|
WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG?
What is wrong with guys...? Why are most guys that I meet immature jerks? Why do they feel the need to have a million girls at once and cannot commit to anything? Also why do guys act differently around their friends than around you and that their friends are sometimes more important.
I am asking this because my friends ex and his friends have been acting this way for a very long time and I just don't know why they think they can get away with it...it doesn't make any sense to me that this happens...
Guys please don't get offended. I am not talking about all guys...just a lot of the one's I have met.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Most guys are very scared of a commitement, especially in their teen years, so don't take that to offensively.
As for the whole acting different around friends thing guys want to pull off a whole different persona around their guy friends. They don't want them to see their sweet thoughtful side, they have to show their tough guy side. Most of them just really haven't found out who they are either. You better get used to it because all guys are like that haha.
Hope I Helped.
]
Assuming you are a young teen they are
acting that way because thats just the
way young male teens act.
Commitment to one person comes later in
life. When you are young you are supposed
to look around at different people. The
whole idea of young teens sticking like
glue to one person isn't really the way
its supposed to work. You are hunting for
that one special person. You need to date
more than one to see whats out there to
choose from.
Guys act differently around their friends
because they are comfortable with them.
Girls do the same. :)
]
Why are you allowing this to be your problem?
Some guys, and girls for that matter, engage in petty and immature behavoir. The correct response is too have as little to do with them as possible. Delving into 'why' they behave this way isn't going to help you any. It doesn't matter if they are insecure, or frightened or suffering under peer preasure, none of that changes the end result of them behaving like a jerk. So, just stop dealing with them.
If they aren't a possitive element of your life, why do you allow them to consume so much time and mental energy? Why are get upset over something you can't change?
He's an ex afterall. Let him be an ex. Ignore him and let it go.
]
More Questions: |