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Hello... I'm having boy troubles. I have a boyfriend and his bestfriend [who is a girl] likes him too. He is always hanging out with her more than with me. Should i ask him if he likes her or would that damage our relationship? Pleases help
Sincerely,
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Just remember-- if you're boyfriend wanted to be with this other friend of his, then he would do it.
If it's obvious enough to you that she likes him, then he must know it, too.
With that initiative, he'd could chose to stay with you, or start over with her. If it's still with you, you're what he wants. Don't let any insecurities change that for you.
If you really need reassurance, then ask him straight up if he may have feelings for someone else. I doubt he's stay with you if he wanted someone he could have.
Hope all goes well!
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think i can help you
you can simply ask him about it and don't talk in
affensive voice , he will think that you can't trust
him in your relationship and maybe your relation
should stop for awhile intill you can trust him.
It's a normall thing to be hanging around with
your other friends. My friend(thats a boy ) was hanging with his girlfriend but hanging with me and my other friends(that are girls) more often than with his girl friend. He asked her if it's ok if he hangs out with us certain times, she said yes most
of the time.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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It won't damage your relationship if you ask him. He is your boyfriend - you are supposed to talk to each other about anything that's bothering you with your relationship, so you can get through it.
Just don't keep getting on at him about it, because it can push him away and he will think you don't believe/trust him.
Who knows, you might be able to come to a compromise where you two can hang out together more. Don't get paranoid about him spending time with friends, though. He shouldn't neglect them because he has a girlfriend.
I wish you the best of luck.
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If it bothers you, then yes, you should ask him. But don't immediately accuse her of being in love with him, because that might not even be the case.
Just talk to him about it. Tell him that you feel like he hangs out with this friend more than you, and it makes you somewhat uncomfortable. Then, ask him if she thinks of him as more than a friend, or if she really is just one of his friends.
-Laura. (15-f)
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hmm i had this problem... except she was in love with him... ask him. confront him but calmly...no attitude...no grudges... hopefully he'll be honest. you didnt specify how long you guys have been dating...but if it's been long enough he should tell you the truth because his feelings depend on your guys' relationship, and any minor mistake can break yoiu guys apart.. so just ask... g0od luck =]
p.s let him know how you feel (honestly)
flirty
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Ask him ONCE. Believe me when i say this, do not pester him over and over about this. You should ask him if it really does bother you. It won't damage your relationship if your truthful and straight forward about how you feel. Ask him about it, tell him you feel a little insecure but you just want a truthful answer. Then its just about trust after that. Understand although she's his friend your the one he kisses and holds and says he loves and wants to be with. If he wanted to be with her, he would be with her. You just ahve to trust him, if you dont learn that, it will kill what you ahve with him
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