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i love a special someone
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 10:56 pm
hi, i need advice. im 16 and the guy i love is a bit older than me. my parents want let me be with him so i have to sneak. i do feel horrible about it. i really want a relationship with him. i dont know what to do. please help!
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Shy
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 6:04 pm
there is this girl i like and i know she likes me but we are both very timid and quiet so its gets awkward sometimes?
wats the best way of getting over this awkwardness afd just getting to know her better?
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My Dream (if you want to interpret)
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 4:56 pm
So I had a dream about my fiance and I. In my dream he was straight forward and honest about any question I ever had (spoken or thought) relating to our relationship. For the two major questions I had, the answers were things that hurt me (he did or intended to do stuff that would be bad for our relationship). When he gave me the answers afterwards he tried to hold me and i pulled away (calmly) and just left him. I looked at my phone later and had 97 missed calls - when I listened to the messages they were clips from songs saying he loved me and basically he wanted our relationship to go back to the way it was when we first started. --- Eventually we were fine but I'm not sure if the fine part was the start of a new dream so it might no...
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One of my friends boyfriends told me he loved me
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 4:24 pm
Well you see i have a friend i'm not particularly close too but some of my friends are. She's been dating a really good friend of mine for awhile. My friend asked me out before he met her but i said no since i didn't really know him and we stayed friends. We have alot in common becuase i play sports with him, video games, watch gory movies, listen to music and so on. I'm the girl that hangs out with the guys, basically. Him and his girlfriend are going through problems, ok only him. He's smarter than his girlfriend, i ahte to be bitchy but its true she could be happy with any guy forever as long as she convinces herself he's perfect. I kinda envy her for that, Ignorance is bliss after all. Thing is he can't do that. He notices that they ha...
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Advice for my friend
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 3:05 pm
I have a friend who recently experienced this problem and I don't know what kind of advice to give her. Her and her bf (of a few years) got into a fight. He called her a bad name (c___), she smacked him and he smacked her back (she said it was pretty hard but that he told her he did it by accident kind of a reaction or something).. He's never hit her before nor does he seem like that kind of guy to me. She's not sure if this should be a big deal to her and while I normally say you should never stay with a man who hits you she did hit him first. What should I tell her? =/
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Is this stupid?
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 3:02 pm
My fiance lies to me about stupid things. My beliefs are that there's nothing more important in a relationship (whether it's mother&child/husband&wife etc) than honesty. I don't mean NEVER lying because sometimes people need to be told they look great on a crappy day haha but never lying about big things. On the whole, my fiance is an amazing man but like I said, he lies about these stupid things. I get angry about him lying, not about what he has lied about. How can I get it through his head that if he tells me the truth, no matter what it is, I love him and we will work through whatever? His lies cause me to snoop and I absolutely hate being like that!
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boyfriends birthday.
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 2:50 pm
my boyfriends birthday is in less than one month. he spent like over 200 on me. i want to spend alot on him also. b ut the problem is i have no idea what to get him. he will be turning sixteen. hes not really into sports but hes an amazing boyfriend and i want to get something that no one else will be able to top & some thing that he will love and always use or have. any ideas ?
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Tell me
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 2:15 pm
Hello... I'm having boy troubles. I have a boyfriend and his bestfriend [who is a girl] likes him too. He is always hanging out with her more than with me. Should i ask him if he likes her or would that damage our relationship? Pleases help
Sincerely,
?LoVeStUcK?
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But this isn't finished! Help.
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 2:00 pm
There's this guy that I liked. He is a really really great guy, and I never felt like I had to be anyone else around him.
He found out I liked him from a friend, and me and him kind of talked about it over text, and the next day, he was acting all smiley around me. But a few days later, things went right back to being awkward. I sent him two more texts between Monday and Friday, asking him his thoughts about it. He never responded, but just acted weird and nervous.
For the past two days, I kind of haven't talked to him, because I was a little hurt that he never responded back, or tried to talk to me in school about it. I don't know what reason there was for it. I thought he liked me, judging by the fact that he...
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after your first time
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 11:22 am
ok...
so me and my boyfriend finally did it like 2 weeks ago. he only went in once and he had a condom on. but i am late on my period. one of my friends said it was cuz he popped my cherry. and others say i might be pregnant. which one is more likly??
