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But this isn't finished! Help.
There's this guy that I liked. He is a really really great guy, and I never felt like I had to be anyone else around him.
He found out I liked him from a friend, and me and him kind of talked about it over text, and the next day, he was acting all smiley around me. But a few days later, things went right back to being awkward. I sent him two more texts between Monday and Friday, asking him his thoughts about it. He never responded, but just acted weird and nervous.
For the past two days, I kind of haven't talked to him, because I was a little hurt that he never responded back, or tried to talk to me in school about it. I don't know what reason there was for it. I thought he liked me, judging by the fact that he'd always come to talk to me, and gets nervous around me.
School is ending on Friday. I mean, I'll see him next year, I think. But I am just sad that I never got to find out whether or not he likes me. It wouldn't be appropriate to text him again, so I won't.
I will just miss him. He's such a cool guy.
I would do something, but what can I do? I don't want to irritate him, if he is giving me the "back off" sign, but I feel like there is no closure here.
I mean....he has my number...if he wanted to call, he could.
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You're absolutely right. I know it's a horrible way to think about it - but if he wanted to get in contact with you, he would.
He knows your feelings and now it all seems like it's in his hands.
It's impossible to say why he's acting this way, as there are multiple reasons (he is confused, he's having problems at the moment, he likes you but he's scared, or he's afraid of telling you he doesn't feel the same)..
I know it's hard, but if I were you, I'd lay off contacting him for now.
Perhaps before you leave you could talk to him, or send him just one more txt. If he doesn't reply or it's awkward etc if you chat in person - It's pretty obvious where you stand.
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Let me first commend you on how strong you are being about this. Most girl would be freaking out right now, calling, texting, going crazy. You're keeping your cool, but I can definitely see your concern with all this.. especially sense school is ending.
My advice is to do one of these two things: You can either talk to him and figure out what exactly is going through his mind. This would have to be in person to read his eyes and body language.
Or, you're going to have to leave this entirely in his hands. This is the easiest way to let him know that he needs to work a little harder-- and it'll give you a break from all the texts he's never responded to. Let him deal with all of this. Let him get a taste of you not trying to talk to him every time you do talk.
Good luck!
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