/anyone, so it's not the guy i can't get over, it's the "not getting over stuff" that I can't do. I can't get over anything, ( old jobs, old cars, old friends, old losses). So, I try to remember that its not the object of my obsession, its my obsessiveness. I find positive obsessions and that keeps my mind off the guy.
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This is common for people after a break up. First you can't get over them, then once you do you get so pissed at them for everything. You shouldn't feel you are the ugliest girl in the world though, you should never let a guy bring your self confidence down like that. As for getting him out of your head the best thing to do is to keep busy. Go out with friends, get a hobby, maybe even go out on some dates. It's going to be difficult at first but things will get easier with time.
Hope I Helped.
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