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Guy problems
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 11:48 pm
Alright.. I have an amazing boy friend who I've been going out for almost 5 months now, but lately I've developed feelings for another guy. I think about him all the time and he always smiles at me.
Is that normal?
What do you think I should do?
-sigh...
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i am comfused
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 11:44 pm
hi, pls can anyone help me? i am in relatioship with a girl which i dont love. she took it very serous. pls how can i come out of it.
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gio
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 11:43 pm
well I was with this guy at the start of the year well we broke up and he still told people that he likes me...me and him had stopped talking for a while and then started talking again because we both hung around with this girl named millisa now when i sy talk i mean hi and bye in the hall she tells me he likes me but she lies alot..well latley he has been talking to me and giving me hugs when ever I ask for them..but whenever anyone else asks for hug he says no...and when any of my friends try to talk to him he walks away without saying much..now can this mean he likes me or am I just a cool friend
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Making him happy. (Sorry kinda long.)
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 10:02 pm
I will have been with my boyfriend for 3 years come early July. I love him a lot and he claims to feel the same. Things in his life have been pretty rough lately, so sometimes he's depressed.
I have begun to notice that the only time he is happy, smiling, or laughing is when he is with his friends. I can't even remember the last time he was happy to be just with me. This really concerns me, as I feel it's kinda important to make him happy since I'm his girlfriend.
I'm always wondering if he would just be happy with someone else and if I should move on. I don't want to lose him, but I love him enough to let him go if I can't make him happy like he needs to be.
I know that I need to talk to him and...
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am i really a player
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 8:17 pm
back in janurary i cheated on my boyfriend after i told him i found out that on new years that he jumped out of a window and got a concussion and almost died. i ended up dumping the person i cheated with and went back with my original does that make me a player? i feel so horrible about it everytime i think about it i feel like a monster who doesnt deserve to live how do i deal with this
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Is he depressed over me?
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 3:03 pm
I need an honest viewpoint on this.
Lets say you're a 16 year old girl and you broke up with your 16 year old boyfriend (which is my case). You broke up with him because he's been giving you really obvious hints that he didn't wanna be together anymore. He even said so one time. After a week of breaking up, he sends you a text saying something like: "You're contagious because I cried for no reason last night"
and all of a sudden, you start seeing your ex boyfriend depressed. (he never was before...in fact, he was happy). He tries to flirt with you more... He doesn't eat at lunch...he feels really sad and crappy. He doesnt flirt with girls like he usually did to try and make you jealous. He just sits in your...
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Is he no longer interested in me?
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 2:04 pm
I have been involved with my x-husband for 17 years now. We were married for 5 years and have been divorced for 2 years now. He has become so distant, and boring. We don't talk anymore, or do anything anymore and everytime I try to talk to him about our future he changes the subject. We used to talk about everything all the time. We were best friends. He doesn't answer any of my emails from work anymore. He doesn't call me on his lunch or breaks anymore. The only thing he wants to do when we have free time is sleep. Everytime I ask what he would like to do, he responds saying whatever you want to do, or whatever you want to eat. He asked me to remarry him 10 months ago, but I said No, I needed time. Now when I try to discuss the subject, he...
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Hes always lieing to me..
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 9:39 am
So I found out that my boyfriend of 2 months lied to me about smokeing weed. he swore he would never lie again but obviously i dont belive him considering he lied the first time. Now that hes lied, I always think that hes lieing to me about EVERYTHING..I dont want to break up with him but I dont want to be with him if I think hes lieing..I know this is confusing but how can I just find out the truth when I think hes lieing? Should I just trust him until I catch him in the act? PLEASE HELP!
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good age/stage of life for serious dating
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 1:34 am
This might be a silly question, but I just want your opinions.
When is the age that you should (well, not 'should'... you know what I mean) start dating. Like really be looking for a long-term relationships and even potentially a future husband? I've never really dated seriously before, and I would just like to know what a good age/stage in life would be to start looking for a potential husband.
I'm 17 and a half, and I would to get married at 21-22. (I'll be done with college when I'm 21, and I want to have a kid before 24... LOL I know I'm weird).
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Polyamory?
Posted Friday May 16 2008, 1:25 am
Exactly how does one know they are polyamorous? Is it just a cop-out term to justify cheating, or is it a real condition?
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