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am i really a player
back in janurary i cheated on my boyfriend after i told him i found out that on new years that he jumped out of a window and got a concussion and almost died. i ended up dumping the person i cheated with and went back with my original does that make me a player? i feel so horrible about it everytime i think about it i feel like a monster who doesnt deserve to live how do i deal with this
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No, it doesnt make you a player. Its good that you feel horrible about it. Thats the correct emotion. And while you did something fucked up and wrong, hopefully you learned from it and will be a better person in the future because of it. Try to focus on that.
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Hello,
The standard player, or playah, they are often called is someone who has many bf or gf at once. A playah will juggle anywhere from 4 to 10 guys/girls at once. Usually a playah has an ulterior motive like getting money and sex.
You are just a person who cheated on someone you love and now are paying a small price for that little lapse in better judgment.
You deal with it by waking up every morning and continue to learn from your mistake. The guilt will only go away when you let it go.
-- Stay Honest
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no. you are not a player. a player is a person who just jumps from bf/gf to bf/gf and dont care about anybodys feelingsz. they dont feel bad about cheating on anyone and they dont think theyll regret it but one day they will. dont feel bad u r just overreacting ok. u sre a persn like everybody else and everybody else makes a mistake just like you do.
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no. you made a mistake. and players don't feel guilty over what they have done. you do. you are a good person who made a bad decision. and you know now that you won't do it again, don't blame yourself.
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